Zamkati
- Mnyamata wamayi ndi chiyani?
- Momwe mungayang'anire mwana wamamuna
- Amuna ndi apongozi mavuto - kukhazikitsa malire
- 1. Kulankhula ndi kukhazikitsa malire
- 2. Muziganizira nokha monga mkazi ndi mayi kwa ana anu
- 3. Fotokozerani amuna anu momwe mukumvera koma chitani bwino
- 4. Kuleza mtima kwakukulu ndi komwe kudzafunika
Mumanyadira amuna anu chifukwa ndiwokoma komanso woganizira, osanenapo za njonda yeniyeni yozungulira azimayiwo.
Amadziwa kulemekeza komanso kunena zinthu zoyenera zomwe zimakopa akazi.
Ndiwotchera kwambiri ndipo mukutsimikiza kuti mumasilira anzanu - mpaka mutazindikira chifukwa chake. Pambuyo paukwati wa miyezi yambiri, pamapeto pake mumawona chifukwa chake ali njonda komanso yosangalatsa - mudakwatirana ndi mwana wamwamuna!
Tsopano, mumatani?
Mnyamata wamayi ndi chiyani?
Ndi mwana wamayi! Mudamvapo mawu awa kangapo kale koma mumafotokozera bwanji tanthauzo la mwana wamwamuna weniweni?
Mnyamata wa mayi ndi mwana yemwe ali diso la amayi ake koma mzaka zonsezi, tanthauzo ili lidasandulika kukhala mwamuna wokula msinkhu yemwe amadalirabe kwambiri kwa amayi ake ngakhale atakula.
Ngakhale mungaganize kuti zilibe vuto kapena zimangowonetsa kuti mwamuna sadziyimira pawokha, zitha kuwopseza osati kukhwima kokha komanso ngakhale atakhala kale ndi banja lake.
Mwamuna yemwe wafika msinkhu wokwanira kuti apange zosankha zake koma amalola amayi ake kupanga zisankho zomaliza ngakhale atakhala kale ndi banja alidi pakati pa amuna omwe ali ndi zovuta za amayi.
Kuchita ndi mwana wamamuna sikophweka!
Amayi ambiri omwe akwatiwa ndi m'modzi amalumbira kuti ndizovuta kuthana ndi bambo yemwe sangathe kuchita chilichonse popanda mawu omaliza a amayi ake.
Momwe mungayang'anire mwana wamamuna
Kodi mumadziwa bwanji zizindikilo za mwana wamwamuna mwa amuna okwatira okwanira?
Poyamba, mwina simudziwa kuti chibwenzi chanu kapena munthu amene muli naye pachibwenzi ndi mwana wamamayi wotsimikizika. M'malo mwake, amatha kupitanso ngati munthu wokoma kwambiri ndi amayi awo ndikukhala munthawi iyi ya chibwenzi, simungamvetse zizindikiro zilizonse.
Mukakwatirana, ino ndi nthawi yoti mungodabwa momwe mungachitire ndi mwana wamwamuna wa momma.
Zizindikiro ziyamba kuwonekera, ndipo Nazi zina mwazizindikiro kuti mwakwatiwa ndi mwana wamwamuna wa momma.
- Pempho la amayi ndilo lofunika kwambiri. Kodi amuna anu ndi otanganidwa kwambiri ndi inu koma amapezeka nthawi zonse mayi ake akaitana? Kodi nthawi zonse amuna anu ndiamene amapita nawo kukagula, kulipira ngongole, ngakhale akafunikire kupita kwa dokotala?
- Kodi nthawi zambiri mumawona kuti amuna anu ndi busy ndi phone yake koma samakopa atsikana ena, iye alidi kuyankhula ndi amayi ake, kangapo patsiku!
- Zoyenera kuchita mwamuna wako Amakusankhirani banja lake kuposa inu ndi ana anu? Ngati mukuwona kuti ichi ndi chinthu chomwe muyenera kuganizira, ndiye kuti mwakwatirana ndi bambo yemwe angasankhe mayi ake kuposa banja lake.
- Mukamapanga zisankho zazikulu, amuna anu akuphatikizapo malingaliro a amayi ake.
- Wanu apongozi akazi maulendo pafupipafupi ndipo amasintha zomwe amakonda kunyumba kwanu.
- Kodi mwamuna wanu kapena chibwenzi cha nthawi yayitali amakhala yerekezerani ndi amayi ake? Kodi amakuwuzani kuti steak yanu ndi yosiyana bwanji ndi amayi ake?
- "Apongozi anga amachita ngati akwatiwa ndi amuna anga," ngati mwapezeka kuti mukunena mawu awa ndiye kuti mwakwatirana ndi mwana wamwamuna.
- Pomaliza, mumakhala pafupi ndi kwawo kwa amayi ake kapena mumakhala naye.
Amuna ndi apongozi mavuto - kukhazikitsa malire
Ngati simunakwatirane koma muli pachibwenzi, mungafune kudziwa momwe mungachitire ndi bwenzi lachimuna la mayi ndikupanga mfundo.
Simukufuna kumva kuti ndinu gudumu lachitatu pano, sichoncho?
Komabe, funso lenileni apa ndilakuti, mavuto amwamuna ndi apongozi asanakumanepo, tikufuna kudziwa momwe tingasinthire mwana wamwamuna wa mayi mtengereni iye kwa iyemwini ndi kwa inu - banja lake.
Amayi ambiri angaganize kuti kumulola kuti asankhe ndikumukakamira za momwe angalekerere kukhala mwana wamwamuna wa mayi, koma iyi si njira yoyenera chifukwa izi zitha kupweteketsa mtima kwake, amapwetekanso ndi mawu omwe mudzatero kukhala ndikunena ndipo kumangika mikangano ndi mkwiyo.
Komanso, amayi ake amathanso kudziwa, zomwe zimabweretsa mavuto.
1. Kulankhula ndi kukhazikitsa malire
Adziwitseni amuna anu kuti mukumvetsetsa ndipo mudzalemekeza ubale wawo ndi amayi awo koma akuyeneranso kukuthandizani inu ndi ana ngati muli nawo.
Simuyenera kukhala ndi apongozi anu nthawi zonse monga amuna anu amachitira. M'malo mwake, ngati akufuna kudya limodzi kapena akufuna kutuluka, mutha kukana mwaulemu.
2. Muziganizira nokha monga mkazi ndi mayi kwa ana anu
Ali panjira, lankhulani ndi amuna anu momwe angakhazikitsire malire popeza ili ndiye banja lanu osati gawo la amayi ake.
Kulepheretsa kuyang'anira kwanu kungakhale kumasula komanso kukuwuzani kuti ndinu mfumukazi yakunyumba kwanu.
3. Fotokozerani amuna anu momwe mukumvera koma chitani bwino
Osakhala woyipa panthawiyi.
Mutha kukhala pachibwenzi ndi apongozi anu ndikukambirana zakulera. Muthanso kulankhulana ndi amuna anu za kuyerekezera komanso kuti sizabwino kutero - pangani zinthuzi bwino.
4. Kuleza mtima kwakukulu ndi komwe kudzafunika
Monga mawu akuti mwana wamwamuna, zitha kuwoneka kuti amuna anu akadali mwana wachinyamata yemwe amakonda kwambiri komanso kudalira amayi ake. Ichi ndichinthu chomwe mumasintha pang'onopang'ono koma chitani pang'onopang'ono.
A mwana wamayi sichinthu choyipa chonse, m'malo mwake, zimamupangitsa kukhala wachifundo komanso waulemu kwa anthu.
Nthawi zina, lingaliro lokhala ndi mpikisano woti amusamalire, kusemphana pakati pa mkazi ndi apongozi kumakhala kopanikiza koma ndichinthu chomwe mutha kuchitapo kanthu, popeza ndinu banja.