Zamkati
- Chikondi chitha kubisika, koma sichinachoke
- Bizinesi. Bizinesi. Bizinesi
- Ana
- Amuna anu samasangalalanso
- Mumakakamiza amuna anu kuchita zinthu
- Mikangano yosathetsedwa
- Kodi kusamvana komwe simunathetsedwe kumakusiyanitsani inu ndi amuna anu?
- Chotsatira chiti?
- Wonjezerani kukhutira kwake muubwenzi
Mukukumbukira nthawi yomaliza yomwe amuna anu anakukhudzani?
Kapena nthawi yomaliza yomwe adachita kukuchitirani kanthu?
Kodi wayamba kuchita chidwi ndi zinthu zomwe nthawi zambiri sakanazinyalanyaza?
Kodi ndiwosangalala kukuwonani madzulo, kapena amuna anu ataya chidwi ndi banja lanu?
Chikondi chitha kubisika, koma sichinachoke
Ukwati wanu umadziwika chifukwa cha kulumikizana kwanu. Kuyankhulana, kugonana, kulumikizana komanso nthawi yomwe mumathera limodzi: zonsezi ndi zomwe zingakulitse mgwirizano wanu.
Tikamalankhula za okwatirana, tikulankhula za kulumikizana pakati pa mitima iwiri.
Chilichonse chomwe timachita muubwenzi ndicholinga chowonjezera kulumikizanaku.
Chifukwa chake, mukawona kuti amuna anu ndi akutali, sizitanthauza kuti amuna anu ataya chidwi ndi chibwenzicho.
Zomwe zingatanthauze, komabe, ndikuti zinthu zomwe zimakhala ngati mlatho pakati pa miyoyo iwiri zafooka. Mukawalimbitsa, mudzazindikira kuti chikondi sichinapite kulikonse.
Maubwenzi ambiri amadutsa magawo pomwe mwamunayo samawoneka kuti walowetsedwa muubwenzi monga kale. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ubale wanu usinthe.
Bizinesi. Bizinesi. Bizinesi
Mukamakhalabe muukwati, maudindo omwe mumayenera kugawana nawo ndi awa: Ana, ndalama ndi nyumba.
Pakapita nthawi, maanja ambiri amapeza kuti kulumikizana kwawo kwachepetsedwa kukhala zokambirana zingapo zamabizinesi. Kwina komwe muli paulendowu, mumatha kutali ndikukhala ngati othandizana nanu kuyendetsa bungwe lomwe ndi banja lanu.
Mumayiwala momwe mungakhalire anzanu. Ndi equation yosavuta, kwenikweni. Mkhalidwe waubwenzi wanu ndi amuna anu umatengera mtundu waubwenzi wanu.
Kumbukirani, chikondi sichinthu chomwe anthu amagweramo ndikutuluka ngati momwe sangathe kuwongolera. Chikondi ndi chisankho chomwe mumapanga tsiku ndi tsiku: mwa kulemekezana, kudalirana, kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake ndikukhala ndiubwenzi wabwino.
Chifukwa chake, ngati mukudabwa kuti chifukwa chiyani amuna anu akuwoneka kuti ali kutali komanso akusokonezedwa, ganizirani zaubwenzi wanu. Palibe amene anganyalanyaze bwenzi labwino.
Kafukufuku zikuwonetsa kuti amuna okwatirana amakhala ndi moyo wautali kuposa anyamata osakwatira. Dr. Oz akunena kuti sizikukhudzana kwenikweni ndi chisangalalo. Amuna okwatirana amakhala ndi moyo wautali chifukwa akazi awo amaonetsetsa kuti aonana ndi dokotala.
Ana
Ana akuyenera kutchulidwa mwapadera. Amakhudza kwambiri ubale wa awiriwo. Onse awiri mwamuna ndi mkazi amasintha atakhala ndi mwana, chifukwa chake ubale umasintha.
Mwamuna amamva kupanikizika kwa kukhala bambo, pomwe mkazi amapyola muzochitika zambiri, mwakuthupi ndi mwamalingaliro.
Vutoli limabwera chifukwa amayi ali ndi malire osungira ana awo. Mayi adzapitiliza kupereka kwa mwana wake mpaka kutopa.
Mavuto amayamba kuchitika pamene mwamuna ayamba kudabwa kuti chifukwa chiyani mkazi sangathe kupitilirabe pazosowa zake. Komanso, nthawi zina mwamuna amavutika kuti apeze malo ake m'banja mwake ana atabadwa.
Monga mkazi, muyenera kukhala wofunitsitsa kugwira ntchito ndi amuna anu kuti mupeze njira zokuthandizirani kuthana ndi gawo la amayi nthawi ndi nthawi kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yopuma inunso ndi amuna anu, opanda ana.
Amuna anu samasangalalanso
Ukwati uli ngati china chilichonse. Pambuyo pachisangalalo choyambirira, timalowa muntchito zomwe zimakhudza ife tokha. Zili ngati ntchito yatsopano: poyamba mumakhala okondwa ndikupitiliza za mwayi wanu wopeza ntchito yabwino kwambiri. Koma pakapita nthawi, mumayamba kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika omwe amachepetsa chisangalalo chomwe munali nacho poyamba, ndipo ntchito yanu imayamba kuvuta.
Zachilendo zimalimbikitsa chidwi. Chilichonse chikazolowera, muyenera kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti muzisamalira.
Pamene mudakwatirana, mudapanga bwanji amuna anu? Kodi mumamwetulirabe, kumuyamikira, kumuyamikira ndikusangalala kupezeka kwake? Chidachitika ndi chiani chachikondi? Kapena asinthidwa m'malo ndikudandaula komanso ma jabs ochepa?
Amayi amaphunzitsidwa kukhala ndi udindo woteteza aliyense m'banjamo. Zotsatira zake, atha kukhala oyang'anira, nthawi zonse kuloza komwe zinthu sizikuyenda bwino. Pochita izi, amuna ambiri asiyidwa ngati osayamikiridwa, osalemekezedwa komanso osakhudzidwa. Mwamuna yemwe wazindikira kuti mkazi wake samamukondanso sangakhalebe ndi ubale womwe anali nawo ndi iyeyo.
Mumakakamiza amuna anu kuchita zinthu
Nthawi ndi nthawi, mkazi angafunike kupatsa mwamunayo mwamunayo patsogolo. Izi ndi zabwino chifukwa zimathandiza amuna kusuntha madera otonthoza. Komabe, amuna anu sangayamikire ngati mumachita izi nthawi zonse. Palibe amene amafuna kuzunzidwa kuti achite zinthu zomwe sakufuna kapena amakonda nthawi zonse.
Simungathe kukhala ndi malingaliro nthawi zonse, ndipo simuyenera kupatsa mwamuna wanu nyundo kuti akwaniritse nkhungu yanu. Ubale wabwino umathandizidwa ndi ulemu ndi kumvetsetsa.
Ngakhale popanda nkhanza zanu, amuna anu ali kale ndi zipsinjo zazikulu zopezera banja zosowa, kugula nyumba, kuphunzitsa ana, kupereka chitetezo chachuma ..... Mukapitiliza kuwongolera zomwe mukuchita, muthana ndi ubale wapakati pa awiriwa za inu.
Mikangano yosathetsedwa
Anthu ambiri alibe maluso ofunikira kuthana ndi malingaliro. Akakwatirana kapena kukhumudwa, sadziwa momwe angawathandizire. Zotsatira zake, okwatirana azikangana nthawi zonse.
Chifukwa chake, mikangano siyikonzedwanso ndipo mgwirizano sunamangidwe konse. Ma envulopu osasunthika ndipo okwatirana amakhumudwa ndikukwiya. Mkwiyo pomalizira pake umabala mwano; zomwe zingasokoneze moyo waubwenzi wanu.
Kodi kusamvana komwe simunathetsedwe kumakusiyanitsani inu ndi amuna anu?
Khalani woyamba m'banja mwanu m'malo mokwiya ndi chifundo. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa ngati mkazi, ndinu 'mtima' waukwati wanu. Mwakutero muli ndiudindo waukulu mu dipatimenti yazokondana yaukwati wanu.
Akazi amalumikizidwa kwambiri ndi mitima yawo. Ali ndi kuthekera kwachilengedwe kwa chikondi. Akazi, chotero, ali ndi zida zoyenera zolimbikitsira chikondi mbanja lawo.
Chotsatira chiti?
Tatsimikiza kale kuti amuna anu amakukondanibe ndipo sakusiya chidwi ndiubwenzi wanu. Komabe, pali zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti kulumikizana kwabwino ndi amuna anu kumayenda nthawi zonse.
Wonjezerani kukhutira kwake muubwenzi
Kukula kwa kukhala pachibwenzi ndi inu kuyenera kupitilira zovuta za amuna anu.
Malingana ngati malire ali bwino, amuna anu apitilizabe kuyika banja. Uwu ndi mtundu wa kusanthula kopindulitsa.