Zamkati
- Zindikirani zisonyezo zakukondana
- Mvetsetsani zomwe aliyense akuyembekezera
- Lankhulani za nkhawa zanu
- Zindikirani zinthu zakunja
- Taganizirani za mankhwala
- Kulankhula za katundu wokhudzika
Anthu okwatirana atakhala mbanja kwa nthawi yayitali, atha kukhala ndi mavuto ena m'banja.
Atha kukhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndi ntchito yawo ndi maudindo ena a tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo izi zitha kuchititsa mnzakeyo kudzimva kuti wanyalanyazidwa.
Pamene okwatirana sakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yocheza limodzi, ndiye Nkhani zaubwenzi muubwenzi zitha kuchitika.
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti banja likhale logwirizana komanso kulumikizana. Amatha kudzipeza okha ngati sathetsa mavuto awo mwachangu.
Nazi njira zina zamomwe mungathetsere mavuto am'mabanja komanso momwe mungathetsere zovuta zaubwenzi.
Onaninso: Zizindikiro zomwe mumaopa kukondana
Zindikirani zisonyezo zakukondana
Musanayambe kuthana ndi vuto lakukondana, muyenera kuzindikira kaye kuti chibwenzi chanu chikuwonetsa zisonyezo zakukondana.
Okwatirana ayenera kuphunzira kuzindikira zizindikiro zakukondana, ndipo akuyenera kuyesa kupeza chifukwa chomwe akuvutikira ndiubwenzi wapamtima.
Ngati mumadzimva okhumudwa kapena osasangalala ndiubwenzi wapamtima, mosakayikira pali vuto lomwe liyenera kuthetsedwa. Ubwenzi wapamtima komanso wathupi umalumikizidwa m'njira zomwe sitingazimvetse popeza kulumikizana kumatha kusiyanasiyana kutengera banja.
Nazi zina mwazizindikiro zodziwikiratu kuti maubale anu akuvutika ndi zovuta:
- Sangakhale omasuka kukhala otseguka m'malingaliro
- Nthawi zambiri kupezeka ngati wokondedwa wanu akusowa
- Chibwenzi chanu nthawi zambiri sichikhala motalika (osakwana chaka chimodzi)
- Osafuna kudzipereka
- Kukhala wopanda chidwi chakugonana koyambirira kwamaubwenzi anu
Mvetsetsani zomwe aliyense akuyembekezera
Zoyembekeza ndi gawo limodzi la ubale uliwonse. Kukwaniritsidwa komwe mungapeze kapena osapeza muubwenzi kumadalira momwe inu ndi mnzanu mukuchitira zomwe mukuyembekezera.
Nkhani zakugonana kapena nkhani zogonana m'banja zimatha kuchitika ngati maanja ali ndi ziyembekezo zosiyana. Nthawi zina, wina muubwenzi angafune kuyandikana kwambiri kuposa mnzake.
Ngati chosowa chakuthupi sichikwaniritsidwa, kukhumudwa ndikunyalanyazidwa kumatsatira.
Nthawi zambiri, mwamuna ndi mkazi amatha kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyana pankhani ya chibwenzi, ndipo chifukwa cha izi, samadziwa momwe angakwaniritsire zosowa za wina ndi mnzake ndipo, nthawi zina, amayamba kupewa kuyanjana.
Ndiye mungayandikire bwanji kwa wina yemwe ali ndi vuto lachiyanjano?
Kuyankhulana ndi kiyi kuti mumvetsetse zomwe aliyense akuyembekezera komanso zosowa zake. Maanja akuyenera kukambirana zomwe akufuna, ndipo aliyense akuyenera kukhala okonzeka kugonjera, kuti onse akhale okhutira.
Lankhulani za nkhawa zanu
Monga tanenera poyamba, kulumikizana ndikofunikira pomvetsetsa zosowa za mnzanu.
Ndikofunika kuti paubwenzi uliwonse maanja athe kuthana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa kukondana ndikukambilana zomwe zili zovuta zomwe zimasokoneza chiyanjano chawo.
Ayenera kukhala omasukira pazonse zomwe zimawasokoneza ndi kuwaletsa kukhala pafupi ndi mnzawoyo. Ayeneranso kukhala omasuka kunena zakusatetezeka kwawo komanso mantha omwe angayambitse chibwenzi.
Nkhani zokhudzana ndi kukhulupirirana ndi kudzipereka ziyenera kukambilananso paubwenzi uliwonse kuti athane ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi maubwenzi awo, kotero kuti mkaziyo adziwe momwe angawapangitsire kukhala otetezeka komanso okondedwa.
Zindikirani zinthu zakunja
Zomwe zimayambitsa kukondana mu chibwenzi zitha kukhalanso chifukwa cha zinthu zakunja zomwe sitingathe kuzilamulira. Amayi omwe ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndiubwenzi kapena amuna omwe ali ndi mavuto okondana atha kumva kutengeka ndi zinthu zina kunja kwa banja kapena ubale wawo.
Pamene m'modzi kapena awiri kuchokera kwa banjali asokonezedwa ndi mavuto akuntchito kapena ndi mavuto ochokera kwa anthu am'banja lawo, ubale wawo ungasokonezeke kwambiri.
Banja likapanikizika pazinthu zina, kukhala pachibwenzi kumakhala chinthu chomaliza m'maganizo mwawo.
Palibe amene angaletse mavuto kuti asachitike.
Koma chomwe mungachite ndikuzindikira kuti mavutowa akusokonezani kuti musakhale pafupi ndi mnzanu. Onse awiri mwamuna ndi mkazi aphunzire kutenga zinthu imodzi imodzi ndikukhala moyo wapano.
Phunzirani kuyika mavuto anu pambali ndikukhala ndi nthawi yoyika chidwi chanu ndi kukonda mnzanu nthawi iliyonse mukakhala ndi mwayi wokhala nokha.
Phunzirani kulankhulana pamene simungathe kutero; Pewani kukhala ndi mnzanu yemwe akudzinenera mavuto okhudzana ndiubwenzi kapena ubale wawo.
Taganizirani za mankhwala
Nkhani zachipatala zitha kukhalanso chifukwa cha nkhani zachikondi m'banja. Thanzi la munthu limatha kukhudza kwambiri chilakolako chogonana komanso magwiridwe antchito. Mwachitsanzo, ngati bambo ali ndi vuto la erectile, zimakhudza kudzidalira kwake pabedi.
Amapewa kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wake, chifukwa chake sazindikira vutolo.
Kumbali inayi, mkazi amathanso kusowa chilakolako chogonana chifukwa chakusakhala ndi mahomoni, ndipo kugonana ndi mwamuna wake kumatha kukhala chowawa choposa chosangalatsa.
Ngati inu pezani izi nkhani zomwe zimakhudza moyo wanu wogonana ndikudabwa momwe mungathanirane ndi mavuto okhudzana ndiubwenzi, muyenera kufunafuna chithandizo ndikupeza chithandizo cha izi.
Kulankhula za katundu wokhudzika
Pomaliza, podziwa momwe angathandizire wina yemwe ali ndi mavuto okondana, maanja akuyenera kugawana zowawa zawo ndi zowawa zawo.
Ngati wina m'banjamo akumva kukwiya kwa wokondedwa wawo, ndiye kuti banjali liri ndi chinthu chomwe chikuwasokoneza.
Maanja akuyenera kugwirira ntchito limodzi pakupeza njira zothetsera zipsera zamaganizidwe ndi kuthetsa vuto lililonse lomwe limawapangitsa kuti awone okondedwa awo ngati mdani kuposa wokondana.
Nkhani zokondana m'banja siziyenera kunyalanyazidwa. Ngati zosowa zakuthupi sizikwaniritsidwa, maanja amakhala osakhulupirika, kapena choyipa kwambiri, kukondana. Mukazindikira kuti muli ndi izi muubwenzi wanu, chitanipo kanthu kuti mukulitse ubale wanu ndi mnzanu.