Zamkati
- 1. Pewani kunyada ndikukhala odzichepetsa
- 2. Yesetsani kukhululukirana ndi kukhululukirana
- 3. Kutumikirana wina ndi mnzake mu chikondi
Banja lililonse limakumana ndi zovuta nthawi yonseyi. Ndi chikhulupiriro cha awiriwa mwa Khristu chomwe chimawathandiza kukhala okhulupilika kwa wina ndi mzake mu banja lopambana. Tsoka ilo, umboni wowonekera ukuwonetsa kuti ziwonetsero zachikhristu zosudzulana ndizochulukirapo kuposa mabanja omwe sakudziwika ndi chipembedzo china.
Ukwati ndi pangano lopatulika pakati pa anthu awiri ndi Mulungu, kupambana m'banja nthawi zambiri kumadalira ubale wapamtima wa aliyense ndi Khristu. Nthawi zambiri ubale wathu ndi Mulungu umajambulidwa ngati ukwati, mpingo umatchedwa mkwatibwi wa Khristu.
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuti banja liziyenda bwino ndikumanga mgwirizano wolimba. Kuti mukhale ndi ubale wosasweka ndi mnzanu muyenera kuyamba ndi Khristu. Ubale wa munthuyo ndi Khristu ndi mawu a Mulungu zitsogolera ndikuwalangiza maanja momwe angathetsere kusamvana ndi zovuta zina zomwe zingachitike. Makiyi a maubale opambana ndikuwona zinthu kudzera mu malingaliro a Baibulo, ndikuthana ndi mavuto m'njira yosasokoneza chikhulupiriro chanu.
Mnzanu ndi wopanda ungwiro yemwe amatha kuchita zinthu mosadziwa zomwe zingakukhumudwitseni ndikukhumudwitsani. Mutha kufunsa chifukwa chomwe kudzipereka kwanu kwa Khristu ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'banja lopambana. Ndi chifukwa chakuti kudzipereka kwanu kwa Khristu kumakuthandizani kuti mugwirizane ndi chikhalidwe Chake. Kutsata mawonekedwe ake kumakuthandizani kuti muwonetsere chifundo ndi chikondi kwa wokondedwa wanu.
Kuphatikiza apo, zimakuthandizani kuti mukhale okhululuka, okoma mtima komanso anzeru. Anthu omwe adzipereka kwa Khristu amagwira ntchito molimbika kuti akhale ndi Mzimu Woyera.
Agalatiya 5: 22-23 akuti “22 Koma chipatso cha Mzimu ndicho chikondi, chimwemwe, mtendere, kuleza mtima, chifundo, kukoma mtima, chikhulupiriro, 23 kudekha ndi kudziletsa. Palibe lamulo loletsa zinthu zoterezi. ”
Ndikofunika kuwonetsa izi tsiku ndi tsiku. Makamaka amafunika kuwonetsedwa mukamakumana ndi zovuta zaubwenzi wanu. Nthawi zambiri mukamatsutsana ndi mnzanu yemwe amakhala akumenyana kale zimangokulitsa mkhalidwewo.
Malinga ndi kunena kwa Mulungu, kukoma mtima kwawonetsedwa kuti kusokoneza mkwiyo, Miyambo 15: 1 imatero "Kuyankha modekha kumabweza mkwiyo, koma mawu owawa amayambitsa mkwiyo".
Ukwati ndi mwayi wopanga mikhalidwe. Kukhazikitsa mikhalidwe ndikofunikira kwa Mulungu ndipo kudzakhala kofunikira kwa mnzanu. Kukonzanso malingaliro anu tsiku lililonse ndi mawu ake kuwonetsetsa kuti mawonekedwe anu apitiliza kukulira. Kudzakhala sitepe ina yopita ku ukwati wopambana
Kudzipereka kwa Khristu ndikudzipereka kwa mnzanu kumafuna kuchita zomwezo tsiku ndi tsiku.
Pali mfundo zitatu za m’Baibulo za banja lopambana zomwe anthu okwatirana akuyenera kutsatira mu chiyanjano chawo kuti chikule mu ubale wawo ndi Mulungu komanso wina ndi mnzake.
1. Pewani kunyada ndikukhala odzichepetsa
Kunyada kumawononga ukwati ndikung'amba zaubwenzi. Kuphatikiza apo, kunyada kumasokoneza malingaliro athu potipatsa malingaliro onyenga athu. Kukhala ndi malingaliro odzinyenga tokha kumasintha molakwika momwe timachitira ndi mnzathu kapena kupanga zisankho.
Maukwati abwinobwino amagwira ntchito modzichepetsa. Kuvomereza kuti mwalakwitsa sikuti kumangodzichepetsa kokha, komanso kumakupatsani mwayi wokhala pachiwopsezo ndi mnzanu. Kuseweretsa chiwopsezo kumatha kukulitsa kukondana m'banja komwe kumalimbikitsanso banja. Kuopsezedwa ndi kudzichepetsa ndizofunikira kuti banja liziyenda bwino.
2. Yesetsani kukhululukirana ndi kukhululukirana
Ngakhale zingakhale zovuta ndikofunikira kukhululuka mnzanu, Aefeso 4:32 imati "Khalani okomerana wina ndi mnzake, a mtima wachifundo, akukhululukirana nokha, monganso Mulungu mwa Khristu adakukhululukirani".
Kukhululuka komwe Mulungu watisonyeza ife kuyenera kuwonetsa wokondedwa wathu kuti banja likhale lopambana. Mwa kusiya zopweteketsa zakale ubale umatha kugwira ntchito pamlingo woyenera. Kugwiritsitsa zopweteka zakale kungatipangitse kusunga mkwiyo womwe ungadziwonetse m'makhalidwe oyipa. Makhalidwe amenewa atha kusokoneza banja lathu.
3. Kutumikirana wina ndi mnzake mu chikondi
Ukwati umakhala wabwino kwambiri ngati anthu ali ndi mtima wofuna kutumikira, kuthandiza mnzanu kumalimbitsa banja polola kuti mnzanu amve kukondedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa. Pamene okwatirana akula muubale wawo ndi Mulungu ndipamenenso amazindikira kuti chikhulupiriro chawo ndicho chothandizira kulumikizana ndi banja lopambana.