Zamkati
- Amachiritsa mzimu wamalingaliro
- Kuchiza kwa onse awiri
- Kumasula mkwiyo
- Imalimbikitsa kukhala mwamtendere m'banja
- Amalimbikitsa kuwona mtima ndi kuwona mtima
- Ignites kanthu zabwino
- Ikufotokozera chifukwa chotsatira chanu
Mwachilengedwe, maanja amakumana ndi zovuta chifukwa cha momwe adaleredwera m'machitidwe / mfundo zosiyanasiyana za mabanja komanso umunthu wosiyanasiyana. Chomwe chimapangitsa kuti banja likhale losangalala kapena losasangalala ndichokhoza kulapa ndikupempha chikhululukiro pakulakwa kulikonse. Zimachotsa malingaliro osalimbikitsa omwe amakhala ndi mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo. Kutha kwa banjali kuvomereza zolakwa zawo m'malo mongosewera ndi anzawo kumabweretsa mwayi wokhululukirana. Kukhululuka kulibe malire; M'malo mwake, zimakupatsani mwayi wopanga chipiriro ndi kudzichepetsa.
Mkwiyo wokhalitsa umathetsa kulumikizana kwamphamvu pakati pa anthu okwatirana zomwe zimabweretsa kusamvana. Nthawi yomwe kulibe kulumikizana pakati pa maanja; kuvomereza udindo komanso kuyesayesa kulikonse kokonza ukwatiwo nkopanda pake. Zotsatira zake zonse ndikuwonetsa kukwiya komanso kusamvana komwe kumatha kumabweretsa chisudzulo. Nazi zotsatira zisanu ndi ziwiri zabwino zakukhululukirana ndi kulapa m'banja
Amachiritsa mzimu wamalingaliro
Kukhululuka sikofooka koma mphamvu yochiritsa. Kutha kwake kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwika kumakopa chidwi. Kumbali inayi, kulapa kumakupatsani mwayi wovomereza zofooka zanu ndi cholinga chakuwongolera mothandizidwa ndi mnzanu. Zomwe zakukwaniritsani ziwirizi zimabwezeretsanso chikondi muukwati wachimwemwe.
Kuchiza kwa onse awiri
Kukhululuka ndi kulapa zimapereka mpata woona mtima pothetsa vuto. Palibe kusatsimikizika kwa kusiyana kosathetsedwa komwe kumalola maanja kupita chitsogolo m'malo momangokhalira kusagwirizana.
Kumasula mkwiyo
Nthawi yomwe kusowa kukhululukirana muukwati, kuwona kwa mnzanu kumabweretsa udani. Pobwezerana, mnzakewo amakhala ndi njira yodzitchinjiriza kuti apewe kukangana. Imasesa kusamvana pansi pamphasa. Kodi mwathetsa vutoli? Mukakhululuka mumalankhula zakukhosi kwanu, mnzanu amatenga nawo mbali ndikulonjeza kuti asintha. Mpumulo bwanji pabanja lopindulitsa. Zomwe simungathe kuziyiwala kutengera momwe akumvera kupweteka, sizikhala mumtima mwanu kuti mupange mkwiyo.
Imalimbikitsa kukhala mwamtendere m'banja
Mtendere ndi gawo la kukhutira muukwati; zikutanthauza kuti, ngakhale pali zovuta, mutha kumwetulira ndikuseka. Osalakwitsa kukhala chete kuti mukhale mwamtendere, mutha kukhala chete ndikumva mkwiyo. Kuti mufike pakukhululuka ndi kulapa, zikuwonetsa kukhwima kwanu pakuwongolera zinthu mopanda mantha, koma mwaulemu komanso mwachikondi. Kukhululuka kumalimbikitsa mtima woyera wopanda chidani ndikuthana ndi nkhawa kuti mutha kukhala mwamtendere ndi mnzanu.
Amalimbikitsa kuwona mtima ndi kuwona mtima
Mumapempha chikhululukiro mukakhala okonzeka kuyankha mafunso ovuta; Komanso ndinu okhululuka ndikusiya kukwiya komanso kukwiya chifukwa mukufunitsitsa kufunsa mnzanu modzichepetsa kuti mupewe kubwereza cholakwacho. Pamlingo uwu, maphwando onse amakhala owona mtima komanso owona mtima wina ndi mnzake kuti aziyika zonse bwino popanda kuwopa kuweruzidwa. Kukhululukirana kumatsegula njira yanu yolumikizirana- gawo lofunikira kuti banja liziyenda bwino.
Ignites kanthu zabwino
Munakwanitsa kupeza chinsinsi chakuya cha mnzanu; pamene mukuyembekezera mwayi wabwino wokambirana, mnzanuyo amakupemphani kuti mupeze tsiku la khofi kuti mufotokozere, komabe sakudziwa zakudziwitsani kwanu. Mukupeza bwanji? Basi, mkwiyowo umaphwa, ndikupatsa mwayi wocheza ndi okhwima. Kuvomereza ntchito yolakwika kumapangitsa malingaliro anu abwino kupereka chithandizo kuti muchepetse kufooka kwamuyaya. Kumbukirani kuti, si nthawi yodzudzula mnzanu kapena kukalipa ngakhale kuti vutolo ndi lalikulu.
Ikufotokozera chifukwa chotsatira chanu
Inde, mutakambirana za momwe mulili; mwina mnzanuyo anachitapo kanthu chifukwa cha khalidwe lanu lamwano. Kukhululuka kumapereka mpata wopitilira patsogolo ndikuphatikizanso momwe akumvera onse. Akatswiri azamabanja amatsimikiziranso kuti kukhululuka ndi njira yokhazikitsanso ukwati. Zimapatsa mwayi maanja kuti azilankhulana momasuka komanso kugawana zakukhosi kwawo zofunikira m'banja ndi cholinga chocheza mpaka m'tsogolo.
Kuchita kukhululuka ndikulapa ndi njira ziwiri. Mukamapempha chikhululukiro, mnzanuyo ayenera kukhala ndi kufunitsitsa kuti akukhululukireni - amenewo ndiye kumaliza ntchitoyo. Kupitiliza kwa banja lanu losangalala kudalira kuthekera kwanu kuyang'ana pa cholinga chokulirapo "chopitilira muyeso" kudzera kulumikizana nthawi zonse, kukhululuka, kulapa, ndikufunitsitsa kusiya zomwe mudachita kale osalakwa. Kukhululuka kumakhala kopanda malire komanso kosakwanira pafupipafupi, makamaka, ndikulingalira kwamkati.