Zamkati
- 1. Kodi kugonana musanalowe m'banja ndi chiyani?
- 2. Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani pa nkhani yogonana musanalowe m'banja?
Dziko lapita patsogolo. Masiku ano, si zachilendo kulankhula za kugonana komanso kugonana musanalowe m'banja. Kumalo ambiri, izi zimawoneka ngati zabwino, ndipo anthu alibe wotsutsa, mulimonse. Komabe, kwa iwo omwe amatsatira Chikhristu mwachipembedzo, kugonana musanalowe m'banja kumawonedwa ngati tchimo.
Baibulo liri ndi matanthauzidwe okhwima okhudzana ndi kugonana musanalowe m'banja ndipo limatanthauzira zomwe ndizovomerezeka ndi zosayenera, momveka bwino. Tiyeni timvetsetse mwatsatanetsatane kulumikizana kwa mavesi a m'Baibulo onena za kugonana musanalowe m'banja.
1. Kodi kugonana musanalowe m'banja ndi chiyani?
Malinga ndi tanthauzo la dikishonale, kugonana musanakwatirane ndipamene anthu awiri achikulire, omwe sanakwatirane, amachita zogonana. M'mayiko ambiri, kugonana musanalowe m'banja kumatsutsana ndi zikhalidwe ndi zikhulupiriro, koma achinyamata ndioyenera kuyesa kuyanjana asanakwatirane ndi aliyense.
Ziwerengero zakugonana asanakwatirane kuchokera ku kafukufuku waposachedwa zikuwonetsa kuti 75% aku America ochepera zaka 20 adagonana asanakwatirane. Chiwerengerochi chikuwonjezeka kufika 95% pofika zaka 44. Ndizodabwitsa kuwona momwe anthu alili okonzeka kukhazikitsa chibwenzi ndi wina asanakwatirane.
Kugonana musanakwatirane kumatha kukhala chifukwa cha malingaliro owolowa manja komanso makanema azaka zatsopano, zomwe zimawonetsa izi ngati zabwino kwambiri. Komabe, zomwe anthu ambiri amaiwala kuti kugonana musanakwatirane kumatengera anthu ku matenda ambiri komanso zovuta zamtsogolo.
Baibulo lakhazikitsa malamulo achindunji pankhani yakukhazikika pachibwenzi asanakwatirane. Tiyeni tiwone mavesi awa ndikuwasanthula moyenera.
2. Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani pa nkhani yogonana musanalowe m'banja?
M'Baibulo mulibe mawu akuti kugonana musanalowe m'banja. Silinena kalikonse za kugonana pakati pa anthu awiri osakwatirana. Komabe, limanena za 'makhalidwe ogonana' m'Chipangano Chatsopano. Limati:
“Zomwe zimatuluka mwa munthu ndi zomwe zimaipitsa. Pakuti kuchokera mkati, mumtima mwa munthu, ndiye kuti zolinga zoyipa zimabwera: chiwerewere (chiwerewere), kuba, kupha, chigololo, kulakalaka zoipa, chinyengo, chinyengo, nsanje, kusinjirira, kunyada, kupusa. Zoipa zonsezi zimachokera mkati, ndipo ndizo zimaipitsa munthu. ” (NRVS, Maliko 7: 20-23)
Ndiye, kodi kugonana musanakwatirane ndi tchimo? Ambiri sangatsutse izi, pomwe ena atha kutsutsa. Tiyeni tiwone ubale wina pakati pa kugonana maukwati musanalongosolere chifukwa chake ndi tchimo.
1 Akorinto 7: 2
“Koma chifukwa cha kuyesedwa kwa chiwerewere, mwamuna aliyense akhale ndi mkazi wakewake ndipo mkazi aliyense mwamuna wake.”
Mu vesi lapamwambali, mtumwi Paulo ananena kuti aliyense amene akuchita zinthu zina kunja kwa banja ndi ‘wachiwerewere.’ Apa, 'chiwerewere' chimatanthauza kukhala pachibwenzi chilichonse ndi aliyense musanalowe m'banja zimawonedwa ngati tchimo.
1 Akorinto 5: 1
"Zimanenedwa kuti pali chiwerewere pakati panu, ndi cha mtundu wina chomwe sichiloledwa ngakhale pakati pa achikunja, chifukwa mwamuna ali ndi mkazi wa abambo ake."
Vesili lidanenedwa munthu akamapezeka akugona ndi apongozi ake kapena apongozi ake. Paulo akunena kuti ili ndi tchimo lalikulu, lomwe ngakhale omwe sanali Akhristu sangaganize ngakhale pang'ono kuti angachite.
1 Akorinto 7: 8-9
“Kwa osakwatira kapena amasiye ndinena kuti kuli kwabwino kwa iwo kuti akhale mbeta, monga ine. Koma ngati sangathe kudziletsa, ayenera kukwatira. Pakuti ndi bwino kukwatira koposa kutentha mtima. ”
Mwa ichi, Paulo akunena kuti anthu osakwatira ayenera kudziletsa kuti asatengere zogonana. Ngati zimawavuta kulamulira zilakolako zawo, ndiye kuti ayenera kukwatira. Zimavomerezedwa kuti kugonana osakwatirana ndi tchimo.
1 Akorinto 6: 18-20
“Thawirani dama. Tchimo lina lililonse limene munthu amachita ndi kunja kwa thupi, koma wachiwerewere akuchimwira thupi lake. Kapena kodi mukudziwa tsopano kuti thupi lanu ndi kachisi wa Mzimu Woyera mkati mwanu, amene mudalandira kuchokera kwa Mulungu? Simuli anu, pakuti mudagulidwa ndi mtengo wake wapatali. Chifukwa chake lemekezani Mulungu m'thupi lanu. ”
Vesili likuti thupi ndi nyumba ya Mulungu. Zomwe zikufotokozera kuti munthu sayenera kuganizira zogonana usiku umodzi chifukwa izi zimaphwanya chikhulupiriro chakuti Mulungu amakhala mwa ife. Ikufotokoza chifukwa chake munthu ayenera kulemekeza lingaliro lakugonana atakwatirana ndi amene munakwatirana nayeyo kuposa kugonana musanalowe m'banja.
Iwo omwe amatsatira Chikhristu ayenera kulingalira mavesi awa a m'Baibulo omwe atchulidwa pamwambapa ndipo ayenera kuwulemekeza. Sayenera kugonana asanakwatirane chifukwa anthu ambiri amakhala nawo.
Akhristu amaganiza kuti thupi ndi nyumba ya Mulungu. Amakhulupirira kuti Wamphamvuyonse amakhala mwa ife, ndipo tiyenera kulemekeza ndi kusamalira thupi lathu. Chifukwa chake, ngati mukuganiza zogonana musanalowe m'banja chifukwa zachilendo masiku ano, kumbukirani chinthu chimodzi, sizololedwa mu Chikhristu, ndipo simuyenera kuchita.