Zamkati
- Kodi zokopa ndi chiyani: Tiyeni tikumbe mozama!
- 1. Kuchita manyazi
- 2. Kuyang'ana pansi kapena padenga
- 3. Kuyika dzanja lanu pamwamba pa lanu
- 4. Kupsompsonani pamphumi
- 5. Kuyang'anitsitsa kwakuya komanso kwakutali
- 6. Maola akakhala ngati masekondi
Anthu amagwera anthu pazifukwa zillion. Palibe kutanthauzira kulikonse pankhani ya chikondi kapena kukopeka. Kumva kumeneku kutanthauziridwa m'njira zingapo. Monga munthu, momwe mumamverera pa munthu m'modzi zimasiyana ndi momwe mumamvera ndi munthu wina. Dziwani kuti kumverera kwanu ndi koona komanso kosaphika. Osakayikira momwe mukumvera chifukwa choti nthawi zonse simakhala yunifolomu.
Sikuti nthawi zonse mumakopeka ndi winawake. Kukopa kwachikondi ndikumverera komwe mumamva koma kawirikawiri osati pafupipafupi monga chilichonse ndi chilichonse. Siziyenera kumveka zachilendo kwa inu chifukwa pali zokopa zomwe zimakhala zotsutsana ndi zokopa. Mukayesa kupitirira zoyambira, mudzapeza mitundu yazokopa zachikondi.
Kodi zokopa ndi chiyani: Tiyeni tikumbe mozama!
Kukondana ndi nkhani yovuta, ndipo imakhudzanso zikhalidwe zingapo. Chifukwa chake, kukopa kwachikondi kumamveka bwanji? Zitha kukupangitsani kumva kuti mwangokhala ndi mapiko awiri atsopano ndipo mutha kuwuluka motalika momwe mungafunire. Nazi zina mwazizindikiro zofunikira komanso zosanyalanyaza zokopa zachikondi.
1. Kuchita manyazi
Kukopa kwachikondi ndikumverera kwamphamvu komwe kumachokera mkati ndikupeza mizu yake mu moyo wanu. Ngati timalankhula za kukopa kotsutsana ndi kugonana, zonsezi ndizolekana chifukwa kukopana sikutanthauza kulumikizana ndi moyo wanu komanso zamkati.
Mukamwetulira komanso kuchita manyazi pambuyo poganizira za wokondedwa wanu, ndichokopa chomwe chimayambitsa. Ngati wina akunena dzina la winawake wapadera amakupangitsani kukhala wamanyazi, mumakopeka ndi wokondedwa ameneyo. Ngati masaya anu atembenukira pinki, maso anu atapatukana, ndipo milomo imagawanika; imasonyeza kukondana.
2. Kuyang'ana pansi kapena padenga
Anthu akamakopeka ndi wina ndi mnzake, amakonda kupewa kukhudzana ndi diso chifukwa chamanyazi.
Mukakhala kutsogolo kwa tondovi lanu, ngati mupitiliza kuyang'ana pansi kapena kuwona padenga, mwayamba kale kukopeka ndi mtundu wachikondi.
Anthu ena amaganiza kuti atayika m'maso mwa okondedwa awo; ndichifukwa chake amakayikira kuyang'anitsitsa maso. Kapenanso, akuwopa kuti mwina sangathe kubisa momwe akumvera ngati angayang'ane m'maso mwawo komanso chifukwa cha mantha awa, amayesetsa momwe angayang'anire.
3. Kuyika dzanja lanu pamwamba pa lanu
Kuti mumudalire mnzanuyo, anthu ena amaika manja awo pamwamba pa dzanja la munthuyo. Izi ndizofala pomwe onse akusinthana mawu. Zimathandizanso kukhulupirirana ndi chikhulupiriro pakati pa anthu awiriwa. Ngati mukulankhula ndi munthu wina, mwina mungakopeke naye.
4. Kupsompsonani pamphumi
Kupsompsona pamphumi ndi chizindikiro chosaoneka chotsimikizira chikondi, kutengeka komanso kukopeka ndi chikondi. Ngati tikulankhula za kukopana vs kukopa kwakuthupi, zonsezi sizofanana. Mukamakopeka ndi thupi, mungafune kuwapsompsona kulikonse, koma mukakopeka ndi chibwenzi, mudzawapsompsona pamphumi nthawi zambiri.
5. Kuyang'anitsitsa kwakuya komanso kwakutali
Mukayang'ana m'maso mwa wina ndikumverera kuti mwalowa m'dziko latsopanoli ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe simunakumanepo nazo, ndicho chizindikiro champhamvu kwambiri chokopa.
Kuyang'ana m'maso mwake kumawoneka ngati ulendo wosatha, ndipo simudzayang'ana tsogolo lanu, mumalikonda osayembekezera kutha.
6. Maola akakhala ngati masekondi
Mukakhala kuntchito, kapena mukamagwira ntchito zapakhomo, masekondi amamva ngati masiku, sichoncho? M'malo mwake, mukamacheza ndi wokondedwa wanu, mumatha maola ochuluka ngati masekondi. Kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kukopeka ndi kukondana ndikuti, simukakamizidwa ndi nthawi yomwe mungakopeke.
Izi ndi zina mwazizindikiro zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti mukusunga malingaliro okonda munthu. Kukhala ndi malingaliro okondana ndi munthu ndikuledzera komanso Mulungu nthawi yomweyo, ndizodabwitsa. Landirani ndipo yesetsani kuti mnzanuyo adziwe kuti muli nawo, simudziwa kuti atha kukubwezerani!