Zamkati
- 1. Osasiya kuchita zazing'ono
- 2. Khalani ndi chibwenzi
- 3. Pitani patchuthi chachiwiri
- 4. Konzani tsiku lokhazikika usiku
- 5. Chotsani luso la zopangapanga
- 6. Konzani malonjezo anu
- 7. Sangalalani ndi kupambana kwanu
Chiyanjano pakati pa okwatirana ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofunikira kwambiri zomwe munthu angakhale nazo, motero sizosadabwitsa kuti maanja nthawi zonse amafunafuna njira zowonetsetsa kuti banja lawo likuyenda bwino.
Ukwati suyenera kukhala wonyong'onyeka komanso wotopetsa, monga momwe maanja ena angapangire, koma sizitanthauza kuti omwe akuchita nawo zibwenzi sayenera kukonzekera kukonza ubale wawo nthawi zonse. Chikondi m'banja ndicho chofunikira kwambiri pakufunika kuti muchite bwino. Malingana ngati pali chikondi m'banja, anthu okwatirana nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mphamvu zothetsera zovuta zilizonse pamoyo wawo.
Nazi njira zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe mungapezere chikondi cha ubale wamphamvu, wathanzi
1. Osasiya kuchita zazing'ono
Pankhani yakukondana m'banja, osasiya kuchita zazing'ono. Kugwirana dzanja mukuyenda limodzi mumsewu, kuthandiza mnzanuyo ntchito zapakhomo kapena kudzaza galimoto ngati mukudziwa kuti mnzanu akuyendetsa kwinakwake ndi njira zabwino komanso zabwino zosonyezera mnzanu kuti mukuwaganizira .
Makhalidwe alinso amodzi mwamachitidwe osavuta kwambiri komanso ophweka omwe mungapange muukwati wanu omwe amapeza zotsatira zabwino. Nenani zikomo mnzanu atakubweretserani kapu ya vinyo kapena akupangirani khofi m'mawa ndikuti chonde mukapempha kanthu. Izi zoyeserera zazing'ono zimamupangitsa wokondedwa wanu kudzisangalatsa.
2. Khalani ndi chibwenzi
Njira imodzi yopezera chikondi m'banja ndiyo kuyesetsa kukhala okondana limodzi.
Kusangalala pamodzi kusewera masewera ndikuwonera makanema nthawi zonse kumakhala njira yabwino yopezera nthawi yamadzulo, koma ndikofunikira kukonzekera madzulo achikondi. Pangani chikondi, sambani pamodzi, khalani pafupi ndi malo anu ozimitsira moto ndi vinyo ndikukambirana.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti pali kulumikizana kwakukulu pakati pa kukondana ndi kuyang'anizana, nanga bwanji osayamba ndi kukondana m'banja lanu ndikumakhala nthawi yoyang'anizana.
3. Pitani patchuthi chachiwiri
Kukondwerera ukwati sikuti mumangololedwa kuchita mutakwatirana. Kwa iwo omwe akuganiza: Kodi phwando lachiwiri laukwati silimangopita kutchuthi limodzi? Yankho ndi ayi. Mutha kuyambiranso tchuthi chanu popita kumalo omwewo kapena mutha kukonzekera komwe mungapite. Koma, mfundo yopita kokasangalala kwachiwiri sikungopita limodzi. Ndikukonzekera ulendo, osati ndikapita kukawona malo ndi zipewa za alendo, koma ndikukonda komanso nthawi yabwino.
Tchuthi chachiwiri ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri kuti muwonetse chikondi chanu kwa wina ndi mnzake, kuthetsa nkhawa pamoyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku, kugonana tsiku lililonse, ndikukumbukira za banja lanu komanso kuchuluka kwa zomwe mudakulira limodzi kuyambira nthawi yoyamba kukondwerera ukwati.
4. Konzani tsiku lokhazikika usiku
Kaya ndandanda yanu itha kuloleza kamodzi, kawiri, kapena kanayi pamwezi, kukonzekera tsiku lokhala ndi tsiku nthawi zonse kumatha kuchita zabwino kuti musunge chikondi m'banja. Usiku watsiku ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri kuti inu ndi mnzanuyo mukonzekere zosangalatsa komanso zachikondi kuti muchite limodzi. Mutha kusinthana kukonzekera madzulo, kaya mumakonda kusungunuka ndikunyumba ndikuchezera madzulo ndikukambirana kapena kupita kokadya kapena kukacheza. Dziko lapansi ndi oyisitara wanu!
Gawo lofunikira kwambiri lausiku ndikuti mukuwononga nthawi yabwino kucheza, kugawana, kuseka, ndikusangalala. Usiku wamasiku ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri wolumikizanso paubwenzi wapamtima, kugwirana manja, kuyenda mikono, kumpsompsona, ndipo, ndikupititsa zinthu kuchipinda.
5. Chotsani luso la zopangapanga
Njira imodzi yopezera chikondi m'banja ndikutulutsa paukadaulo. Kafukufuku wina adapeza kuti ngakhale kupezeka kwa foni yam'manja kumatha kusokoneza m'maganizo ndikukhala ndi vuto pakucheza. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kungokhala ndi foni mchipinda chimodzi pomwe mukuyesera kuti mulankhule ndi mnzanu kungawononge nthawi yanu yokha.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zotulutsira ukadaulo kwakanthawi kwakanthawi, monga kafukufuku yemwe akuwonetsa kuti zida zowunikira zingakhudze kugona kwanu, kuwonjezera chiwopsezo cha matenda amisala, komanso kulepheretsa kukumbukira kwakanthawi kochepa. M'malo mongoganizira zomwe amakonda pa Insta, kucheza ndi anzanu 10 nthawi imodzi, ndikuwona maimelo mukakhala ndi mnzanu, yesetsani kutsegula madzulo (kapena osachepera 30-mphindi ngati simungathe kupatukana ndi chida chanu !)
6. Konzani malonjezo anu
Kukhazikitsa malonjezo anu ndi njira yabwino yosangalalira ukwati wanu ndikuwuza dziko lapansi (kapena kungodziwitsana wina ndi mnzake) kuti mudzachitanso. Pali njira zambiri zosinthira malonjezo. Mutha kukonzanso malonjezo anu ndikukhala ndi phwando lalikulu kwa anzanu ndi abale anu. Ichi ndi chisankho chabwino popeza simudzakhala ndi nkhawa zomwe mudakhala nazo nthawi yoyamba. Mutha kusangalala kwambiri popeza nthawi ino mukudziwa zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera ndipo muli pafupi ndi anzanu komanso mabanja.
Muthanso kusankha kukonzanso malumbiro anu eni, achinsinsi. Chitani china chake chapadera monga kusinthana malonjezo paulendo wapanyanja, mu baluni yotentha, kapena kulowa kwa dzuwa pagombe limodzi. Gwiritsani ntchito zikumbutso zazikulu ngati mwayi wokulitsa chikondi chanu kwa wina ndi mnzake. Nthawi yoyamba inali tsiku lamatsenga, koma nthawi yachiwiri kungakhale kosangalatsa kwa inu ndi mnzanu.
7. Sangalalani ndi kupambana kwanu
Ngati mukufuna kuphunzira kusangalala ndi banja, yambani kukondwerera zambiri! Mabanja achimwemwe amakonda kukondwerera limodzi, kaya ndi tsiku lokumbukira zochitika zawo zaposachedwa, kupita patsogolo pantchito kapena mwana wawo wamwamuna wongotenga nawo mbali pachosewerera pasukulu. Mukamakondwerera limodzi, mukuwonetsa kuyamikira ndi kunyadira mnzanu, zomwe zimawapangitsa kudzimva kukhala apadera komanso kuvomerezedwa. Kukondwerera limodzi ngati banja kapena banja kumathandizanso kuti pakhale malingaliro abwino ndikupanga mzimu wogwirizana.
Palibe china chonga kukhala ndi chikondi chochuluka muukwati. Sungani moto wapanyumba poyesa kulingalira, kusonyeza kuyamikira, kucheza nthawi zonse ndi mnzanu, komanso kucheza kwambiri. Mukamachita zinthu izi, chikondi chanu chimakhalabe cholimba.