Zamkati
- 1. Kusala kudya
- 2. Zoyipa
- 3. Chuppah
- 4. Kuzungulira ndi zowinda
- 5. Ketubah
- 6. Sheva B'rachot kapena madalitso asanu ndi awiri
- 7. Kuswa galasi
- 8. Yichud
Kukongola kwa ubale wamwamuna ndi mkazi komanso maudindo awo kwa wina ndi mnzake komanso kwa anthu awo kukuwonetsedwa ndi miyambo ndi miyambo yovuta kutsatira yomwe imatsatiridwa potenga malumbiro achiukwati achiyuda.
Tsiku laukwati limawoneka ngati limodzi la masiku osangalatsa kwambiri komanso opatulika kwambiri m'moyo wa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi monga zakale zawo zakhululukidwa ndipo akuphatikizana ndi moyo watsopano komanso wathunthu.
Pachikhalidwe, kuti alimbikitse chisangalalo ndi chiyembekezo, banjali losangalala sawonananso kwa sabata limodzi asanachite malumbiro awo achikwati achiyuda.
Nazi malonjezo 8 achikwati achiyuda ndi miyambo yomwe muyenera kudziwa:
1. Kusala kudya
Tsikulo litafika, banjali limachitidwa ngati mfumu komanso mfumukazi. Mkwatibwi wakhala pampando wachifumu pomwe mkwati wazunguliridwa ndi alendo omwe akuimba ndikumumenyanitsa.
Pofuna kulemekeza tsiku laukwati wawo mabanja ena amasankha kugwira mwamphamvu. Zofanana ndi Yom Kippur, tsiku laukwati limadziwikanso ngati tsiku lokhululukirana. Kusala kudya kumasungidwa mpaka pamwambo womaliza wa ukwati utatha.
2. Zoyipa
Chotsatira mwambo waukwati usanachitike mwambowu umatchedwa Bedken. Nthawi ya Bedken mkwati amayandikira mkwatibwi ndikuyika chophimba pa mkwatibwi wake posonyeza kudzichepetsa komanso kudzipereka kwake kuvala ndi kuteteza mkazi wake.
Bedken amatanthauzanso kuti chikondi cha mkwati kwa mkwatibwi ndicho kukongola kwake kwamkati. Mwambo wa mkwati wobisa mkwatibwi mwiniwake umachokera m'Baibulo ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mkwati samanyengedwa kukwatira wina.
3. Chuppah
Pulogalamu ya Mwambo waukwati umachitika pansi pa denga lotchedwa chuppah. Chovala chopempherera kapena kutalika kwa munthu wam'banja nthawi zambiri chimagwiritsidwa ntchito popanga denga.
Denga lokutidwa ndi ngodya zinayi za chuppah ndizoyimira nyumba yatsopano yomwe banjali limanga limodzi. Mbali zotseguka zikuyimira hema la Abrahamu ndi Sara komanso kutseguka kwawo kuchereza alendo.
Mu Miyambo yachiyuda yachiyuda imapita ku chuppah mkwati amayenda m'njira ndi makolo ake onse kutsatira mkwatibwi komanso makolo ake onse.
4. Kuzungulira ndi zowinda
Akakhala pansi pa chuppah, imodzi mwamaukwati achiyuda patsiku laukwati ndikuti mkwatibwi azungulira mkwati katatu kapena kasanu ndi kawiri. Izi ndizophiphiritsa zomanga dziko latsopano limodzi ndipo nambala yachisanu ndi chiwiri ikuyimira kukwanira ndikukwaniritsa.
Kuzungulira kumayimira kukhazikitsidwa kwa khoma lamatsenga kuzungulira banja kuti mutchinjirize ku mayesero ndi mizimu yoyipa.
Mkwatibwi amakhazikika kupatula mkwati kudzanja lake lamanja. Izi zikutsatiridwa ndi rabi akuwerenga madalitso otomerana pambuyo pake awiriwo amamwa makapu awiri oyamba a vinyo omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pamalumbiro achikwati achihebri kapena malumbiro achiukwati achiyuda.
Kenako mkwati amatenga mphete yagolide yoyera ndikuyiyika pachikhatho cha dzanja lamanja la mkwatibwi wake nati, "Taonani, mwatomerana ndi ine ndi mphete iyi, malinga ndi lamulo la Mose ndi Israeli." Iyi ndiye mfundo yofunika kwambiri pamwambowu pomwe ukwati ukhala wovomerezeka.
5. Ketubah
Tsopano pangano laukwati limawerengedwa ndikusainidwa ndi mboni ziwiri kenako madalitso asanu ndi awiriwo akuwerengedwa pomwe chikho chachiwiri cha vinyo chimatengedwa. Pangano laukwati lomwe limadziwikanso kuti Ketubah mu Chiyuda ndi mgwirizano womwe umakhudza ntchito ndi maudindo a mkwati.
Imafotokoza zomwe mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kukwaniritsa ndikukhala ndi dongosolo ngati awiriwo atha kusudzulana.
Ketubah kwenikweni ndi mgwirizano wamalamulo achiyuda osati chikalata chachipembedzo, chifukwa chake chikalatacho sichinatchule mulungu kapena madalitso ake. A Mboni amapezekanso panthawi yolembetsa Ketubah ndipo amawerengedwa pamaso pa alendo.
6. Sheva B'rachot kapena madalitso asanu ndi awiri
Sheva B'rachot kapena madalitso asanu ndi awiriwo ndi mtundu wamaphunziro akale achiyuda zomwe zimawerengedwa m'Chiheberi ndi Chingerezi ndi abwenzi osiyanasiyana komanso abale. Kuwerenga kumayamba ndi madalitso ang'onoang'ono omwe amasandulika mawu okondwerera.
7. Kuswa galasi
Mapeto a mwambowu amadziwika ndi nthawi yomwe galasi imayikidwa pansi mkati mwa nsalu ndipo mkwati amaponda ndi phazi lake kuwonetsera kuwonongedwa kwa kachisi ku Yerusalemu ndikuzindikiritsa banjali ndi tsogolo la anthu awo.
Mabanja ambiri amatha kusonkhanitsa magalasi osweka ndikuwasandutsa chikumbutso chaukwati wawo. Uku kukuwonetsa kutha kwa Myuda malonjezo ndipo aliyense amafuula "Mazel Tov" (zikomo) pamene omwe angolowa kumene m'banja alandiridwa mwansangala.
8. Yichud
Mwambowu utatha, maanja amakhala motalikirana kwa mphindi pafupifupi 18 ngati gawo la chikhalidwe chawo cha yichud. Yichud ndi chikhalidwe chachiyuda momwe anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene amapatsidwa mpata wounika za chibwenzi chawo mwachinsinsi.