Zamkati
- Kodi mtunda wamaganizidwe ndi chiyani muubwenzi?
- Kodi mungatani kuti muchepetse mtunda wamaganizidwe?
- Phokoso lanu lingatenge gawo lofunikira pakuyankha komwe mungapeze
Kaya ndikumverera kokopa kwa mnzanu kapena mnzanu, kapena kungowafotokozera pamalingaliro, mumadziwa kufunikira kwa izi. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale ngakhale pang'ono pathupi lotayika, mukudziwa kuti china chake sichili bwino.
Kulumikizana kwamaganizidwe ndikofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi wabwino uliwonse.
Anthu makamaka azimayi amakonda kukonda kukondana.
Nthawi zambiri ndiko kusowa kwakumvetsetsa uku, kuti amuna amalephera kupereka zomwe akazi ambiri amafuna. Pakalibe mgwirizano wapamtima, abwenzi nthawi zina amatha kumva kuti sakukhudzidwa.
Ndi chifukwa cha izi, maubale amataya chidwi chomwe chidalipo pomwe awiriwa adakumana koyamba.
Kodi mtunda wamaganizidwe ndi chiyani muubwenzi?
Kutalikirana kwakubwenzi kumatanthauza momwe awiriwo amayamba kusiyana pakati pawo.
Kusunthika uku sikungazindikiridwe nthawi yomweyo ndi anthu awiriwa, komabe, akayamba kuzindikira zizindikiro zakusunthaku, ayenera kuyesetsa mwachangu kuti athetse kusiyana kumeneku.
Kutalikirana kwamalingaliro muubwenzi kumatha kupangitsa awiriwo kumverera ngati ataya chilakolako chomwe anali nacho kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ndikutengeka kumeneku komwe kumapangitsa awiriwo kumverera ngati alibe zambiri zoti anene wina ndi mnzake, kupatula zosintha za tsiku ndi tsiku zokhudzana ndi zomwe akuchita.
Zotsatira zake, anthu awiriwa nthawi zambiri zimawavuta kukambirana momasuka. Atha kudzipeza okha akuyesetsa kuyankhulana wina ndi mzake pomwe izi sizingakhale zikuchitika kale.
Kutali koteroko muubwenzi uliwonse, makamaka wachikondi, zikutanthauza kuti anthu awiriwa samalumikizana kwambiri. Kusagwirizana kotereku kumatha kupangitsa abwenzi kukhala osungulumwa. Zotsatira zake, okwatiranawo angawone ngati akufunika kuti azikhala patokha.
Kodi mungatani kuti muchepetse mtunda wamaganizidwe?
Mukazindikira vuto lanu, nkofunikira kuti mutengepo mbali zofunika kuthana ndi mavuto omwe ali mbanja lanu.
Mutha kuyesetsa kukonza zinthu ndikudzifunsa mafunso ofunika. Khalani pansi pamalo abata ndikupanga mndandanda wazinthu zomwe mukuganiza kuti zakhala zikuchitika posachedwa m'moyo wanu kapena moyo wa mnzanu.
Dzifunseni mafunso otsatirawa:
- Kodi ndakhala wosasangalala kwambiri posachedwapa?
- Kodi ndakhala wokwiya?
- Kodi pali zovuta zina zokhudzana ndi ntchito zomwe zikundivutitsa ine kapena mnzanga?
- Kodi pali chisokonezo chilichonse chachuma?
- Kodi pali vuto lililonse labanja lomwe lingakhale likundivutitsa ine kapena mnzanga?
- Kodi ndikusungira mkwiyo mkati mwanga chifukwa chakumenya kwathu komaliza?
- Kodi zinthu zasintha bwanji posachedwapa?
Mutayankha mafunso ngati amenewa, yesani kudziwa ngati mwakhala mukuchititsa kutengeka mtima.
Ngati ndi choncho, yambani ndikuchotsa zinthu zonse zomwe zakupangitsani kuti mukhale motere. Ngati sichoncho, mutha kuyesa kukambirana zinthu ndi mnzanu modekha. Onetsetsani kuti mumalankhula ndi mnzanu mwaulemu ndikuyesera kuwamvetsetsa mavuto anu.
Phokoso lanu lingatenge gawo lofunikira pakuyankha komwe mungapeze
Nthawi zambiri, abwenzi amatha kupewa zokambirana zotere pofuna kupewa kusamvana kapena chifukwa choti safuna kukambirana. Khalidwe lamiyala ngati ili likupitilira, muyenera kupanga njira ina yothandizira kuti zinthu ziyende.
Nthawi zina, kupatsa mnzanu malo omwe angafunikire kumathandizanso.
Khala nokha kumawathandiza kuganiza moyenera ndipo zitha kukhala zopindulitsa pachibwenzi chanu.
Ngati mwasankha kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi, musayese wokondedwa wanu kumverera ngati mwawasokoneza. Kamodzi kanthawi, onetsani kuti mumawathandiza komanso kuti mumawakonda. Yesetsani kuyamika mnzanu (osamveka zabodza), lekani kutsutsa komanso kudandaula nthawi zonse.
Onetsetsani kuti mwayamba nokha.
Sungani bwino pazonse zomwe mumachita ndipo musamawoneke kuti mukufunitsitsa kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro omwe mumafuna. Nthawi zina, kusimidwa kwanu ndi komwe kumathamangitsa mnzanu kutali. Chifukwa chake, pitirizani kugwira ntchito pa inu nokha ndi zinthu zomwe mumakonda. Ndipo musaiwale kulola nthawi kuti ichite gawo lake.