Zamkati
- Kupita khutu limodzi ndi kunja pa linalo
- Momwe mungalankhulire ndi amuna - malamulo wamba
- Molunjika mpaka kufika ndikusunga mosavuta
- Muloleni iye amvetse zomwe zikuchitika
- Mpatseni nthawi yopuma kaye
- Pewani zododometsa
- Yambani motsimikiza
- Khazikani mtima pansi
Amayi, ngati munakhalapo pachibwenzi kapena munakwatiwa, mukudziwa bwino momwe amuna amakhalira akatswiri pankhani yosasamala ndipo zonse zomwe mungachite ndikuyang'ana njira zopangitsa kuti amvetsere.
Sitingakhale otsimikiza kuti chifukwa chiyani amachita izi koma amachita bwino kwambiri. Munamufunsa kangati kuti ayike zovala zake mu cholepheretsa? Kapena mwayesapo kulankhula naye zakukhosi kwanu? Chokhumudwitsa chanu chachikulu ndi chiyani pamene mukulankhula ndi chibwenzi kapena mwamuna wanu?
Tonse tidakumana ndi izi ndipo tikungofuna kudziwa zomwe zatsimikizika njira zopangitsa kuti amvetsere - ndipo tikutanthauza kumvetsera ndikumvetsetsa zomwe tikukambirana! Takumvani, nazi zomwe titha kuchita.
Kupita khutu limodzi ndi kunja pa linalo
Kodi mudalankhulapo ndi anzanu za "momwe bwenzi langa samandimvera ndikamalankhula? ” Nchifukwa chiyani amuna ambiri ali chonchi?
Kodi ali ndi chikhazikitso chaumunthu chokhudza izi? Alipo njira zopangitsa kuti amvetsere? Chabwino, tisanalowe zinsinsi, tiyenera kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake zili chonchi.
Ndizowona. Amuna, ambiri sakonda zokambirana zazitali makamaka zazomwe zidachitika m'sitolo, momwe mumakonderanso kukhitchini, momwe mudapindulira izi, komanso momwe mumamvera chisoni komanso kunyalanyazidwa.
Tiyeni timvetsetse chifukwa chake bwenzi lanu kapena Mwamuna samvera kwa inu.
- Sakonda sewero. Zokambirana zazitali ndikukambirana zakomwe adayiwala tsiku lobadwa kapena momwe msungwanayo kuntchito akuwoneka ngati munthu amene amamukopa.
- Izi ndi mitu yomwe mwamuna wanu amadziwa kuti ingatenge maola ambiri kuti mukambirane. Inde, tonsefe timafuna kudziwa momwe mungalankhulire ndi bwenzi lanu zakukhosi kwanu koma ngati si njira yoyenera - mungoopseza mwamunayo kuti akupewe.
- Wanu mwamuna osamvera? Kodi ali kalikiliki kuganizira za munthu wina? Onani, ili ndiye lingaliro loyamba lomwe limabwera m'malingaliro athu koma kodi amaganizira za atsikana ena?
- Mungadabwe kudziwa zomwe zimangokhala m'malingaliro amwamuna akakhala kutali ndipo si atsikana okha.
- Mwina akufuna kuyambitsa ntchito yatsopano, wawona zabwino zamagalimoto ndipo akuganiza ngati agule, kapena mwina awona china chodabwitsa ndipo akufuna kudziwa momwe zidachitikira.
- Nkhani ina ya mamuna wanga samandimvera Vuto limakhala pamene mukumva kuti akukupeŵani makamaka mukamalankhula zakukhosi kwanu kwa iye.
- Osayamba mutu wokhudza "momwe anga Mwamuna samverazosowa zanga”Mawu. Awa ndi mawu omwe amuna onse amadziwa ndipo akamva izi, azikakhala kuthawa kwina. Amuna amadana ndi zokambirana zazitali.
- Samakondanso kuti ife, azimayi tiwafunse mafunso ngati akupita kukhothi ndipo pambuyo pake, titha kugwiritsa ntchito mayankho ake kuti amuvomereze zolakwika kapena mavuto.
- Mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungalankhulire moyenera ndi abambo? Osangodandaula. Timachipeza, ndizokhumudwitsa, ngakhale kutipangitsa kukhala okwiya nthawi zambiri koma mukudziwa chiyani? Ikani pambali kupsa mtima kotere ndikuwamvetsetsa amuna kuti tidziwe njira zopangitsa kuti amvetsere.
Momwe mungalankhulire ndi amuna - malamulo wamba
Musanamukwiyire pomuuza kuti "bwenzi langa silimveranso momwe ndimamvera", mwina muyenera kuyambiranso chilichonse kaye.
M'malo mokhumudwitsidwa ndi bwenzi lanu kapena mnzanu ndikukalipa - bwanji osapitiliza kuwamvetsetsa? Mudzawona kuti ndizosavuta bwanji kufikira amuna.
Molunjika mpaka kufika ndikusunga mosavuta
Momwe mungapangire kuti amuna anu azikumverani? Zosavuta kwenikweni. Gwiritsitsani phunzirolo. Khalani osavuta ndikuwunena mwachidule ngati zingafunike. Ngati mukufuna kugona naye, ingonena choncho.
Osapita kukanena nkhani monga momwe mnzanu ndi bwenzi lake alili paulendo kapena mwatopa ndipo mwina tsiku lina mudzakhalanso ndi nthawi yocheza. molunjika pamfundo komabe ndikumvetsetsa.
Muloleni iye amvetse zomwe zikuchitika
Chinsinsi china cha momwe mungapangire chibwenzi chanu kuti chikumvereni? Gwirani mwayi woti akumvereni koma osamulema. Kodi mumatha kuwona ngati watopetsadi chifukwa ngati simutero? Adzangolowa muzokambirana ndipo tibwerera ku 1.
Mpatseni nthawi yopuma kaye
Mosiyana ndi ife azimayi, abambo ndianthu payekha. Amayi, akakhala kuti akukumana ndi mavuto kuntchito amafunadi kuti azilankhula za iwo pomwe amuna samatero.
Chifukwa chake, musanamukwiyire chifukwa choganizira mwakuya kapena posamvera, mwina ndi nthawi yoti mumuyang'anenso.
Pewani zododometsa
Tonsefe timadziwa kuti amuna, akafika kunyumba kapena atapuma tsiku lawo amangofuna kungoganiza za ntchito zawo za DIY kapena mwina kuwonera mpira kapena kumwa ndi anzawo.
Inde, ali ndi dziko lawo laling'ono ndipo amatha kukonza zinthu zomwe zingawasokoneze - kuphatikiza ife.
Kotero, momwe mungalankhulire kuti amuna anu azimvera? Chabwino, simumangolowa mukakhala wotanganidwa ndi nthawi yake ya "ine". Osachita konse izi. Mutha kumuuza kuti atatha kanema kapena ntchito yomwe akuchita, abwere kwa inu kuti mudzathe kuyankhula.
Yambani motsimikiza
Tsopano popeza muli ndi chidwi chake, kumbukirani kuti njira zopangitsa kuti amvetsere ndi olumikizidwa. Tsopano popeza wafika pano, yambani motsimikiza. Osamukakamiza! Palibe amene amafuna zimenezo. Ngati mukufuna kumuuza zakukhosi kwake, yambani ndi zolemba zoyambirira poyamba.
Ngati wakhala akukunyalanyazani, mutha kuyamba ndi zomwe wakhala akuchita bwino ndikuti mumayamikira izi kenako ndikunena zomwe mukufuna.
Khazikani mtima pansi
Pomaliza, momwe mungapangire kuti munthu azilankhula nanu kumatanthauzanso kuti muyenera kukhala odekha naye. Amuna sali ngati akazi choncho musayembekezere kuti angakhale.
Sadzatha kukhala mwamuna womvetsetsa nthawi yomweyo. Chilichonse chimafuna nthawi kuti mukhale oleza mtima naye zimulola kuti azimva bwino nanu kuti azitha kuyankhulana ndikugawana nawonso.
Pakhoza kukhalanso zina njira zopangitsa kuti amvetsere koma mukudziwa zomwe zonsezi zikufanana?
Ndikumvetsetsa. Nthawi zina, timayang'ana kwambiri pazomwe zimakhumudwitsa kuti samvera koma sitikuwona kuti sitikuwapatsa mwayi. Kuyankhulana momasuka ndikupereka ndikutenga, ulemu komanso kuleza mtima ndipo izi zimupangitsa kuti akumvereni.