Zamkati
- 1. Ndi wosavuta
- 2. Ndi mwayi wopanga zokhumba zanu kukhala zenizeni
- 3. Ndi njira yopezera bwenzi labwino
- 4. Ndizabwino kwa anthu omwe amadziwa zomwe akufuna
- 5. Ndi mwayi kuyesa zibwenzi
Kusaka abwenzi pa intaneti kwakhala chizolowezi. Chifukwa chiyani? Lingaliro lokumana ndi munthu wokongola komanso wosangalala wopanda maudindo limamveka bwino kwa anthu ambiri.
Kupeza mzanu wocheza sikuli kovuta: pali masamba ambiri azibwenzi omwe amayang'ana kubweretsa malumikizidwe wamba.
Pamapulatifomu oterewa, mutha kuyang'ana pazambiri za atsikana ndi anyamata owoneka bwino, kutumiza mauthenga ndikukonzekera madeti.
Masamba olumikizirana ndi a anthu "amisili m'malingaliro". Nthawi zambiri, mamembala amalo otere amakhala okwatirana, kapena anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi koma akufuna zina zambiri. China chake chomwe chingapangitse magazi awo kuthamanga.
Chifukwa chake pali zifukwa zisanu zakusaka kucheza ndi mnzanu wapabanja tsopano:
1. Ndi wosavuta
Kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yopuma ndi mnzanu wapaulendo ndikosavuta kuposa kumanga chibwenzi.
Ngati simuli pachiwopsezo ndipo mukudziwa kuti "simukhala ndi malingaliro," kupeza anzanu achiwerewere kuti mukakhale limodzi limodzi kungakhale lingaliro labwino kwa inu.
Mnzako wocheza sangakupangitse kumva kuti ndiwe wodalirika kapena kuti uli ndi chilichonse chomwe chimasemphana ndi kukhala pachibwenzi.
Mutha kukumana mukakumana nanu nonse. Mutha kuyesa zinthu zomwe mumachita manyazi kuuza mnzanu.
Sikuti aliyense amawona kukondana ngati cholinga pamoyo. Masiku ano, anthu ambiri safuna kumangirizidwa.
Zolumikizana mwachisawawa zimabweretsa chisangalalo ndikumverera kwa kumasulidwa, pomwe maubale ambiri samatero.
Ena amasangalala kukhala opanda maudindo. Amasangalala ndi ufulu ndipo akawona kuti wina ali nawo ambiri komanso nthawi yawo, amapitiliza. Zimamasula.
Anthu amakonda kuphwanya malamulo, chifukwa chake kukhala omasuka kwathunthu ndikuchita zomwe mukufuna popanda zovuta ndiye chifukwa choyamba chomwe ambiri amakonda kuwona zabwino zokhala ndi bwenzi lomwe limapindula.
2. Ndi mwayi wopanga zokhumba zanu kukhala zenizeni
Anthu ambiri, ngakhale amene akhala m'banja zaka zambiri, amanyalanyaza zilakolako zawo zogonana.
Anthu amachita mantha kunena kuti amatsegulidwa ndi lingaliro la atatu, maunyolo, lalabala, BDSM, kapena kugonana pagulu.
Ambiri aife sitinganene zoona chifukwa timaopa anthu omwe timawakonda ndi kuwasamalira, kusintha malingaliro awo pa ife. Komabe, chinsinsi choterechi chimakhudza ubale wanu.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti kusiyana kwakulakalaka kwakugonana pakati pa anthu okwatirana kumawononga ubale womwe umakhalapo ndipo kumawononga kukula kwakukhala mbanja.
Kumbali inayi, kupeza anzanu ocheza nawo kumakuthandizani kuti mukhale omasuka komanso osaweruza. Amamasula kulemera kwake paphewa.
Koma nchifukwa ninji anthu amene akhala pachibwenzi kapena okwatirana kwa zaka zambiri amachita manyazi kulankhula za zokhumba zawo? Pali zifukwa zingapo:
- Mmodzi mwa abwenziwo amawopa kukhumudwitsa mnzake.
- Zilakolako zina zitha kumveka ngati "zauve"; choncho, mnzanu angachite manyazi kulankhula za iwo.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndizosavuta kupeza mnzanu wapabanja ndikugawana naye zokhumba zakuthengo.
Pali anthu ambiri omwe amafuna kuyeserera ndikumva kutengeka kosiyanasiyana, ndipo pamalo ophatikizira, amuna ndi akazi atha kupeza anthu amalingaliro omwe akufuna zomwezo.
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3. Ndi njira yopezera bwenzi labwino
Kafukufuku waposachedwa akuwonetsa kuti kufunafuna bwenzi logonana ndi chiyembekezo kuti amayi apeza bwenzi labwino.
Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku wina adapeza kuti maanja omwe adagonana ngati anzawo kapena omwe adadziwana nawo ndipo anali okonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi amakhala osangalala monganso omwe adakhala pachibwenzi ndikudikirira.
Chifukwa chake, azimayi ambiri amasaka anzawo omwe ali ndi maubwino owongolera momwe akumvera pomwe amuna amangofuna kukhutira ndi matupi awo.
Amayi ambiri omwe amafunafuna zolumikizira amakhala ndi chiyembekezo chopeza anzawo abwino omwe angamve kukhala otetezeka, okhutira, komanso atazunguliridwa ndi chisamaliro.
Kupeza wokondana naye nthawi zambiri kumakhudzana ndikumverera kusungulumwa muubwenzi. Si azimayi ambiri omwe amatha kuuza anzawo momwe akumvera, zomwe akusowa, komanso zomwe sakonda.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake kulumikizana ndikuthawira ku moyo wabwino, chisangalalo, komanso kukhutira m'maganizo ndi kuthupi.
4. Ndizabwino kwa anthu omwe amadziwa zomwe akufuna
Chifukwa chiyani abwenzi omwe ali ndi maubwino ndiwo ubale wabwino kwambiri? Chifukwa ukhoza kukhala wowona mtima kwathunthu.
Anthu omwe akufunafuna zibwenzi zakukondana komanso ubale wanthawi yayitali amafuna kukhala angwiro.
Chifukwa chake, samawulula kawirikawiri zomwe sakonda, mantha, ndi zinthu za otchulidwa m'madeti oyamba.
Komabe, ndi bwenzi logwirizana, ndikosavuta kukhala owona mtima kwathunthu chifukwa mulibe choti mutaye.
Anthu okwatirana omwe amafunafuna anzawo ogonana samawopa kunena kuti ndi masiku ati omwe akufuna kuwawona anzawo, momwe amasangalalira nthawi yocheza ngati kuli bwino kuti asayitane, ndi zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azigonana bwino momwe angathere.
Zikumveka ngati zopenga, koma umu ndi momwe kulumikizana kumagwirira ntchito. Amuna ndi akazi pamapulatifomu osiyanasiyana olumikizana ndi anthu amafunafuna sitolo ya usiku umodzi, kotero sayenera kuthana ndi zotsatirapo zonse zomwe zikubwera.
5. Ndi mwayi kuyesa zibwenzi
Chiwerengero cha anthu omwe ali pabanja omwe kamodzi adaganiza zoyeserera kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chachikulu, koma si ambiri omwe ali okonzeka kuyankhula za izi.
Sizokhudza zilakolako zakutchire zomwe simungamuuze mnzanuyo, koma ndikufuna kulumikizana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Kupeza bwenzi logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi mwayi wabwino kuyesa zomwe mwakhala mukuganiza.
Ubwino wokumana ndi bwenzi logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikupeza za inu nokha: ngati mumakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzanu osati mwakuthupi komanso mwamalingaliro, kapena ndi chimodzi mwazosangalatsa zanu zomwe mudasandulika zenizeni.
Mapeto
Kusamalira ubale kumafuna nthawi ndi khama. Kwa anthu apabanja, mwayi wosangalala ndikusintha malingaliro awo kumveka bwino; Ichi ndichifukwa chake amapita kumalo osakanikirana.
Mawebusayiti olumikizana ndi mapulogalamu amapatsa anthu ufulu wambiri. Ndizosangalatsa, kuyang'ana m'ma mbiri ndikusankha anthu m'mawonekedwe awo, osaganizira ngati angalimbane ndi kutanganidwa kwanu, makolo, komanso kuwombera.
Kwa ambiri, lingaliro lopeza bwenzi logwirizana lingamveke losangalatsa.
Kuunikiranso mbiri za akazi ndi abambo okongola, kucheza nawo ndikusinthana zithunzi kungakhale kosangalatsa.
Komabe, sikuti aliyense amene amalowa nawo malo ochezera omwe amabera mnzake. Ambiri amakhutira ndikutumizirana mameseji ndikuwona zithunzi zamaliseche theka.
Ndikofunika kuti musadzilange nokha pazomwe mukufuna koma mumvetse zomwe mulibe. Nthawi zambiri kukambirana moona mtima ndi mnzanu kumabweretsa kuyandikira ndikukwaniritsa zokhumba za wina ndi mnzake.