Zamkati
- Momwe timaonera zogonana
- Kugonana kwakukulu pakati pa inu ndi munthu wanu kumatenga nthawi kuti apange
- Ubwino wogonana
- Zomwe zimafunikira pakugonana komwe kwadzaza ndi zozimitsa moto: Chinsinsi
- Kuyendetsa kotsika (kapena kulibe)
- Pangani nthawi yogonana, simudzanong'oneza bondo
Kufunika kwakugonana kwa amayi nthawi zambiri kumanyalanyazidwa. Komabe, kwa akazi ambiri, kugonana kumatenga gawo lofunika kwambiri muubwenzi wokondana.
Nthawi zambiri imakhala guluu yolumikizana monga banja. Sikuti zimangotithandiza kumva kulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wathu, koma kugonana kumapangitsanso mahomoni "akumva bwino", monga Oxytocin, omwe amatipangitsa kuti tikhale olimba, olimba, komanso osangalala.
Ndikofunika kulabadira kutentha kwa ubale wathu, popeza ichi ndi chizindikiro cha momwe banja likuchitira.
Kugonana kwakukulu? Ndichizindikiro chabwino kuti zinthu zikuyenda bwino kwa inu ndi mnzanu. Osagonana?
Mukukumana ndi kusakhutitsidwa kwakugonana? Kugonana muukwati kukuyandikira kumbuyo kotentha?
Itha kukhala nthawi yoti mulowemo ndikuwona chifukwa chomwe zosowazi sizikukwaniritsidwa. Koma, choyamba, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake kugonana ndikofunikira kwa amayi.
Momwe timaonera zogonana
Kugonana ndi zotsatira zachilengedwe zakumverera pafupi ndi mnzathu.
Kukondana ndi chilankhulo kwa iwo eni, ndipo amayi amawagwiritsa ntchito posonyeza chikondi chawo ndikuyamikira amuna awo. Zimatanthauzanso kukhala ndi kugonana kopindulitsa komanso kokwanira kwa akazi.
Mukudziwa kale kufunika kokhala ndi zokambirana ndi mnzanu kuti aliyense amve kuti akumva. Ndikofunikanso kumvetsetsa chilankhulidwe chanu chogonana kuti aliyense wa inu akhutire.
Izi sizinthu zomwe zingaphunzitsidwe mwachangu, ndichifukwa chake muubwenzi wachikondi, wokhalitsa, chiwonetsero chazogonana pakati pa anthu awiri ndichabwino, chopindulitsa, komanso chopanda malire: anthu awiriwa ali ndi zaka zolimbitsa chidaliro ndikuphunzira chilichonse chilankhulo china cha "zolaula".
Kugonana kwakukulu pakati pa inu ndi munthu wanu kumatenga nthawi kuti apange
Kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi chanu, kugonana kwabwino kumatha kubwera mosavuta, chifukwa nonse mukukwera kumene kukhumba kwatsopano. Simuyenera kuchita kumvetsetsa kufunika kogonana m'banja.
Mukamakula ndi mnzanu, gawo lina lolumikizana limapangidwa: mbali yamaganizidwe azakugonana, kapena kukondana.
Kuti mukhale ndi chisangalalo chogonana ndi mkazi, ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse momwe amayamikirira kulumikizana ndi anzawo ndi momwe zimakhudzira njira yawo yokhutira ndi kugonana.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti 53% ya azimayi amawona kulumikizana kwamaganizidwe komwe kumakhazikitsidwa muubwenzi wanthawi yayitali ngati gawo lofunikira pakukhutira kwawo pakugonana.
Werengani zambiri: Kugonana Ndikofunika Motani Kwa Mwamuna
Ubwino wogonana
Kodi kugonana ndi kofunika motani muukwati kwa amayi? Kwa amayi, kugonana ndikofunikira monga momwe zimakhalira ndi abambo.
Kufunika kwakugonana kwa mkazi sikungakhale kopitilira muyeso. Kafukufuku waposachedwa, azimayi ambiri adavomereza kuti kugonana, si njira yokhayo yolumikizirana ndi wokondedwa wawo, koma ndizovuta kwambiri.
Pa “Kodi kugonana ndi kwabwino kwa mkazi?” Nazi zabwino zabwino zomwe zikuwonetsanso kufunikira kwakugonana kwa akazi.
Pambuyo pa tsiku lalitali, kugonana ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera kumasuka; imathandizanso kuti mugone mwachangu.
Kugonana ndimasewera olimbitsa thupi kwambiri pamimba yam'mimba yamayi. Ngati icho sichiri chifukwa chokwanira chotsimikizira kufunikira kwakugonana pachibwenzi, nazi zambiri.
Chifukwa chomwe akazi amafunikira kugonana ndi chifukwa chakuti kugonana kumachepetsa nkhawa komanso kupsinjika ndikupangitsa mkazi kukhala wokhutira ndikukwaniritsidwa.
Komanso, kugonana kwabwino kumalimbikitsa chidaliro cha amuna ndi akazi mofananamo; kumawapangitsa kudzimva kukhala ofunidwa ndi okondedwa. Kugonana ndikwabwino kwakuthupi, m'maganizo, komanso m'maganizo.
Ndi maubwino ambiri odabwitsa ogonana, sibwino kufunsa kuti, "Kodi kugonana ndikofunikira kwa amayi?"
Zomwe zimafunikira pakugonana komwe kwadzaza ndi zozimitsa moto: Chinsinsi
Amayi omwe amakwaniritsa zogonana amavomereza: ngati simungathe kulumikizana kunja kwa chipinda chogona, kulumikizana kwanu m'chipinda chogona kumakhala kovuta.
Kuti tiyankhe funso, kufunikira kwakugonana m'banja, ndikofunikira poyamba kumvetsetsa kuti kugonana koyenera kumayambira m'mutu. Zimatanthauza kukhala wokhoza kulankhula moona mtima ndi mnzanu.
Kumanga ndikofunikira pakugonana kosangalatsa, ndipo amayi amasangalala ndi kugonana akamva kulumikizana kwakukulu, mwamphamvu ndi amuna awo.
Amayi ambiri amafuna kulumikizana kwakuya, kwamphamvu ndi amuna awo kuti azisangalala ndi kugonana.
Amayi amayamikira kulumikizana kwamalingaliro kuposa izi. Izi zikuyenera kuyankha funso, "Kodi kugonana ndikofunika motani pakukhalitsa kwa nthawi yayitali?"
Amayi ambiri amagawana nawo kuti sakonda kudumphadumpha momwemo (ngakhale "quickie" nthawi ndi nthawi imatha kukhala yosangalatsa) koma amakonda zomwe zimapangitsa kuti azigonana: wotsogola.
Amaonetsetsanso kuti caress za pre-coital izi ndizosangalatsa kwa amuna awo chifukwa kuwawona amuna awo akusangalala kumawonjezera chisangalalo chawo ndikumverera kwachikazi.
Amayi okhutitsidwa ndi kugonana amamvetsetsa kufunikira kokopa.
Amadziwa kuti izi ndizopatsa chisangalalo monga zinthu zakuthupi pogona, monga kunyengerera, chilichonse chomwe chimachitika musanadumphe pakati pa mapepala - chimatha kukhala chosangalatsa ngati masewera omaliza.
Ganizirani za masiku omwe munali pachibwenzi pomwe mudakhala nthawi yosankha zovala zamkati, mafuta onunkhira, zovala zanu, ndi zina zambiri.
Mutha kubetcha nthawi yomweyo yomwe mumapanga zodzoladzola, mwamuna wanu amatenga malo odyera mosamala ndikuyeseza zomwe angakuuzeni pakudya zomwe zingakuyandikitseni pafupi naye.
Kusokeretsa kumakhala kosangalatsa, mulimonse momwe mungakhalire pachibwenzi chanu.
M'malo mwake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa okwatirana kwa nthawi yayitali chifukwa kunyengerera wina ndi mnzake kumathandizira kuyambitsa chilakolako.
Azimayi amafunikira izi zisanachitike masewera (kuposa amuna, zitha kuwoneka) kuti athe kukhala osangalala, makamaka patadutsa zaka zambiri akukhala ndi bwenzi lomwelo.
Pali zinthu zochepa zosangalatsa kuposa kukumbutsidwa kuti ndiwe woyenera kukhala pachibwenzi.
Kuyendetsa kotsika (kapena kulibe)
Pankhani yogonana, azimayi amakhala ndi zovuta zogonana. Zinthu zambiri zimatha kukopa chikhumbo.
Pali zokopa zakanthawi kochepa monga tsiku lalitali ndi ana kapena kuntchito, kulimbana ndi mnzanu (kapena mnzanu), matenda, kenako pamakhala zokopa zazitali monga msinkhu (kusamba kwa nthawi), mavuto azaumoyo, kapena Kupitirizabe, kupsinjika kwakanthawi.
Ngati mwazindikira kuti libido yanu yatsika chifukwa chakukwiya kwakanthawi, palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa.
Chilakolako chimakhala ndi kuchepa kwachilengedwe, ndipo palibe amene amafuna kuti tizikhala "nthawi zonse" nthawi zonse.
Ndizothandiza kufotokozera munthu wanu chifukwa chomwe simuli mumkhalidwewo, ndikumulimbikitsa kuti si iyeyo, koma mumangofunika kugona tulo tabwino, mwachitsanzo.
Kwa libido yomwe ikuwoneka kuti yazimitsa yokha ndipo sikuwoneka ngati ikubwerera, ndibwino kukaonana ndi dokotala, makamaka ngati mukuyandikira zaka zakusamba.
Pali njira zambiri zachilengedwe zochiritsira zomwe zingathandize kuchepetsa kutsika kwa mahomoni athu ogonana. Dokotala amatha kuwunikanso nanu kuti akuthandizeni kusankha njira yabwino kwambiri.
Ngati kusintha kwa mahomoni sikuchititsa kuchepa kwa chikhumbo, kungakhale kwanzeru kuwerengera.
Kodi chilakolako chanu chakuchepa chifukwa cholimbana ndi kudziona nokha?
Kusokonekera kwa kulumikizana ndi mnzanu? Mukumva kuti simukuthandizidwa m'malo ena m'moyo wanu? Kodi mukuwona kuti chizolowezi chanu chizolowezi?
Mothandizidwa ndi katswiri wazachipatala, kumasula ma stress kungakhale njira yopindulitsa pakuzindikiranso za kugonana kwanu ndi zisangalalo zake zonse.
Pangani nthawi yogonana, simudzanong'oneza bondo
Tonse tili ndi zambiri m'mbale zathu, pakati pa ntchito, banja, kudzipereka pagulu, komanso zofunikira pagulu.
Zingakhale zophweka kwambiri kuchedwa kapena kuiwala zopindulitsa komanso zopititsa patsogolo moyo wogonana wosangalala. Koma uko kungakhale kulakwitsa.
Ndikofunikira kudziwa kufunika kogonana pachibwenzi, chifukwa chake mumaika patsogolo zogonana, ngakhale mutakhala ndi maudindo ambiri komanso nthawi yayitali.
Osapanga kulakwitsa posintha nokha mwa kuyika kupanga zopangira kumbuyo.
Monga tanenera, kufunikira kwa kugonana kwa amayi sikungatsindikidwe mokwanira.
Kukwezedwa komwe mungapeze kuchokera pagawo lokhutiritsa pansi pa mapepala ndi mwamuna amene mumamukonda kumasamutsira mbali zina zonse m'moyo wanu.
Pezani nthawi yolumikizana kwambiri. Ndinu ofunika, chimodzimodzinso mwamuna amene mumamukonda.