Zamkati
Konzani
Zimakhala zosangalatsa kukhala ndi chibwenzi chatsopano pambuyo pamavuto kapena kupatukana mbanja; palibe kukaikira za izo. Koma, ndibwino kuyimilira kwakanthawi musanadumphire mwayi wina. Mwayi wachiwiri ndi mwayi wamtengo wapatali wopanga maubwenzi omwe anthu amalakalaka atakhala nawo koyamba. Ndikofunikira kukonza mwayi wachiwiri, koma nthawi zambiri anthu amawasakaza chifukwa sanasinthe kwambiri.
Kumvetsetsa zomwe mungasinthe komanso momwe mungasinthire nthawi zambiri kumafuna nthawi kuti muganizire pazomwe zidachitika kale. Ngakhale kulingalira motere kungayambitse kusokonezeka kwamalingaliro, kulephera kuyimilira ndikuwonetsetsa kungakhale kulakwitsa kwakukulu. Mwayi wachiwiri umangogwira ntchito bwino kuposa zoyeserera zoyambirira ngati onse awiri atazindikira ndikusintha koyambirira. Chifukwa chake, m'malo mongodumpha mwachangu mwayi wina, kaye konzekerani. M'munsimu muli malingaliro ena pochita izi.
Imani pang'ono
1. Dziwani chomwe chalakwika
Khalani pansi ndi mnzanuyo ndikuzindikira mfundo zazikulu zomwe zakhudza banja lanu. Kuchita izi kumafuna kuwona mtima, chifundo, kulimba mtima, ndi kuleza mtima. Mutha kuyesedwa kutsutsa zomwe mnzanuyo wanena kapena kutsutsa zomwe akuwona ngati zolakwa zanu, koma ndibwino kuwonetsa kudzichepetsa komanso kumasuka. Chepetsani zosokoneza zanu ndipo lingalirani malingaliro ndi malingaliro awo kukhala golide! Kumvetsetsa malingaliro awo / momwe akumvera kumakuthandizani kuzindikira zosintha zofunika kusintha. Dziwani kuti kulephera kutenga umwini pazolakwitsa zakale ndi njira yotsimikiziranso yoyatsira mwayi wanu wachiwiri. Chifukwa chake, mutazindikira chomwe chalakwika, khalani ndi nthawi yolingalira zomwe nonse mukufuna kuchokera pachibwenzi ndikukhala ndi zolinga zoti mukwaniritse.
2. Landirani zakale
N 'chifukwa chiyani tikulimbana ndi zomwe zidachitika kale? Palibe mulingo wokhumba kusakhulupirika, kukakamizidwa ndi zachuma, kusasamala, kunyalanyaza malingaliro, kapena chilichonse chomwe chingachitike, chomwe sichingasinthe. Zinangochitika; kutha kwa nkhaniyi. Ngati simungavomereze zenizeni zomwe zidachitika ndikusunthira kukhululuka, kapena kukhululuka, ndiye kuti mwina mukhozanso kusiya tsopano. Inde, zimatenga nthawi kuti mtima wanu ukhale m'malo, koma zina mwazomwe zimathandiza ndikuphunzira kuvomereza m'malo mongodzudzula kapena kufufuzira zomwe ziyenera kukhala. Musalole mwayi wanu wachiwiri kufota chifukwa cha kutentha kwa zolakwika zomwe sizingasinthidwe. Ngati ubalewo ndiwofunika kwa inu, vomerezani kukhululuka ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mukuyambiranso ubale wabwino.
3. Ganizirani mwayi uwu mwayi wanu wotsiriza (mwina!)
Ndikudziwa kuti izi zikumveka mopitirira muyeso, koma ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse kukula kwa mkhalidwe wanu wapano. Mnzanu watseguliranso mtima wake, koma nthawi ino ikhoza kukhala yomaliza ngati zinthu sizisintha. Palibe chomwe chimasokoneza kusintha kwamakhalidwe monga kupanda chidwi komanso kusachita changu. Muyenera kulimbikitsidwa komanso kukhala achangu kuti musinthe. Chifukwa chake ,alumikizani ndi zomwe mukufuna! Nchiyani chakulimbikitsani kuti muyambe chibwenzicho poyamba? Nchiyani chikukulimbikitsani tsopano ngakhale mutakumana ndi zovuta zonse kapena mikangano? Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, pezani njira zopititsira patsogolo chidwi chanu kuti musinthe kusintha. Zimathandizanso kukhala pazala zanu (titero kunena kwake) ndikukhala achangu. Dziwani kuti kuleza mtima kwa mnzanu kuli ndi malire ndipo mukasintha zinthu moyenera ndipamenenso amatha kuleka ndikudalira Zolinga zanu.
Konzani
1. Fotokozani momveka bwino zomwe mumakonda
Kukhala ndi malingaliro ofanana ndikofunikira kuti ubale uliwonse ukhale wabwino. Dziwani zomwe mumakonda kwambiri ndikugawana ndi mnzanu.
Sankhani komwe mfundo zanu zikugwirizana kapena kutchinga. Ngati zodula zili m'malo omwe ndiosafunikira ndiye akhale. Komabe, ngati zodula zili m'malo omwe ndi ofunikira kwambiri kwa inu, tengani nthawi kuti mupeze njira yothetsera kusiyana kapena kunyengerera. Makhalidwe omwe agawana akhoza kukhala chitsogozo chamakhalidwe, makamaka munthawi yovuta, ndikuchepetsa mavuto kapena zovuta zomwe zingachitike.
2. Konzani mayankho anu
Sanjani nthawi sabata iliyonse kapena mwezi uliwonse kuti mulowemo ndikugawana malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu za chibwenzicho. Gawani zomwe mukuganiza kuti zikugwira ntchito komanso zomwe zikufunika kukonza. Ikani mayankho anu pamene mukupitiliza kupanga ubale wanu kukhala chinthu chomwe chingakwaniritse nonsenu.
3. Khazikitsani zolinga za SMART
Ndikudziwa kuti izi zikumveka ngati ntchito, koma zolinga za SMART zikuthandizani kuti muchite bwino muubwenzi wanu. SMART imayimira zenizeni, zoyezeka, zoyeserera, zowona, zopanda malire. Kukhala ndi zolinga zenizeni kumabweretsa tanthauzo, kukuyimbani mlandu, ndikukuyikani bwino. Onetsetsani kuti mwalandira mayankho a mnzanuyo ndi kugula nawo. Sizomveka kuyesetsa kukwaniritsa zosowa zawo m'njira yomwe amawona ngati yosathandiza kapena yosafunikira. Kuchita zinthu mogwirizana ndi kofunikira, choncho khalani pansi limodzi kuti muzindikire zolinga zanu.
Kuchita izi koyambirira kungakupatseni njira yokhayo yosinthira ubale. Mpaka nthawi yotsatira, kumbukirani, kondani mwamphamvu, ndikukhala bwino!