Zamkati
- 1. Itanani Mulungu ku moyo wanu
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- 2. Khalani yankho
- 3. Pangani moyo wawo kukhala wabwino
- 4. Osasiya kuyesera
Mungamve ngati mukugwirizana ndi wokondedwa wanu ndipo kuti zinthu zili bwino, koma mungakhale ndi nthawi yomwe muyenera kulingalira momwe mungatetezere banja ku chisudzulo.
Izi sizinthu zomwe mukufuna kuziwona ngati njira, koma ngati mungathe kunena kuti 'umu ndi m'mene ndapulumutsira banja langa kusudzulana' zimangokupatsani mphamvu ngati banja.
Ndipo, osakayikira konse m'malingaliro mwanu, 'ndichedwa kwambiri kupulumutsa ukwati wanga?' M'malo mwake, sikuchedwa kwambiri. Mutha kusaka pa intaneti kuti mupeze njira zosiyanasiyana 'zopulumutsira banja langa kusudzulana.'
Khulupirirani kapena ayi, itha kukhala nkhani yopeza malingaliro ndikupeza kudzoza kuchokera kumwamba. Apa ndipomwe kutembenukira ku mphamvu ya 'pemphero lopulumutsa banja langa,' ndipo kufunafuna njira zopangira mnzanu wosangalala kungapangitse kusiyana konse padziko lapansi!
Ngati muli ngati ine, ndiye mukudziwa kuti nthawi zina banja limatha kukhala lolimba. Mutha kukhala banja labwino kwambiri papepala ndipo mutha kukhala ndi zovuta monga banja lina lililonse. Koma ngati mwadzipereka pazomwe mukufuna ndipo mukufuna kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino, muyenera kusintha malingaliro amenewo.
Kungokhala kunena kuti chisudzulo sichotheka.
Chifukwa chake dziperekeni ndikunena kuti ndipulumutsa banja langa ndikupanga ntchitoyi. Inde, mutha kutero, ngakhale mutha kukwiya kapena kukhumudwa panjira nthawi zina ndipo zili bwino!
Ngati mukumva ngati kuti mukusowa kudzoza kapena chilimbikitso, Nazi njira zina zopulumutsira banja ku chisudzulo zomwe ndikulimbikitsani kuti muziyang'ana.
Momwe mungapulumutsire banja ku chisudzulo
1. Itanani Mulungu ku moyo wanu
Nthawi zina umayenera kupereka zonse kwa Mulungu. Pali mphamvu yayikulu mu pemphero ndipo itha kukuthandizani kuti mukhale oyenera.
Ngati mukumva ngati kuti mwafika pakhoma la njerwa, kapena mukuvutika muukwati wanu, ndiye kuti iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri. Mutha kukwiya ndipo mwina mungadabwe kuti bwanji Mulungu wakupatsani banja ili lomwe lili ndi mavuto, koma pachithunzithunzi chachikulu, pemphero lanu lingakuthandizeni.
Itanani Mulungu mkati ndipo mudzapeza kuti mutha kunena, monga ine, kuti ndi momwe ndapulumutsira banja langa kusudzulana. Zonse zikalephera, perekani kwa Mulungu ndipo pempherani kuti akuthandizeni. Izi zitha kupanga kusiyana konse padziko lapansi komanso kukuthandizani kuti mupeze kumveka bwino kuti mufike panjira yoyenera.
Kupemphera kumatha kukupatsani bata.
Komanso, kuyankhula ndi Mulungu kumakuthandizani kuzindikira chomwe chingakhale chinthu chobwezeretsa zinthu panjira kamodzi.
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2. Khalani yankho
Zowonadi, mwina mnzanu ali ndi zolakwa zawo, koma pamapeto pake, izi ndi zakukhalanso bwino. Ndikudziwa kuti mwina mukutsutsana ndi lingaliro loti ndinu gawo lavutoli, koma tonsefe tili ndi mlandu pazomwezi.
Pomwe ndimakhala nthawi yayitali ndimangoganizira zomwe mnzanga amalakwitsa, sindimayang'ana kwambiri zolakwika zomwe ndimabweretsa pagome.
Ndidadziyika ndekha m'maganizo mwawo ndipo ndidaganiziradi zomwe ndimachita zomwe zimapangitsa banja kutha.
Zinakhudzana kwambiri ndikazindikira madera anga akulu kwambiri, kuthana ndi zolakwazo, ndikusankha kuti ndithana ndi zovuta zomwe ndimapereka zomwe zimasokoneza banja lathu losangalala.
Ngati mukuyenera kupulumutsa banja ku chisudzulo, muyenera kuyamba kuyang'ana kwambiri pamavuto abanja ndikupeza mayankho oyenera kuthana nawo.
3. Pangani moyo wawo kukhala wabwino
Inde, mnzanu akuyenera kukuchitirani izi ndipo mudzadabwitsidwa kuti atero mukayamba kuyang'ana kwambiri pa iwo. Yambani kufunsa zomwe mungachite kuti moyo wawo ukhale wabwino.
Yambani kuganizira njira zothetsera mavutowa ndikukhalapo nthawi zambiri, potengera zosowa zawo. Mudzawona kuti mwachilengedwe amafuna kuwabwezera chifukwa akuwona kuti mumasamala ndipo mukuyesetsa.
Pogwira ntchito kuti mkazi wanga azisangalala, zidandisangalatsa ndipo zonsezi ndi gawo lalikulu la momwe ndapulumutsira banja langa. Zonse ndikukhala okwatirana omwe mwakhala mukufunako kukhala ndikuphunzira kukonza moyo wawo.
Inde, muyenera kulandira zomwezi, ndipo mudzazipeza zikaona kuti mumawakonda kwambiri. Ndiye mayendedwe abwino omwe amapindulitsadi nonse!
Onaninso zithunzi zaukwati wanu. Ngati mukuyembekezera nthawi yomwe munganene monyadira kuti lingaliro lakusudzulana lidapulumutsa ukwati wanga, ndiye kuti mukungogwiritsitsa pachidutswa chomaliza pachabe.
Ndi inu omwe mungayesetse kupeza njira zopulumutsira banja lanu.
4. Osasiya kuyesera
Payekha, ndinaganiza zosasiya kuyesera. Ndidaganiza kuti ndinali womangika komanso wotsimikiza mtima kupangitsa wokondedwa wanga kukhala wosangalala, motero ndi thandizo la Mulungu, ndidapanga lingaliro langa ndi cholinga changa. Pali masiku abwino ndi oyipa, koma tili mgulu limodzi ndipo sindidzaleka kuyesayesa.
Kupatula apo, sindingayembekezere kuti mngelo abwera kuchokera kumwamba kudzapulumutsa ukwati wanga kusudzulana. Monga tanenera poyamba, muyenera kuyesayesa ndikupeza njira zosiyanasiyana zamomwe mungapulumutsire banja lanu lisanayambe kutha.
Ndidzagwira ntchito nthawi zonse kuti ena akhale osangalala. Chifukwa chake, ndikudziwa kuti tonse pamodzi titha kupilira ndi mphamvu ya pemphero komanso kudzoza koona kuti tonse tikhale osangalala -ndimo ndi momwe ndapulumutsira banja langa ku chisudzulo kamodzi ndipo inunso mutha kutero!