Zamkati
- Kuwunikira gasi ndi njira yawo yodalirika kwambiri
- Kupangitsa kudzimva waliwongo
- Olemba zankhani amasankha mwanzeru
- Wolemba zamatsenga amakunyengererani, kukunyengererani, kenako nkubisalira inu
- Pepani, koma pepani
- Narcissist amadzionetsa ngati munthu wopanda cholakwa
- Kulamulira anthu ndi miyoyo yawo ndi ufulu wawo wobadwa nawo
Wolemba zamatsenga ndi munthu amene nthawi zonse amakhala wofunitsitsa kupondereza ndikuwongolera moyo wa anthu ena. Wolemba zamatsenga amatha kukhala chosokoneza nthawi zina; wosakhazikika kuganiza. Ali ndi zizolowezi zina ndi zina.
Sukulu yawo yamalingaliro ndiyosiyana kwambiri ndi munthu wamba. Amapangitsa anthu kuwakhulupirira ndipo kenako amawonetsa mitundu yawo yowona powasokoneza m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo.
Kuwunikira gasi ndi njira yawo yodalirika kwambiri
Narcissists atha kukhala opweteka ngati muli pachibwenzi nawo. Amadziwa, ndipo adzagwiritsa ntchito njira zonse zowunikira mafuta zomwe mungaganizire.
Wolemba zamatsenga ndi munthu woyipa waluso komanso wokhoza kulimbikitsa njira zopusitsira zapadera.
Amangobwera ndi china chake chowasangalatsa tsiku lililonse. Samangopeza magetsi okwanira ndikupitiliza kukalipira anzawo popanda chifukwa chilichonse.
Kupangitsa kudzimva waliwongo
Yemwe amazunzidwa nthawi zambiri amakhala atamangidwa kwambiri. Omwe amadzudzula anzawo ali ngati zidutswa za chipale chofewa; amatha kuimba mlandu ena pazomwe akhala akuchita.
Amatha kupezerera wovulalayo kenako ndikuwachotsera nkhanza.
Amakhumudwitsa winawake ndipo amadzinamizira ngati apwetekedwa. Kusokoneza lingaliro lamlandu ndi njira yomwe amakondweretsedwa kwambiri yomwe amagwiritsa ntchito motsutsana ndi zomwe akufuna.
Olemba zankhani amasankha mwanzeru
Anthu osokoneza bongo amasankha zolinga zawo mwanzeru. Amayang'ana anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chachikulu komanso omwe amalemekeza kwambiri malingaliro awo. Popeza amakonda kupweteka, amakonda kuwongolera anthu omwe angavulazidwe mosavuta. Amawoneka odekha komanso olimba mtima panja pomwe ali odzaza ndi kaduka, kusakhulupirira, ndi tsankho.
Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chachikulu ndizomwe amawakonda kwambiri chifukwa amatha kuwachotsera akamaliza kuchita zachiwerewere.
Wolemba zamatsenga amakunyengererani, kukunyengererani, kenako nkubisalira inu
Mwina ndiwe munthu wopanda mwayi kwambiri padziko lapansi ngati uli mnzake wa wankhanza. Muli ndi tsoka lalikulu kugwera mumsampha wa mnzanu wa narcissist. Mwasankha njira yolakwika kwa inu, komwe mungadzipezeke mutatayika pakati pena paliponse. Chenjerani! Amangokhala kuti angokuchitirani mwayi komanso kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu olemetsa kupezeka kwawo padziko lapansi.
Wolemba zamatsenga amakupangitsani kuvala magalasi amtundu wa rose ndikukupatsani ziyembekezo zabodza zamtsogolo.
M'malo mwake, adakonzekereratu kuti adzakusiyani atangowononga moyo wanu, nawonso opanda chisoni.
Pepani, koma pepani
Wolemba zodandaula samadandaula za malingaliro ndi malingaliro a anthu ena. Sangakhumudwe ngakhale pang'ono ndi nkhawa zomwe adakupangirani. Adzangophulika m'manja atasokoneza moyo wanu.
Omwe akuwonetsa nkhanza akuwoneka kuti alibe chidwi ndi unamwino mabala omwe adayambitsa. Ali patali, kutali ndi kunyamula chokhumudwitsa chamtundu uliwonse.
Kuchokera pazinthu zazing'ono zoyipa mpaka kuwonongeka kwakanthawi kwam'malingaliro, ma narcissist amasangalala ndi izi.
Narcissist amadzionetsa ngati munthu wopanda cholakwa
Narcissist sadzavomereza zolakwa zawo pamikangano iliyonse. Adzachita chilichonse ndi chilichonse kupangitsa mnzakeyo kutenga cholakwacho ndikukhala nacho. Chilichonse chomwe chimalakwika, amangoyala pakhomo la wokondedwa wawo.
Olemba zanyengo amatha kugwiritsa ntchito mabodza ndi chinyengo kuti athandize pamilandu yawo. Amatha kupanga ziwembu motsutsana ndi ena mosavuta. Ndipo, ndi malingaliro anzeru, atha kupangitsa kuti winayo apite kukavomereza zolakwa zonse ndi zolakwika zake.
Kulamulira anthu ndi miyoyo yawo ndi ufulu wawo wobadwa nawo
Wolemba zamankhwalawa amakupanga chopondera pakhomo ndipo amatha kuyenda paliponse, popanda kuwaletsa. Anthu ena omwe amazunzidwa amakhala opanda chiyembekezo nthawi zina akamakhala ndi mnzawo.
Sangasankhe kusiya ngakhale atazolowera komanso kuzunzidwa. Kamodzi, amapereka batani lawo kwa wolamulira; alibiretu chochita nazo. Olemba ma narcissist ndiopenga nthawi yayitali.
Mukakumana ndi wankhanza, poyamba mungasangalale ngati owonetsa sakuwonetsa mwachangu mitundu yawo yowona. Amagwira wovulalayo pang'onopang'ono komanso mwanzeru. Choyamba, adzazindikira kufunikira kwanu ndikusankha zamtsogolo malinga ngati muli nawo. Adzaika maekala awo onse patsogolo panu kuti akwaniritse zovuta zawo.