Zamkati
- Nkhani yathu yaukwati
- Chiyambi cha ubale wathu wautali
- Chosowa chaubwenzi wathu wamtali
- Gwiritsani zibangili za maanja
- Matsenga azingwe
Moyo wokwatiwa ndi wovuta. Pamwamba pake, ngati moyo waukwati wafika pangozi yakupulumuka pachibwenzi chapatali, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri.
Muukwati, nthawi zina zonse zimayenda molingana ndi chikonzero, ndipo nthawi zina mumangokhalira kulimbana ndi zovuta. Palibe chowathandiza.
Moyo umakhala ndi zotsika, ndipo ukwati ndichinthu chamoyo wonse.
Kuphunzira kuthana ndi mavuto omwe amabwera nthawi ndi nthawi ndi gawo lokula limodzi kukhala banja lokhwima.
Nkhani yathu yaukwati
Ulendo wathu udayamba ndimayesero omwe tangokwatirana kumene, chifukwa chake tidatenga upangiri wakalewu, tidakulitsa kulumikizana, kupanga zizolowezi zabwino, ndikukhala ndi chizolowezi chosungabe ubale wathu.
Zikumveka ngati zolembedwa papepala, koma timakhala osangalala tikamakhala limodzi ndikusangalala ndi moyo wathu watsopano limodzi.
Kenako inafika nthawi yaukwati wathu palibe amene anatichenjeza chifukwa si chikhalidwe chawo. Mwamuna wanga analandira ntchito yayikulu mdziko lonselo, ndipo sitinathe kukana.
Malipirowo anali ochulukirapo kuposa momwe timayembekezera, koma kupitirira ndalama, ndimadziwa kuti inali ntchito yolakalaka, ndipo mwina sangapeze mwayiwu ndikamupempha kuti apereke.
Sindingathe kumuchotsera, koma sindinapangitsenso kulumpha moyo wanga wonse ndikumutsata, nthawi yomweyo. Inali nthawi yosatsimikizika kwambiri pachibwenzi chathu.
Sitinkaganiza ngakhale pang'ono kuti izi zingawononge banja lathu. Ngati mabanja ena atha kuyipangitsa kugwira ntchito, ifenso titha.
Sizingakhale kwamuyaya, pokhapokha titakhala ndi nthawi yokhazikitsa nyumba yatsopano ndikukhazikika kuti tidziwe kuti ntchito yake ikhala zonse zomwe timayembekezera kuti zidzakhala.
Chiyambi cha ubale wathu wautali
Tsiku linafika pamene adasamuka. Tidakonzekera momwe tingathere ndi upangiri kuchokera kwa abwenzi komanso abale.
Tidawonetsetsa kuti timasanja makanema apa sabata sabata iliyonse. Tinkatumizirana mameseji tsiku lililonse tikakhala ndi kamphindi ndipo tikufuna kulumikizana, ndipo kwa milungu ingapo yoyambirira, sizinali zoyipa kwenikweni.
Tidagwiritsa ntchito zida zonse kuti tisunge ubale wathu womwe timaganiza, ndipo panthawiyo, tinali tisanamvepo za zibangili.
Ndimaganiza kuti zonse tidazilingalira zaubwenzi wathu wautali mpaka pomwe adzabwerere kudzacheza koyamba pamwezi. Ndipo, zidandiyendetsa pansi.
Ndikulingalira kuti tinatengeka ndi chisangalalo cha kusuntha koyamba, ndipo adrenaline inali isanathe mpaka titadutsa mwezi woyamba uja.
Atamuwona, ndikumugwira, ndikukhala pamaso pake kwakanthawi pang'ono, kumuwona akuchoka kachiwiri kunali kokoma.
Ngati mudakhalapo pachibwenzi chapatali, mudzadziwa mtundu wa zowawa zomwe ndikunenazi.
Chosowa chaubwenzi wathu wamtali
Sindinadziwe chomwe chinali kusowa, koma ndimadziwa kuti nayenso amachimva ndipo ndimaopa kwambiri kuchibweretsa. Ndidakumbatira ubongo wanga.
Tinkalankhula tsiku lililonse, kapena pafupipafupi monga momwe timachitira tikakhala kunyumba, kulankhulana sikuwoneka ngati vuto. Ndinamuwonanso, ndipo anali kulumikizana nane nthawi zonse, ndipo mafoni athu amakanema adathandizira kuthana ndi kusiyana.
Ndinali ndi mafuta onunkhira ake pang'ono omwe ndinkasunga pamalo anga opangira zodzoladzola. Ndinali ndi zikumbutso zazing'ono zonsezi, ndipo ndimadziwa kuti adasunga zake, koma sizimamvanso chimodzimodzi.
Sitinathe kukwanitsa kumvetsetsa- kukhudza, ndikulimbikitsa kupezeka kwa winayo.
Zinali zoposa kungokumbatirana ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, ndipo pamene anali kunyumba, panali timphako tating'onoting'ono tomwe tinkamumenya patsaya.
Zinali nthawi zodzidzimutsa pomwe ndimamva kukhudzidwa kwake komanso kulumikizana kwake kosangalatsa.
Gwiritsani zibangili za maanja
Ndinayamba kufufuza pazolumikizana mosagwiritsa ntchito mawu, makamaka kulumikizana, nditazindikira zomwe taphonya pachibwenzi chathu chapatali. Ndidadziwa kuti sitinali oyamba kumva njala patatha nthawi yayitali tikupatukana.
Apa ndipamene ndidakumana ndi zibangili za HEY, ndikuyang'ana kumbuyo, ichi ndiye chida chomwe chidatithandizira kuyambiranso banja lathu.
Tidali ndi awiri ofanana ndikuwayanjanitsa kuti akamugwira chibangili, ndimve ndikumugwira dzanja langa, ndipo ndimamupatsanso momwemonso.
Kapangidwe kakang'ono aka komwe kumawoneka ngati kovuta komanso kwachilengedwe kumatha kuchita mameseji angati mameseji kapena mausiku oyimbira makanema sikungatheke. Icho potsiriza chinatseka mpata umene unali kupanga pakati pathu.
Timaseka za izi tsopano. Momwe tidayesera zida zonse zachilendozi ndi upangiri wachikhalidwe pamavuto athu amakono, koma tili pano tsopano.
Ndizovuta kufotokoza zomwe zibangili zimatha kuchita, chifukwa chake ndikupatsani chitsanzo.
Ndikumwera khofi wanga wam'mawa ndi nthawi yomwe amabwera kuchokera kuntchito. M'mbuyomu, amangondipsompsona madzulo ndikukhala nane kwakanthawi, kuwonera TV kapena kuchita zake pa intaneti.
Adayamba kubwera ndi tating'onoting'ono tomwe tinalemba kuchokera kuntchito kuti anditumizire mameseji kunyumba kwawo, njira yomwe amadzipezera chifukwa chosapezeka. Koma panthawiyo, ndimakhala ndikukonzekera kadzutsa kapena kukonzekera kupita kuntchito, kotero sindinkawerenga mpaka ola limodzi kapena kupitilira apo pamene ndinali kuntchito, ndipo anali kukonzekera kukagona.
Chodula chaching'ono choterechi chimayenera kuchitika muubwenzi wamtunda wautali, koma chimangowonjezera pakapita nthawi, ndipo chimatipangitsa kudzimva kuti ndife amitundu. Tsopano, ndimavala chibangili changa cha HEY, ndipo ndikamva kufinya pang'ono padzanja langa, ndikudziwa nthawi yomweyo amangoyerekeza za ine.
Mwina ndikudziwa dongosolo lake tsopano kuposa momwe ndinkachitira kale. Amakonda kundigwira pang'ono popita m'mawa ndi madzulo. Ndimamutumizira 'kukhudza' panthawi yopuma yanga kuntchito, kapena kuti ndingomuyankha, kuti adziwe kuti ndamumva.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zokongola zogwirizira zibangili. Sitinathenso kulimbana ndi foni kapena kutumiza mameseji kuti tilipirire mtunda ndi nthawi.
Matsenga azingwe
Zibangiri zazitsulo zidatipatsa yankho losavuta ku vuto lathu lalikulu, ndipo titha kuligwiritsa ntchito nthawi iliyonse yomwe tingafune. Amakhala omasuka kwambiri ndipo ndimatha kuwavala tsiku lonse, ndipo kapangidwe kake kamapangitsa kuti aziphatikizana ndi zovala zanga zambiri.
Aliyense amene ankangoyang'anitsitsa anaganiza kuti ndi wotchi yamtengo wapatali, ndipo ndimayikonda mwanjira imeneyi kuti isakhale chinthu chimodzi, pakati pathu tonsefe.
Pakadali pano, sindikudziwa zomwe ndingachite popanda chibangili changa cha HEY komanso mphamvu yakukhudza.
Popeza ndakhala ndikuyenda patali masabata angapo apitawa, ndikutsimikiza kuti sindikadatha kulandira ngakhale pang'ono ngakhale popanda izi, makamaka popeza ndimakhala ndekha popanda iye.
Idabweranso ndi nthawi yabwino, chifukwa amapewa kuyenda, sitinathe kukumananso pamisonkhano yathu yachizolowezi.
Ndizabwino kwambiri kwa tonsefe, kuchokera pamalingaliro azibwenzi komanso thanzi lathu. Ndipo, zikadaluma kwambiri ngati ndikadapanda kugwira pang'ono pambali panga ngati akugwira dzanja langa pang'ono, chothandizira.
Sindikumva ngati ndili ndekha masiku ano, ndipo modabwitsa, ndimamva kupezeka kwake kuposa momwe ndikadakhalira kunyumba.
Ndikudziwa kuti kulikonse komwe angakhale padziko lapansi, nditha kumudziwitsa kuti ndikumuganizira, ndimamukonda, ndipo ndimamuthandiza, ngakhale kwa kanthawi koti "kumeneko" kumatanthauza mailosi masauzande ochepa.
Sindinadziwe kuchuluka kwakusowa kwake komwe kumandikhudza, momwe ubale wamtali umakhudzira zinthu zambiri m'moyo wanga mpaka nditapeza zibangili izi za HEY.
Ngakhale amadana ndikupanga zinthu zazikuluzikuluzi, adandiuza kuti amamva chimodzimodzi.
Sakanatha kugwira ntchito yomwe amalota ndi ubale wathu wautali, popanda ine pambali pake Koma, mothandizidwa ndi zibangili zathu, tatsala pang'ono kufika kumeneko.
Kuti mudziwe zambiri zamomwe mungapulumutsire ubale wautali, onerani kanemayu.