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- Zimatengera kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti uchite zosakhulupirika zakale
- Kodi banja lingathe kupulumuka chigololo?
- Momwe mungapulumutsire banja pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika ndi kunama
- Zowona za 9 pankhani yabodza komanso kubera
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Okonda kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti chifukwa chofotokozera mwachidule, chosavuta kuwerenga, komanso zododometsa zachepetsa zovuta za maubwenzi kukhala nkhani yoti iwerengenso uku mukutsuka mano.
Moyo suli wophweka chonchi. Ziwerengero za mabanja atatha kusakhulupirika ndi chisonyezero cha maanja ena opitilira kusakhulupirika, kuchira pambuyo pa chibwenzi ndikumanganso banja labwino pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika.
Komabe, izi sizitengera kuti kuthana ndi kusakhulupirika, kuyambiranso pachibwenzi ndikusunga ukwati pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika sikutheka kwa banja lililonse lomwe lakhala likusakhulupirika.
Kupeza pa intaneti kuti maukwati angati apulumuka ziwerengero za kusakhulupirika kumawonetsa kuti theka la maukwati aku America apulumuka pachibwenzi.
Zimatengera kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti uchite zosakhulupirika zakale
Pomwe adachita chikondwerero chaukwati wawo wa 50 ndi anzawo, a Ruth Graham, mkazi wa mlaliki wodziwika bwino Billy Graham adafunsidwa ngati anali atamvanso zothetsa banja.
Mayi Graham adayang'ana wofunsayo m'maso ndikuti, "Ipha inde. Kutha kwa banja sikunachitikepo. ”
Wopangidwa ndi yankho lake loseketsa wagona chowonadi chachikulu. Ukwati ukhoza kukhala wokongola kwambiri mwa maubwenzi. Itha kukhalanso yoyipa kwambiri, yothimbirira ndi manyumba.
Nthawi zambiri, ndizosakaniza zonse ziwiri.
Ngakhale Akazi a Graham adatenga zinsinsi zawo kumanda, titha kuganiza kuti kusakhulupirika m'banja sichinali gawo laubwenzi wawo.
Pokhala ndi maukwati opitilira theka omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi mmodzi - kapena onse awiri - nthawi ina paubwenzi, intaneti yakhala ndi moyo ndi nkhani zatsopano za "Njira 50 Zosiya Wokondedwa Wanu" za Paul Simon. Koma musataye nthawi yanu.
Momwe timakondera kukhulupirira kuti kupulumutsa ukwati pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika sikumangokhala ngati cholembera, chowonadi ndichakuti zimafunika kugwira ntchito molimbika - zovuta kwambiri - kuti uchite zosakhulupirika zakale.
Nthawi zina maanja samadutsa kale. Mabanja ena amafunika kuikidwa m'manda.
Kodi banja lingathe kupulumuka chigololo?
Ukwati ungathe kupulumuka ngati wina wachita chigololo.
Kumbukirani zovuta zina zakupulumutsa banja lanu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika, ngakhale zili choncho:
- Sizovuta
- Zidzakupweteketsani
- Padzakhala mkwiyo ndi misozi
- Zitenga nthawi kukhulupiranso
- Zidzafunika kuti wonyenga akhale ndiudindo
- Zidzafunika kuti "wozunzidwayo" atenge udindo
- Pamafunika kulimba mtima
Momwe mungapulumutsire banja pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika ndi kunama
Kubwezeretsa kusakhulupirika ndikupanga ubale wabwino pambuyo ponyenga sizachilendo. Gawo lofunikira ndi momwe mungathetsere kusakhulupirika komanso momwe mungakhazikitsire ubale mutabera.
Aphungu ambiri amaukwati awona maukwati omwe amangopulumuka chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika komanso amakhala athanzi. Ngati onse awiri ali ofunitsitsa kupeza ndi kugwiritsa ntchito maluso ofunikira kuti banja lawo liziyenda bwino, ndiye kuti banja likhoza kupulumuka.
Pakuthandizira kusakhulupirika, kusakhulupirika, ndi zochitika akatswiri akatswiri amapatsa maanja zida zoyenera ndi malangizo amomwe angayambitsire kukhulupirirana atabera.
Kuteteza banja lanu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika kudzafunika kuchitapo kanthu ndi ena.
Uphungu wosakhulupirika umakuthandizani kuti mupewe kusakhulupirika m'mabwenzi. Zidzathandiza kwambiri maanja kupeza munthu wosakhulupirika yemwe angapangitse kuti banja lanu likhale lopweteka kwambiri.
- Mankhwalawa adapangidwa kuti athane ndi mavuto amukwati wanu
- Kukuthandizani kuthana ndi mavuto obwera chifukwa cha kubera
- Pangani kulumikizananso komwe mwataya nako nokha kapena ndi mnzanu
- Pangani mndandanda wazaka zakubwezeretsa kusakhulupirika
- Tsatirani ndondomeko ya momwe mungapititsire patsogolo muubwenzi
Amathandizira kukangana, kuthandizira kuti athetse kusakhulupirika ndikuthandizira banjali kuti lisinthe mayendedwe osiyanasiyana osakhulupirika.
Zowona za 9 pankhani yabodza komanso kubera
- Amuna amakonda kuchita zachinyengo ndi akazi omwe amawadziwa
Oonera nthawi zambiri samatenga alendo m'mabala. Amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti akazi onse achinyengo amaponderezedwa - sichoncho. Ubalewo nthawi zambiri umakhala ubale woyamba.
- Amuna amabera mayeso kuti apulumutse banja lawo
Amuna amakonda akazi awo, koma sadziwa momwe angakonzere mavuto m'banjamo; amapita kunja kwa banja lawo kukayang'ana njira zowathetsera.
- Amuna amadana okha pambuyo pa zochitika
Nthawi zambiri anthu amaganiza kuti abambo amabera amuna opanda makhalidwe. Pomwe amapanga monga momwe adapangira, nthawi zambiri amadzinyadira okha nkhaniyo ikatha.
- Amayi amabera pafupipafupi monga amuna
Amuna ndi akazi amabera pamlingo wofanana; ndi zifukwa zomwe zimasiyanasiyana. Amayi amatha kubera mayeso kuti akwaniritse zofuna zawo. Kukhala ndi malingaliro okhudzidwa mwa munthu wina kukuwonetsa kuti mwatuluka muukwati wanu. Ngati ndi kugonana kokha, ndizochepera, ngakhale zili choncho.
- Mkazi amadziwa kuti mwamuna wake amabera
Dona nthawi zambiri amadziwa nthawi yomwe amuna awo atuluka; olungama sangathe kuvomereza izi.
- Zinthu nthawi zambiri zimakonza ukwati
Kusakhulupirika sikuyenera kukhala imfa ya awiriwa. Ngakhale kuti chibwenzi chatsopano chimakhala chosangalatsa, chibwenzi chingayambitsenso banja. Komabe, ganizirani nthawi yayitali musanabwerere kwa wonyenga. Flings nthawi zambiri imawonetsa momwe munthu alibe kudziletsa.
- Mkazi alibe mlandu
Ngati amuna anu ndi osakhulupirika, sikulakwa kwanu - ngakhale anthu anene chiyani. Lingaliro lakukankhidwira m'manja mwa mayi wina ndikofotokozera osati zenizeni. Amuna samanyenga chifukwa cha akazi awo; Amabera chifukwa cha omwe sali.
- Maukwati ena ayenera kuponyedwa muzinyalala
Kodi mungapulumutsedi banja mukatha kusakhulupirika? Maukwati ena sayenera kupulumutsidwa; sizinangopulumutsidwa. Ngati kusakhulupirika kuli chisonyezo cha nkhanza zapabanja kapena kuzunzidwa, ikani chibwenzicho ndikupitiliza.
- Amuna ena omwe ali ndi zochitika amati amakhala osangalala m'mabanja awo.
Ndizovuta kuti "wozunzidwayo" adziwe ngati akuyenera kuperekanso wonyenga mwayi wina. Funso loti, "momwe mungasungire chibwenzi pambuyo ponyenga" limatsata pambuyo pake kwa wokwatiridwayo yemwe amasiyidwa wosungulumwa, wokwiya, wosokonezeka komanso wonyozeka.
Ngati kusakhulupirika kunali kanthawi kamodzi, izi ndizosiyana ndi kubera wamba. Ngati ali ndi chizolowezi chobera kosalekeza, itha kukhala nthawi yoti aponye thaulo. Zikatero, kupulumutsa ukwati wanu pambuyo pa chigololo sikungatheke.
Pomwe atsimikiza kuti banja litha - ndipo liyenera kupulumutsidwa - ntchito yovuta iyamba kupulumutsa banja pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Zimatengera akatswiri kuti athetse mkwiyo, ukali ndi zina zomwe zimangobwera pambuyo poti chibwenzi chachitika.
Sizimatenga mndandanda.