Zamkati
C.Kupereka uphungu asanakwatirane Amapereka mwayi kwa maanja kuthana ndi mavuto omwe angakumane nawo mchibwenzi chawo. Zimathandiza maanja kupewa zinthu zazing'ono kuti zisakhale zovuta komanso zimawathandizanso kuzindikira ziyembekezo zawo kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake mbanjamo.
Uphungu asanalowe m'banja nthawi zambiri amaperekedwa ndi wololeza, kapena nthawi zina, ngakhale mabungwe azipembedzo amapereka uphungu asanakwatirane.
Poyankha mafunso anu musanalowe m'banja, mlangizi asanakwatirane atha kukuthandizani kuti mugwirizane pazovuta zomwe mungakhale nazo ndikukambirana momasuka komanso moona mtima.
Uphungu asanakwatirane ukuchulukirachulukira, zomwe mwina mwina ndi chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa zisudzulo zomwe zativuta m'zaka zaposachedwa. Othandizira ambiri paubwenzi amayamba ndi mndandanda wamafunso opangira upangiri usanakwatirane.
Palibe chitsimikizo kuti mafunso ofunsira asanakwatirane ingakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa banja lanu, koma zitha kukuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi banja lolimba lomwe lingagwirizane.
Chimalimbikitsidwa - Njira Yokwatirana Asanachitike
Izi ndichifukwa choti mayankho anu amapatsa wothandizirayo kumvetsetsa za inu monga anthu komanso ngati banja. Kuphatikiza apo, amatsegulira kulumikizana pazinthu zomwe zidzakhale gawo la banja.
Magulu a mafunso aupangiri asanakwatirane
- Maganizo
Gulu la mafunso opereka uphungu asanakwatirane ndipamene banjali limayang'ana kulimba kwaubwenzi wawo komanso momwe amagwirizanirana pamalingaliro. Maukwati omwe ali ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu amalimba pamene okwatirana azindikira zosowa za wina ndi mnzake.
- Kulankhulana
Mafunso asanalowe m'banja za kulumikizana zithandizira maanja kuzindikira momwe angabwezeretsere kwa wokondedwa wawo momwe akumvera, zokhumba zawo, ndi zikhulupiliro zawo. Kuphatikiza apo, kuyankha awa mafunso asanalowe m'banja zimawathandiza kuthetsa mikangano iliyonse yam'mbuyo, yapano kapena yamtsogolo.
- Ntchito
Anthu ambiri amanyalanyaza zolinga zawo pantchito chifukwa chokwatirana. Komabe, zimasokoneza kukula kwawo komanso luso. Mabanja omwe amalephera kumvetsetsa momwe ntchito yawo ingafunikire, nthawi zambiri amapeza kuti akukangana ndikutsutsana pambuyo pake.
Kuyankha mafunso opereka uphungu asanakwatirane Pazokhumba zawo pantchito zimawalola kukhazikitsa zoyembekezera zina ndikupanga malire ndi zomwe athandiza anzawo.
- Zachuma
Asanakwatirane, anthu okwatirana ayenera kusamalira nkhani yakukonzekera zachuma ndikukambirana momwe ndalama zilili ndikuyembekezera.
Kukonzekera zachuma musanalowe m'banja kungakuthandizeni kusunga nthawi ndi ndalama ndikufunsana za ndalama mafunso oti mukayankhe musanalowe m'banja ikuthandizani inu ndi mnzanu kukonzekera mavuto osayembekezereka.
- Banja
Zosafunikira ngakhale zitamveka, koma kuyankha mafunso opangira uphungu asanakwatirane Za kagawidwe ka ntchito zapakhomo ndi ntchito zingakuthandizeni kuthana ndi mavuto m'banja mwanu.
Khazikitsani zoyembekezera ndikuyang'anira ntchito zapakhomo moyenera kuti zigawidwe ndikuchita bwino.
Pachifukwa ichi, mutha:
- Gawani ntchito zapakhomo nonse awiri
- Mosinthana kuchita ntchito zosiyanasiyana sabata iliyonse kapena tsiku lililonse
Onani zomwe Mary Kay Cocharo, yemwe ndi katswiri wazokwatirana, akunena zakufunika kwamalingaliro apabanja asanalowe m'banja:
- Kugonana komanso kukondana
Kuchokera pakumvetsetsa zaubwenzi wapabanja mpaka kudziwa za zokhumba za mnzanu, mafunso okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kukondana angakuthandizeni kuti muzidziwe bwino ndi wokondedwa wanu pamalingaliro ndi thupi.
Ngati mukukonzekera ukwati wanu usanachitike ukwati wanu, ndiye kufunsa mafunso asanafike mukamachita izi pamutuwu ndikofunikira komanso kukulitsa kukondana komanso kugonana m'banja lanu.
- Achibale ndi abwenzi
Kuyankha mafunso opangira uphungu asanakwatirane za momwe aliyense wa inu angagwiritsire ntchito nthawi yake pakati pa mnzanu ndi banja lanu ndi abwenzi angakuthandizeni kukhazikitsa ziyembekezo zina ndikupewa zokambirana mtsogolo.
- Ana
Mafunso opereka uphungu asanakwatirane zakulera zitha kukuthandizani kulingalira pazinthu zomwe zitha kukhala cholepheretsa kubereka. Kusanthula zomwe mumayang'ana komanso zomwe mukukhala kuti mulibe ana kapena ayi kungakonzekeretse inu ndi mnzanu ku mavuto mtsogolo.
- Chipembedzo
Mafunso othandizira kokhazikika pachipembedzo chanu kumatha kuthandiza maanja kumvetsetsa kukula kwachipembedzo chawo. Mwachitsanzo, mafunso achikristu asanakwatirane kapena achiyuda mafunso opereka uphungu asanakwatirane Zingathandizenso mabanja achikristu ndi achiyuda kusiyanitsa pakati pa chikhulupiriro ndi chipembedzo.
Ikhoza kuwathandizanso momwe angalemekezere zisankho za anzawo ndi kufotokoza zauzimu.
Kufunsa mafunso awa ndi omwe mudzakhale naye m'banja kungakuthandizeni nonse kudziwa bwino momwe mumamvera pazinthu zofunika komanso momwe aliyense azichitira.
Mafunso Opereka Uphungu Asanakwatirane
Otsatirawa ndi zitsanzo za mafunso ofunikira apabanja asanakwatirane omwe akuyenera kuyankhidwa limodzi.
1. Maganizo
- Nchifukwa chiyani tikukwatira?
- Mukuganiza kuti banja litisintha? Ngati inde, zingatheke bwanji?
- Mukuganiza kuti tidzakhala kuti zaka 25?
- Kodi muli ndi ziweto zilizonse?
- Kodi mungadzifotokoze bwanji
- Kodi tikufuna chiyani pamoyo wathu
2. Kuyankhulana ndi kusamvana
- Kodi timapanga bwanji zisankho?
- Kodi timakumana ndi mitu yovuta kapena timapewa?
- Kodi timathana bwino ndi mikangano?
- Kodi tingalankhule momasuka pachilichonse?
- Kodi tingathandizane bwanji kuti tisinthe?
- Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zomwe sitimagwirizana nazo?
3. Ntchito
- Kodi zolinga zathu ndi ziti? Kodi tichita chiyani kuti tiwapeze?
- Kodi magawo athu azikhala otani? Kodi zingakhudze bwanji nthawi yathu pamodzi?
4. Ndalama
- Kodi chuma chathu chili bwanji, ie; ngongole zonse, ndalama, ndalama?
- Kodi ndalama zathu tizizigwiritsa ntchito bwanji?
- Kodi tigawana bwanji ndalama zapakhomo?
- Kodi tidzakhala ndi maakaunti olumikizana kapena osiyana?
- Kodi bajeti yathu idzakhala yotani pazinthu zosangalatsa, ndalama, ndi zina zambiri?
- Kodi timagwiritsa ntchito ndalama motani? Kodi ndinu spender kapena osungira?
- Kodi ngongole yanu ndi yotani?
- Ndi ndalama ziti zomwe zili zovomerezeka kugwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu zosafunikira mwezi uliwonse?
- Ndani adzalipira ngongolezo muubwenzi ndipo ndani adzakonzekere bajeti?
- Mukufuna kukhala ndalama zotani pazaka zotsatira 1-5?
- Kodi tonse awiri tidzagwira ntchito titakwatirana?
- Kodi tiyenera kukonzekera liti kukhala ndi ana ndikuyamba kuwapulumutsira?
- Kodi zolinga zathu ziyenera kukhala zotani pantchito yopuma pantchito?
- Kodi tikonzekera bwanji thumba ladzidzidzi?
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5. Pabanja
- Mudzakhala kuti inu ndi bwenzi lanu?
- Ndani adzayang'anire ntchito ziti?
- Ndi ntchito ziti zomwe timakonda / kudana nazo?
- Ndani aziphika?
6. Kugonana ndi kukondana
- Nchifukwa chiyani timakondana?
- Kodi ndife okondwa ndi moyo wathu wogonana, kapena tikufuna zina?
- Kodi tingatani kuti moyo wathu wogonana ukhale wabwino?
- Kodi tili omasuka kulankhula za zilakolako zathu zogonana?
- Kodi ndife okhutira ndi kuchuluka kwa chikondi ndi chikondi? Kodi tikufunanso chiyani?
7. Achibale ndi abwenzi
- Tiziwona kangati mabanja athu?
- Kodi tigawana bwanji tchuthi?
- Tiziwona kangati anzathu, mosiyana komanso ngati banja?
8. Ana
- Kodi tikufuna kukhala ndi ana?
- Kodi timafuna kukhala ndi ana liti?
- Kodi tikufuna ana angati?
- Kodi tichita chiyani ngati sitingakhale ndi ana? Kodi kulera ana ndi njira ina?
- Ndani wa ife atsala kunyumba ndi ana?
9. Chipembedzo
- Kodi zikhulupiriro zathu ndizotani ndipo tiziwaphatikiza bwanji m'miyoyo yathu?
- Kodi tingasunge bwanji / kuphatikiza zikhulupiriro ndi miyambo yathu?
- Kodi tilera ana athu ndi zikhulupiriro ndi miyambo yachipembedzo? Ngati ndi choncho, ndi zikhulupiriro zathu ziti zomwe ndizosiyana?
Awa ndi ena mwamafunso omwe maanja amafunsidwa akakhala nawo pamsonkhano uphungu asanalowe m'banja. Kuyankhula za izi musanalowe m'banja kungakuthandizeni nonse kukhala omasuka kukonzekera banja komanso maudindo ndi mavuto omwe amabwera nawo.
Kuyankha mafunso awa limodzi kumakuthandizani kuti muphunzire zambiri za wina ndi mnzake kuti mupewe zovuta zomwe zingayambitse mavuto m'banja mwanu.