Zamkati
- Tsiku lina m'mawa, ndinadzuka ndipo ndinadzimva kuti ndalumikizidwa.
- Anthu 'amati' amamangidwa awiriawiri.
- Kulankhulana
- Unali "ine," usanakhale "ife,"
Moyo ukhoza kukhala wachangu komanso wokwiya! Wodzazidwa ndi zokumana nazo zodabwitsa kwambiri, mphindi zopweteketsa mtima zomwe zingakutengereni mpweya wanu, komanso kusangalatsidwa tsiku ndi tsiku! Pakati pazonsezi, pali mphindi zolumikizana ndi komwe timapeza cholinga, chisangalalo, ndi zinthu zomwe timazitcha zathu. Wokwatiwa kapena wosakwatiwa, pamene tikukula, kusintha kwa moyo ndi zokumana nazo zimatipanganso umunthu, komanso ubale wathu ndi ena.
Tsiku lina m'mawa, ndinadzuka ndipo ndinadzimva kuti ndalumikizidwa.
Wopanda ine, malo anga, ndi amuna anga. Ndidadzipeza ndalumikizana ndi ana anga, zomwe anali kuchita kwakanthawi, momwe ndingakwaniritsire zosowa zawo, ndi zosowa zamasukulu awo ndi zochitika zina zakunja, komabe kumapeto kwa tsiku ndikamaika mutu wanga, ndimaganiza. .. munthu amene ali pafupi nane ndi ndani, ndipo ndine ndani? Monga othandizira, ndikugwira ntchito ndi maanja, ndiyenera kudziwa momwe ndingachitire izi, ndikudziwa momwe ndingachitire bwino, sichoncho? Cholakwika.
Tonse ndife anthu, ndipo kulumikizana komwe kumachitika pakati pa maubale, banja, ana akukula, kugwira ntchito, ndikugwira ntchito kuti tipeze nthawi yocheza ndi ena, "Ine," ndi "Ife," omwe tidachita bwino kwambiri, timasochera . Kodi vuto ili ndi la ndani? Palibe! Ndi pakati pa moyo, gawo lovuta, pomwe aliyense wa ife amagwira ntchito molimbika kuti akhazikitse mutu wathu m'mwamba momwe angathere, ndikungopitilizabe kulipiritsa. Phiri lazinthu zambiri, zotengeka, komanso zochitika, ndi masiku amenewo oti "tiyeni tidye chakudya," amasandulika masiku akumatha, akugona pakama ana akangogona. Ndi nthawi m'moyo wathu monga amayi ndi abambo, timalakalaka kulumikizana ndi zofuna zathu, ndi zifukwa zomwe tidasankhirana, koma zenizeni, awa akhoza kukhala omaliza pamndandanda wa "zoyenera."
Anthu 'amati' amamangidwa awiriawiri.
Tiyenera kulumikizana ndi wina, tikuyenera kupeza bwenzi, kuti tikhale ndi moyo ndi chilichonse chomwe chingabweretse, ndikutha kulumikizana m'njira yomwe imamveka yopanda malire komanso yothandizidwa. Izi sizowona, komabe ndipo "timayenera," tidadyetsedwa kapena osadyetsedwa tikamakula, ndikusandulika ntchito yotopetsa, mndandanda womwe nthawi zina umakhala wowonjezera tsiku ndi tsiku. Chikumbutso, ndine woyamba payekha !!
Ndimakhala moyang'anizana ndi makasitomala anga, ndikufunsa, "ndi chiyani chakuphatikizani," "Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zasintha." Ndipo "ukufuna kuti ukhale kuti ..." Ili ndi funso lodzaza chifukwa limafuna kulingalira, kukumbukira, ndi kupezeka, ndipo zidutswa zonsezi zimatenga nthawi, mphamvu, komanso kutengeka. Ndipo ndingayankhe bwanji pomwe ndilibe nthawi yazinthuzi.
Tonsefe tinali odabwitsa monga aliyense payekhapayekha, ndipo kuyanjana ndi wina kunali "ndikuganiza," kuti andipangitse ife, kukhala odabwitsa kwambiri. Gawo lomwe timayiwala, komabe ndilo gawo lofunikira kwambiri, gawo lomwe ngati tingavomereze, limadziona kuti ndi lodzikonda komanso lopanda phindu. Ndine ndani? ndiyambira pati?
Kulankhulana
Kuyankhulana ndi chinthu chomwe ambiri a ife timaganiza kuti timachita bwino, ndipo zikafika pachimake, tikuchita zochepa, kulumikizana koyambirira kapena kukambirana kuti tione. Tsiku lanu linali bwanji? Ana ali bwanji? Kodi chakudya chamadzulo ndi chiyani? Timayamba kunyalanyaza nthawi yomwe tili ndi cholinga, komanso kulumikizana mwakuya, kogwira mtima komwe kumatilola kuti tisangoyang'ana tokha, koma ndi mnzathu, komanso m'njira yomwe imakhudza mtima, kukhala pano, ndikupanga ubale wopanda tokha tokha koma omwe tikufuna kwambiri kuti timve olumikizidwa nawo. Kodi ndi liti lomaliza lomwe mudakhala moyang'anana ndi mnzanu, ndipo mudakambirana zenizeni zomwe mukufuna, kuti ndinu ndani, ndife ndani? ndi momwe simunasinthire monga munthu payekhapayekha, koma ngati banja osalankhula za ana, ntchito, ndi kukonzekera chakudya. Ndizovuta, ndipo zimatha kukhala zosamveka, koma ndikofunikira kulumikizana ndikukula.
Unali "ine," usanakhale "ife,"
Kutenga nthawi kuvomereza izi pomwe pali malo ambiri kuposa momwe mungafunire, sikungopindulitsa kokha, ndikofunikira. Ndi liti komaliza, mudadziyang'ana pagalasi pawekha, ndikufunsa kuti "Ndine ndani tsopano, munthu wodabwitsayu ndamutaya kwakanthawi, koma ndikugwira ntchito yolumikizana bwino ndi zosowa, zokhumba, komanso ndikufuna, m'njira zimandilimbikitsa poyamba, kuti ndikhale wopambana kuposa onse momwe ndingakhalire mu mgwirizano ndi banja. Kuti tikhalepo zenizeni, komanso kulumikizana bwino ndi zinthu zomwe zimalumikiza, kulumikizanso, ndikupanga kukula kopitilira muyeso, wina amafunika kutenga nthawi kuti akhalebe osasangalala pakusintha, ndikutsegulira chiopsezo kuti ine, ndife osiyana.
Kutenga nthawi kuti muyime ndikuvomereza momwe kulumikizana, kusinkhasinkha, ndikukhalira munthawiyo, pano komanso pakadali pano kungasinthe mafunso amenewo kukhala mayankho a munthu watsopano, "ife" watsopano.