Zamkati
- Zomwe muyenera kuchita mukazindikira kuti mnzanu akubera?
- Izi ndi zisankho zanu
- Momwe mungathetsere kunyengedwa ndikupita patsogolo
- Ubale pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika
- Moyo pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika
Anthu ndi nyama zocheza.
Pazifukwa zina, timakopeka ndi anthu ena, mosasamala kanthu momwe angawonekere achinsinsi. Zili mikhalidwe yathu kukhazikitsa ubale wathu ndi anthu ena. Tikukhulupirira kuti tipeze yapaderayi yomwe tikufuna kudzipereka kwathunthu ndikukhala moyo wathu wonse.
Tsoka ilo, moyo samayenda nthawi zonse malinga ndi dongosolo.
Kusakhulupirika nthawi zina kumabweretsa nkhope yake yoyipa. Mukayamba kunyengedwa, zinthu zimasintha. Zimaphwanya chiyembekezo chathu ndi maloto athu ndikutitumiza kumalo amdima.
Zomwe muyenera kuchita mukazindikira kuti mnzanu akubera?
Kodi mumathana bwanji ndi zovuta zomwe zimatsatira mukatsimikizira zolakwa za mnzanu?
Sitikukayikira kukayikira mlandu kuchokera pazokopa kapena mphekesera zomwe mudamva kuchokera kwa anzanu. Apa ndipamene mumakhala ndi umboni wokwanira kapena kuvomereza kuti mnzanu wakunyengani.
Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ndikudziletsa.
Ndikudziwa kuti ndikophweka kunena kuposa kuchita. Ngakhale zitakhala ngati lingaliro labwino kutayira mnzanuyo galimoto kapena kudula wina wachitatu zidutswa zana ndi mpeni wakakhitchini. Limenelo ndi lingaliro loipa lokhala ndi zotsatirapo zokhalitsa.
Mutha kuthera nthawi yanu muli nokha kapena ndi anzanu kuti mukhale chete, ndikusunga zinthu kuti zisawonongeke.
Padzakhala zokambirana za kutha kwa banja chifukwa munanyenga, kapena mnzanuyo ananyengana nanu. Zonse ndi zongomva, choncho ingokhalani chete, mpaka mutakambirana zonse ndi mnzanuyo momveka bwino.
Palibe chomwe chimayikidwa pamiyala. Chilichonse chimangokhala m'mutu mwanu ndipo palibe chabwino chomwe chimatuluka mwa aliyense akamavulala.
Mutakhazikika inu ndi mnzanu. Yakwana nthawi yokambirana zomwe mungachite.
Izi ndi zisankho zanu
- Kambiranani nkhaniyi, khululuka (pamapeto pake), ndikupita patsogolo.
- Khalani osiyana ndi zikhalidwe
- Zamuyaya lekana/ kusudzulana
- Samalani wina ndi mnzake
- Kuwonongeka ndikuvutika maganizo
- Chitani chinthu chosaloledwa
Chisankho choyamba chokha ndi chomwe chimasunthira mtsogolo ndi ubale wabwino.
Zotsatira zitatuzi zitanthauza kuti ubale watha mwanjira ina kapena ina ndipo chitani zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mupewe awiri omaliza.
Momwe mungathetsere kunyengedwa ndikupita patsogolo
Onani wothandizira, ngati amenewo ndi malingaliro omwe akulamulira malingaliro anu. Izi ndi zitsanzo zakusokereredwa ndikusintha, koma tikukhulupirira kuti zikusinthani bwino.
Chinthu choyamba chomwe muyenera kuchita kuti musunthe ndikukhululuka.
Sitikunena kuti muyenera kuyiwala zonse zomwe zidachitika ndikukhala limodzi ngati palibe chomwe chidachitika. Muzikhululuka pokhapokha mnzanu atakhala wachisoni komanso wofunitsitsa kukonza zinthu.
Gawo lina lofunika lokhululuka ndikuti mumachita zenizeni. Simumagwiritsa ntchito kunyengerera mnzanu mtsogolo ndikubweretsa zokumbukira zoyipa.
Lamulani chidani chanu ndi mkwiyo wanu, zidzatha pakapita nthawi, koma mutha kukhululukira munthu ngakhale izi zisanachitike.
Mukakhululukira munthuyo pakamwa ngakhale simunakhululukire mumtima mwanu, yesetsani kumanganso ubale wanu. Pangani bwino, konzani zonse, makamaka zazing'ono.
Kusakhulupirika kochuluka kumabadwa chifukwa chonyong'onyeka ndi kuchepa.
Onetsetsani kuti wokondedwa wanu akuyesetsa, ngati angathe, yankhaninso. Ubale ndi njira ziwiri. Musapangitse zovuta kukhala zovuta kuposa momwe ziliri kale.
Popita nthawi, zinthu zikuyenera kukhala bwino. Nthawi zonse zimatero. Ngati nonse mumayika chikondi ndi khama.
Ubale pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika
Kodi mumatha bwanji kunyengedwa?
Ndizosavuta, nthawi imachiritsa mabala onse, ndipo zimaphatikizapo inu. Kuswa malonjezo kumapweteketsa. Kusakhulupirika kumamveka ngati kutha kwa dziko, koma mwatsoka, kumangomva choncho. Dziko likupitilizabe kusintha ndipo zinthu zimatha kukhala bwino nthawi zonse.
Mutha kumva kuti simungakhulupirire munthu wina aliyense. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazomwe zimachitika m'mene kubedwa kukusinthani. Ndi mfundo yovomerezeka ndipo ndizovuta kudaliranso pambuyo pake. Koma simungakhale achimwemwe osadaliranso.
Pitani patsogolo tsiku limodzi panthawi yomwe onse awiri amayesetsa kuthetsa ubale wawo ndikumanganso chidaliro. Ndi njira yokhayo yopitira. Sizichitika tsiku limodzi, koma zidzachitika pamapeto pake. Gawo labwino kwambiri ndiloti inu ndi mnzanu mukapitiliza kuchita izi, ubale wanu umalimba kuposa kale.
Si njira yophweka, ndiye kuti palibe ubale wolimba ngati womwewo.
Simalankhula za chipembere ndi utawaleza, ndikumanga moyo pamodzi.
Kumanga chilichonse sikophweka, ndipo moyo sindiwo keke. Koma inu ndi mnzanu mukuyembekeza kuti kuchita limodzi kumapangitsa ulendowu kukhala wosangalatsa kwambiri.
Ngati simungadzikhulupirire munthuyo pazifukwa zilizonse, mwina simungathe, kapena sakukhulupirika, mungaganize zokambirana ndi mlangizi wazokwatirana kapena wothandizira.
Moyo pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika
Matenda okhumudwa ndi njira ina yomwe kubedwa kukusinthani.
Anthu ena samangodutsa ndipo zimasiya dzenje lalikulu mumtima ndi mumtima mwawo. Zonse ndizosankha. Mutha kutha ndikupeza wina watsopano, kapena mutha kungokonza zomwe muli nazo kale.
Kumbukirani, ngati mutha kutha, mumataya zinthu zambiri, makamaka ngati muli ndi ana.
Nthawi zina chimakhala chisankho choyenera ngati mupitilizabe kukhala pachibwenzi, koma ngati simuli choncho, ndibwino kuyesetsabe. Palinso miyoyo ina yosalakwa yomwe ili pachiwopsezo. Kuphatikizapo zanu.
Zitha kutenga milungu, miyezi, kapenanso zaka kuti achire kwathunthu ku zowawa za kusakhulupirika.
Kubera ena kumasintha anthu motsimikiza, koma amatha kukula kapena kufooka. Chisankhocho ndi chanu.