Zamkati
Munthu wanzeru nthawi ina adati musawotche milatho. Izi sizomwe muyenera kutsatira. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa si onse padziko lapansi pano omwe akuyenera kukhala ndi nthawi komanso kucheza nawo.
Mulibe nthawi yoperewera yoti mupereke, chifukwa chake muyenera kusankha mosamala yemwe mungamupatse. Kupereka chinthu chamtengo wapatali kuposa ndalama kwa anthu omwe simukuwaona ngati ofunika kumachotsa kwa iwo omwe ali.
Koma popita zaka, zidzakhala zomveka.
Ndi nkhani yanthawi.
Palibe amene anamwalira ali pafupi kufa anati, “Ndikulakalaka ndikanathera nthaŵi yambiri muofesi.”
Mukakhala ndi ndalama zambiri, zomwe mulibe ndi nthawi.
Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuyang'anira ndalama ndi nthawi mwanzeru. Kugwiritsa ntchito ndalamazo kugula nthawi, ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyo kupanga ndalama.
Njira imodzi yomwe mungasungire nthawi ndikupanga ndalama ndikumaliza kucheza kwanu ndi anthu ena - omwe amati ndi abodza.
Nazi njira zothetsera kucheza ndi anthu omwe amakukokerani pansi.
1. Amanyalanyaza
Kunyalanyaza winawake ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera maubwenzi chifukwa imagwira ntchito ndi mitundu yonse yabodza yabodza ndipo siyothandiza kwa inu.
Simuyenera kuyankhula nawo, kufufuta zomwe angalumikizane nawo, kuwachotsa pama social media, kapena china chilichonse chonga icho, ingokhala chete / osanyalanyaza zokambiranazo, ndipo mwatha.
Zimagwira bwino ntchito pamtundu wa abwenzi omwe amangopeza pokhapokha ngati akufuna china chake kuchokera kwa inu. Tonsefe timadziwa winawake yemwe akugwirizana ndi mbiriyi, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi tsamba lalikulu la Facebook, ochezeka, osangalala, komanso osangalatsa.
Ndiwonso omwe amafunsira zabwino zambiri Nthawi zina amabwereka ndalama zomwe samabweza.
Amanenanso miseche yambiri.
Amagwiritsa ntchito miseche ngati chida. Amangobweza kumbuyo aliyense amene akukana kuchita zomwe akufuna.
Kudula maubale ndi anthu onga awa kumakuwonetsani pang'ono miseche, koma idzatha pakapita kanthawi pomwe munthu wogwiritsa ntchito mosamala adzasokoneza mnzake wotsatira.
Ndiye mutha kutha bwanji kucheza ndi miseche yogwiritsa ntchito miseche poyeserera? Amanyalanyaza ndikuwasiya okha. Ngati akuwona kuti sangapindule ndi inu, apitiliza.
2. Wotani mlatho
Imeneyi si njira yowonekera kwambiri yowanyalanyaza. Zimachitika ndikuletsa kulumikizana kwamagetsi ndi munthuyo. Mukakumana nawo zenizeni, nenani muofesi, musawanyalanyaze konse. Ngati mukuyenera kuyankhula ndi munthuyo, muwapatse mayankho amodzi.
Izi ndi za omwe amatchedwa abwenzi omwe adakuperekani. Ndi galu amadya dziko la agalu, ndipo anthu amaponderezana ndi anthu ena nthawi zonse. Koma tonse tili ndi abwenzi komanso abale omwe angatithandizire, koma akachita zolakwika, zinthu zimasintha.
Ngati wina mkati mwa bwalo lanu lakukhulupirirani akutembenukira, muyenera kudula zibwenzi nthawi yomweyo.
Ndi dziko lopikisana, koma palibe amene amafika kulikonse osadutsa anthu ena. Ngati ndi munthu amene amagwirizana nanu kwambiri, ndiye kuti amayiyika pachiyambi kapena sangazengereze kukuperekaninso.
Ndiye musasunge njoka mnyumba. Ndizovuta kukhala tcheru nthawi zonse. Pokhapokha mutakhala mtundu wobwezera, ndiye nyama yosiyana.
Koma ndizotheka kupatula munthu wopanda umboni? Mutha kukhala mukuchita cholakwika chachikulu ndikumaliza kutaya mnzanu chifukwa cha msaki.
Zimatengera mfundo zanu, koma si bwalo lamilandu. Lamulo la umboni siligwira ntchito. Ndinu woweruza, woweruza milandu, komanso wakupha moyo wanu. Simuyenera kusunga anthu omwe simumawakhulupirira.
Chifukwa chake alekeni apeze mtendere wamumtima, mupite patsogolo, ndipo musasunthike pazolinga zanu pamoyo.
3. Kubwezera
Ngati ndinu obwezera, musalole kuti azipita mpaka mutawaphunzitsa kanthu. Sitikulangiza njirayi chifukwa ndiyotenga nthawi yambiri komanso yowopsa kotero sitikuwuzani momwe mungachitire.
Koma timadana ndi anthu osaganizira anzawo omwe amapezera anzawo masuku pamutu ndipo sitinganyoze aliyense amene angawagonjetse.
Mosasamala kanthu za umboni, ngati mumakonzeratu zoyipa zoyipa kwa wina, pali zotulukapo zomwe zingachitike. Dziganizireni kuti mwachenjezedwa.
Mukatsika njirayi, dziwani kuti zinthu zikhoza kukulirakulira mpaka kubwezera kosalekeza. Zimakhala zoipa kwenikweni.
Tengera kwina
Kutaya abwenzi kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse, koma monga maselo a khansa, ndibwino kutaya bere kuposa moyo wako. Kuthetsa mabwenzi sichinthu chabwino, koma kusunga bwenzi loyipa nthawi zonse kumakhala chinthu choyipa.
Nthawi yanu ndiyofunika. Tonsefe tili ndi nthawi yocheperako padziko lapansi ndipo mosasamala kanthu kuti ndinu olemera, osauka, anzeru, osalankhula, okongola, kapena oyipa timakhala ndi maola ofanana tsiku limodzi.
Momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito nthawi yanu zidzasankha mtundu wa moyo womwe mudzakhale. Ngati mukufuna kudzizungulira ndi anthu omwe mumawakonda komanso omwe amakusamalirani, muzigwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru. Kuipereka kwa anthu omwe akukugwiritsani ntchito ndikungowononga nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali.
Ndikofunika kukhala odekha osangophulitsa zinthu mosiyanasiyana. Wina yemwe adakuthandizani m'mbuyomu adalephera kubweza madola 20 si chifukwa chothetsera chibwenzi cha zaka 10.
Sungani anzanu, onetsetsani kuti nawonso amakukondani. Osamawerengera zokondera, koma mudzaziwona ngati wina akukugwiritsani ntchito. Kalatayi imakufotokozerani momwe mungathetsere ubale, koma onetsetsani kuti khomo lanu ndi lotseguka ndikupanga zatsopano. Palibe amene angadutse moyo yekha.