Zamkati
- Mphamvu Zatsopano
- Chiwonetsero chathu
- Moyo ungakhale wabwinoko kuposa kale
- Kupeza malire
- Onetsani nthawi yabwino
- Lankhulani
- Mphatso ya banja
Kulumikizana kwapadera kumapangidwa pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu mukazindikira koyamba, 'Tidachita izi, chozizwitsa chaching'ono chili pano chifukwa cha ife ndipo ndi gawo lathu tonse.'Kuyang'ana mwana wanu kwa nthawi yoyamba ndikosangalatsa, panthawiyo mumakhala achimwemwe komanso mantha. Koma kusanganikirana kwakusangalatsaku kwamalingaliro kumatsika mwachangu ndipo mawonekedwe atsopano amalowa m'malo mukalowa m'dera losavomerezeka la ... Parenthood.
M'masiku omwe amati ndiangwiro a 'nonse awiri', panali zochitika zina zomwe zidachitika: Awiri a inu mudavomereza, nonse awiri simunagwirizane ndikupeza mgwirizano kapena m'modzi wa inu adapereka kwa mnzake. Mudazolowera makonzedwe awa ndikupeza njira yopangira kuti mukhale osangalala.
Mphamvu Zatsopano
Tsopano, mwadzidzidzi mumapezeka kuti muli munyumba zatsopano ndikusankha kwatsopano. Mphamvu zomwe zidalipo zidapita kale ndipo zonse zasokoneza ndipo mumamva ngati muli pamalo osakhazikika. Pali munthu wachitatu yemwe akukhudzidwa ndipo ngakhale alibe malingaliro, zikuwoneka kuti zimakhudza lingaliro lililonse lomwe mungapange. Zonse ndi iwo. Zosankha sizili zophweka panonso.
Timayamba kuganiza kuti munthu uyu wachoka kwa ife: ufulu wathu. Tikukhulupirira kuti ufulu wathu wosankha, ufulu wa nthawi, komanso ufulu wamaganizidwe, zonse zachotsedwa. O, ndife opusa! Sitikuwona zomwe zili zabwino pamaso pathu.
Chiwonetsero chathu
Tikudzudzula zinthu zolakwika. Ana siwovuta kapena sanayambitse vutoli. Chowopsa ndichakuti vuto limakhalapo nthawi zonse; ana athu amangonyamula kalilole ndikuwonetsa zomwe zinali mkati mwathu nthawi yonseyi. Ana amationetsa zolakwitsa zathu, zomwe tidakana kale kuvomereza, kapena mwina sitimadziwa kuti kulipo. Amatulutsa zoyipa kwambiri mwa ife, zomwe ndi mphatso ndi mdalitso zomwe anthu ambiri amaziona mopepuka, kuzinyalanyaza, kapena kuzitaya kwathunthu muumbuli wawo.
Akuluakulu akhoza kukhala okhwima komanso odzikonda. Koma munganene kuti panalibe mavuto akulu ana anu asanachitike. “Ine ndi mkazi wanga tinali kuchita bwino.” Eya, ndizosavuta kukhala m'dziko lapansi momwe sitikutsutsidwa! Timakonda kukhala m'dziko lomwe nkhani zomwe zili mkati mwamitima yathu sizinakhudzidwepo.
Moyo ungakhale wabwinoko kuposa kale
Moyo wokhala ndi ana ukhoza kukhala WABWINO kuposa kale. Chowonadi chodabwitsa ndichakuti palibe chomwe chatengedwa kwa inu, chosiyana; mwapeza china chake chomwe ena opanda ana samadziwa. Mwazindikira za umunthu wanu weniweni ndipo ngati nonse awiri mukukumana ndi vuto lakukula ndikusintha ndi moyo, zidzakutengerani kulumikizidwe komanso kuzama komwe simukadadziwa.
Sinthani malingaliro anu, pitani ndi mayendedwe, ndikuvomereza kuti zinthu zasintha. Phunzirani kukonda moyo momwe ulili ndikuyamba kulandira ulendo watsopanowu. Osamangokhalira kuganiza kuti moyo unali wabwino kwambiri kale. Ayi, moyo wabwino kwambiri nthawi zonse umayenera kubwera ngati mukukhala molondola.
Kupeza malire
Kusamala ndichinsinsi, kulingalira kwa udindo wa makolo ndi mwayi, ndi kusamala mu ubale ndi mnzanu ndipo ndi iwe wekha. Simulinso okwatirana ndipo moyo wanu sungakhale wa inu nonse kapena uyenera kukhala wokhudza mwana wanu. Kupeza malire oyenera kumatha kukhala kovuta koma ndikofunikira kuti musinthe ndikuphunzira kusangalala ndi maudindo anu onse ndikukhalabe owona kwa inunso.
Onetsani nthawi yabwino
Kupeza nthawi yocheza limodzi kungakhale kovuta koma mutha kuyigwiritsa ntchito kumakulitsa chisangalalo mu ubale wanu. Ndi mphindi zazing'ono zomwe zikutanthauza kwambiri tsopano. Si masiku aatali, aulesi pagombe amangoyang'ana pa wina ndi mnzake zomwe zili zofunika tsopano. Tsopano, zikudutsa wina ndi mnzake panjira yapaulendo ndikusangalala ndikuti mwasokonezana wina ndi mnzake. Ndikuphwanya chipinda chodzaza chomwe chimapangitsa aliyense wa inu kudziwa kuti mukuganiza za wina ndi mnzake.
Lankhulani
Lankhulani, lankhulanani, khalani owona mtima ndipo musaweruzane. Gawani nkhawa zanu ndipo musakhale aukali, koma m'malo mwake, khululukirani. Aliyense amachita mosiyana ndi moyo kuthandizana wina ndi mzake m'malo molola mkwiyo ndi kukwiya ndiko kusiyana pakati pa 'kupanga kapena kuswa'. Chovuta chilichonse chomwe mungadutse ndikupambana limodzi, chimabweretsa kulemekezana komanso kulumikizana kwamphamvu.
Mphatso ya banja
Musagwere mumsampha woganiza kuti ana akuwononga ubale wanu. Zovuta, inde, koma zinthu zambiri ndizovuta kumayanjano. Imeneyo si mfundo. Mfundo ndiyoti mungasankhe kuthana ndi mavutowo ndikuwalola kuti akuthandizeni kukula ndikusintha ndi mnzanu, kapena kumenya moyo ndikumaliza nokha. Muli ndi mphatso yapadera tsopano. Nonsenu ndi banja limodzi. Kukhala banja kumatha kukupangitsani kuwomboledwa. Zitha kukupangitsani kuti musinthe nokha. Zonse zili ndi inu.
Chris Wilson
Yolembedwa ndi Chris Wilson Aka Beta Dad. Mwamuna m'modzi yekha amene akuyenda mdziko laukwati, kukhala kholo ndi zonse zomwe zili pakati. Kulemba mabulogu ndikulemba mndandanda wazomwezi, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosayembekezereka panjira. Mutha kuyimba bwino pa BetaDadBlog.com, malo oyenera kwa kholo lililonse, mwamuna kapena mkazi. Mumufufuze ngati simunatero kale.