Zamkati
- Lolani ubongo wanu kulankhula
- Dziwani chifukwa chake: Kuneneza motsutsana ndikumvetsetsa
- Pewani kuyanjana ndi ena: Nenani "ayi" pakuwombera
- Kuonera? Mukutanthauza chinyengo chiti?
- Dumpha phompho
Mwachidziwikire, banja limawerengedwa ngati malo achitetezo omwe amatithandiza kulimbana ndi ziwopsezo zosiyanasiyana za moyo, kukulitsa kudziwika kwathu ndi kuchiritsa mabala athu.
Tikamakwatirana timakhulupirira izi koma nthawi zambiri sitimadziwa kuti sitampu mu pasipoti ndi njerwa yoyamba yomwe timayika pamaziko a malowa.
Asanakhazikike bwino, tiyenera kudutsa njira yayitali ndi yaminga ndikukumana ndi zovuta zambiri. Omwe adakumana ndikubera m'banja, amadziwa kuti kuwukira kwakunja sikuwopseza maanja ngati adani awo amkati.
Ndikosavuta kuthana ndi zodabwitsa za moyo tikakoka chingwe chomwecho, koma ndizovuta kwambiri kulimbana ndi zofooka zomwe zimatha kuwononga malo achitetezo olimba kwambiri mumphindi ngati kuti ndiye nyumba yachifumu.
Kwa aliyense amene angaganize kuti kubera m'banja si nkhani yoti agwire koma kutha kwa banja, titha kunena: kudziimba mlandu kapena kunyoza siopanga alangizi abanja.
Sizovuta kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwa pambuyo poti aperekedwa ndikukhalabe limodzi koma, tikhulupirireni, ndizotheka.
Ndiye ngati mungadzifunse kuti ndingaleke bwanji kudziimba mlandu chifukwa chobera m'banja? Kapena mukuyang'ana njira zothetsera kudziimba mlandu mutabera m'banja. Tikukuwuzani momwe mungachitire izi.
Lolani ubongo wanu kulankhula
Kudziyesa wekha (kwa opereka chithandizo) kapena kudzimvera chisoni (kwa iwo omwe anaperekedwa) ndiye chibadwa chosavuta ndipo maanja ambiri amakonda kulowa m'malingaliro awo mozama m'malo moyambitsa zokambirana.
Onetsetsani: kukambirana kumafunika mwachangu, kumatha kuwunikira momwe mnzanu alili pa nkhani pomwe malingaliro akusocheretsani.
Kotero, pamene kulakwa kwanu kulira "Ndine chibwana ndipo sandikhululukira konse" ubongo wanu sungakulolereni kusankha kwa winayo koma, mwachidziwikire, kunong'oneza "Ingopemphani chikhululukiro, pali mwayi nthawi zonse".
Maganizo a munthu amene wachita chiwembu atha kunena kuti "sindikufuna kumva chilichonse!" ngakhale pamene ubongo wawo ukukangana kuti amve zomwe okondedwa wawo akunena podziteteza.
Zachidziwikire, nonse mumasowa nthawi yovutikira komanso kuzolowera lingaliro loti kubera muukwati, koma osangotenga zisankho, mverani zonong'ona zaubongo wanu ndikuyesera kupereka mpata kwa wina ndi mzake ndikuthandizira kuthana ndi vuto lakusakhulupirika.
Dziwani chifukwa chake: Kuneneza motsutsana ndikumvetsetsa
Tangoganiza za mkwiyo pankhope ya munthu wonyenga "Kodi pali kulingalira kulikonse ndipo ndichifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuwayang'ana? !!"
Musafulumire kuchotsa udindowo. Kumbukirani, china chake chikalakwika m'banja, sipangakhale munthu m'modzi wolakwa; onse okwatirana ndi zifukwa. Ganizirani lamuloli ndikuyesa kulingalira.
Dzifunseni kuti “Kodi ndasowa chiyani? Zomwe mnzanga amafuna kupeza poyanjana ndi munthu wina? ” Nthawi yakuona mtima ndiyofunikira. Aliyense akhoza kuneneza koma ndi ochepa okha omwe angamvetse.
Poyeneradi, pewani kufotokoza zomwe mumaganizira musanamve zifukwa za woperekayo. Choyamba, sangakhale ndi chilichonse choti anene ndikugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu kuti musokoneze.
Chachiwiri, kulingalira kwa mnzanu kumatha kusiyanasiyana ndi kwanu koma sangakuwonetseni akuwopa kuti akupwetekeninso. Chifukwa chake, simudzadziwa chifukwa chake motero simungathe kuchikonza.
Ngati ndiwe wompereka, a kudzidalira komanso kuvomereza moona mtima ndiyo njira yokhayo yoti mupirire ndi kulakwa ndi kukhululukidwa.
Pewani kuyanjana ndi ena: Nenani "ayi" pakuwombera
Tikudziwa anthu akavutika amafunika kufotokoza zowawa zawo ndikupempha thandizo. Ndi njira yachilengedwe yolimbanirana ndi malingaliro koma tikukupemphani kuti muganizire bwino musanasankhe chinsinsi.
Talingalirani zakuti anthu ambiri akadziwitsidwa kukangana kwakukulu kudzakambidwa pankhaniyi. Chifukwa chake, simudzatha kutola tirigu padzulu ndikuyika pachiwopsezo chokhala malingaliro am'munthu wina.
Sitipangira kugawana ndi makolo anu: mukhululukira chipani chanu koma sachita izi. Kunyoza kwawo sikungakulolereni kuiwala nkhaniyi ndipo kumatha kukhala vuto kupha moyo wanu wamtsogolo.
Ndibwino kusankha munthu wopanda tsankho yemwe sachita nawo banja lanu. Mwina wansembe, ngati ndinu wokhulupirira, kapena bwenzi akukhala kutali ndi kwanu.
Kuonera? Mukutanthauza chinyengo chiti?
Ngati mwasankha kukhala limodzi, adakambirana zonse, kumvetsetsa ndikukhululukidwa, ingoyiwalani kuti kuonera muukwati kumachitika m'moyo wanu. Tikudziwa, ndi ntchito yotopetsa, makamaka kumayambiriro, koma palibe njira ina yoti tikhale limodzi.
Kutchula nthawi zonse, kuneneza, kukayikirana, ndi nthabwala zowonekera - zonsezi zimalimbikitsa kutsitsimula kwa Kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa komanso kunyozedwa, kumalepheretsa kuyanjananso ndikuchulukitsa mavuto am'banja mwanu.
Pewani kutchula ndikuyesera kukhala ndi moyo wozolowereka ndikupanga ntchito yanu kukonza zolakwika popanda kuwunikira kosafunikira chilichonse chazing'ono zanu.
Dumpha phompho
Pulogalamu ya Njira yabwino yoiwala nkhani yoyipa ndikubwezeretsa ina yabwino. Chifukwa chake, okopa okondedwa, musayembekezere nthawi yayitali ndikusamala zakubwezerani uchi wanu.
Ulendo wopangitsa kuti maloto ake akhale oona, kuyendera malo omwe mumakondana nawo kapena china chilichonse chomwe chingakupangitseni kuyandikiranso kudzakhala chisankho chabwino.
Musaope kuti sinakhale nthawi yabwino panobeKumbukirani kuti matenda aliwonse amatenga nthawi yayitali ngati munthu sangachite chilichonse choyenera. Talingalirani za zabwino zomwe mapiritsi amamva chifukwa chodziona olakwa komanso kunyozedwa.
Wokondedwa wonyengedwa, kambiranani ndi gulu lanu ngakhale zitakhala zovuta kuthana ndi chipongwe. Mukachedwa kuchedwa chisangalalo, phompho lalikulu limawonekera pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu.
Zowonjezera, ngati mwasankha kukhala limodzi simukufuna kuti zochitika zotere zichitike. Ganizirani kuti malingaliro awa ndiabwino pokhapokha ngati onse awiri akufuna kukhala limodzi. Ngati mmodzi wa maguluwo akuyesetsa kuthetsa nkhaniyi, sangagwire ntchito.
Aliyense ali ndi ufulu wolakwitsa, koma kumbukirani kuti kubera m'banja kumabwereza kangapo kapena kawiri sikungathenso kulingaliridwa ngati njira yamoyo.
Kenako dzifunseni nokha ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi chinyengo chosasinthika. Dzikondeni nokha ndikusamala mabanja anu.