Zamkati
- Kulumikiza zidutswa zosweka kungakhale kowawa
- AchiNarcissist amasewera masewera olakwika pamacheza
- Kodi kukhala wokhulupirika kumatanthauza chiyani?
- Mzere wokhulupirika uli kuti?
Maanja ambiri amalowa muukwati ndi chiyembekezo cha chikondi, kukhulupirika, komanso mosangalala mpaka kalekale.
Chibwenzicho chinali choledzeretsa, ukwatiwo, chabwino, umangokhala waumulungu komanso chiyambi chaukwati, chomwe chimakopa modabwitsa mphepo yamkuntho.
Posachedwa zaka zingapo ndikukhala kokasangalala tsopano kwatha, zithunzi zaukwati ndizotsalira za nkhani yomwe ingatchedwe, 'Imeneyo idzakhala imfa yanga ”, wokhala ndi munthu wosakumbukira mwachikondi komanso wamisala yemwe adakwatirana naye.
Kulumikiza zidutswa zosweka kungakhale kowawa
Ndikuwona ambiri mzochita zanga, makamaka azimayi, omwe amabwera kudzakhala muofesi yanga ndikuyesa kubwezera zidutswa za nkhani yomwe idasokedwa kuyambira pachiyambi.
Amanena zopweteketsa mtima, kusokonezeka kwa malingaliro, kukayika, kunyazitsidwa, komanso kudziimba mlandu. Ulusi wamba wolukidwa mwa akazi awa ndi onse okwatirana ndi mwamuna m'modzi. Osati kwenikweni munthu weniweni, koma wamankhwala chimodzimodzi.
AchiNarcissist amasewera masewera olakwika pamacheza
Kutalika kosiyana, kulemera kosiyanasiyana, ntchito zosiyanasiyana, magalimoto osiyanasiyana, koma malingaliro ofanana, machitidwe omwewo, machenjerero omwewo osagwira ntchito, kudzikuza komweko, komanso kusamvera ena chisoni.
Amuna awa, mwanjira zowona za narcissist, amatsutsa azimayi awa. Amasokoneza chowonadi kuti apindule nawo poizoni, amawapangitsa kudzimva kuti ndi olakwa popanda chifukwa, ndipo amadzipangira ndikulungamitsa chilichonse chowopsa, ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhudzire azimayi.
Amachita zonsezi kwinaku akumveka bwino, omenyedwayo, akumachita manyazi ndi zomwe akunenazo.
Nthawi zina pamafunika kupalira mwa khungu la chikondi kuti tiwone momwe chikondi, kukhulupirika komanso chisangalalo nthawi zonse zimasewera.
Wolemba zanyengo atha kukhulupiriradi kuti ndiwo omwe agwira.
Chinthu chimodzi motsimikiza, amakhala ozunzidwa nthawi zonse ndipo ndiinu amene muyenera kuyamika chifukwa chakupezeka kwawo. Muyenera kukhala nawo chifukwa cha kukhulupirika kwanu.
Kukhulupirika, ngakhale mutakumana ndi mikangano ndizotanthauzira.
Kodi kukhala wokhulupirika kumatanthauza chiyani?
Yankho limadalira ngati mungafunse wamisala kapena yemwe wachitidwayo.
Kubera ndi chigololo zitha kukhala zosiyana, zochitika m'malingaliro ndi zochitika mthupi zitha kukhala zofanana.
Zonse ndizofotokozera. Mwina ndiye kukambirana komwe kumayenera kuchitika musanakambirane ndi wokonzekera ukwati.
Pakati ali kuti? Kapena pali zolakwika zokha kapena zolondola?
Mwamuna wina adapatsa mnzake mnzake, atamugwira pawebusayiti, "zimangokhala kulankhulana." Mawu awa adatsatiridwa ndi “palibe masiku, misonkhano yamasana basi ”.
Mzere wokhulupirika uli kuti?
Tonsefe tili ndi chiyembekezo chokhudza maubwenzi.
Ziyembekezerozi zimayenera kufotokozedwa mwachangu.
Onetsetsani kuti simukuchititsidwa khungu ndi mankhwala omwe ali muubongo wanu omwe amakopa "mchikondi" chisangalalo. Chokoleti imatha kuchita zomwezo ndipo sizingachite bwino kucheza ndi aliyense kapena msonkhano wamasana.
Yang'anirani zizindikiro zamakhalidwe oyipitsa omwe amakusiyitsani kumva kupweteka osati munthu amene wachita cholakwacho.
Ngati zikukuchitikirani, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite -
- Dziwonetseni nokha. Mnzanu mwina sangasinthe. Yakwana nthawi yakusankha.
- Ndizokhudza kulolerana kapena kuvomereza. Mungakhale ndi chiyani? Kapena mutha kuzisiya kumbuyo?
- Phunzirani kukhala wolimba mtima. Ngakhale zitanthauza kutenga kalasi yotsimikizika. Sungani nokha.
- Chitani khama polimbana ndi machitidwe owopsa. Pali mitundu. Mukuwadziwa kale.
- Ikani nokha patsogolo, osadziimba mlandu.
- Khulupirirani kuti mukuyenera bwino.
- Pangani msonkhano ndi wothandizira yemwe angakupatseni chitsogozo ndikumveka bwino.
- Fotokozani mosangalala nthawi zonse m'mawu anu
- Pitani mukasinthe moyo wanu.
- Kondwerani ndi njira yanu.