Zamkati
- 1. Mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sindiye woyamba wofunika
- 2. Wokondedwa wanu ndiwopusitsa / wozunza
- 3. Kuyankhulana molakwika komanso kuganiza zabodza
- 4. Kusakhulupirika
Maukwati oyera ndi mgwirizano wapakati pa anthu awiri momwe amalumikizana mogwirizana ndikuphatikizika kukhala munthu m'modzi; ikusonyeza ulendo wa moyo wonse pamene awiriwo amangidwa pamodzi kwamuyaya kupyola mu zovuta ndi zopyapyala kapena matenda kapena thanzi labwino; wokhala ndi lonjezo loti azikhala kumbali ya wina ndi mnzake ngakhale zinthu zitakhala zovuta bwanji.
Mwamawu, ndi mgwirizano wachitsulo womwe umalembetsa ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi wovomerezeka ndi Lamulo lenilenilo, koma mwazinthu zake zauzimu, limaphatikiza magawo awiri a moyo womwewo kuti amalize, chifukwa chake amatchedwa soulmate.
Kukhala ndi banja labwino ndikosowa kwambiri
Ngakhale lingaliro laukwati palokha ndilabwino muumulungu wake, mwatsoka, tikukhala m'dziko lopanda ungwiro, ndipo kukhala ndi banja labwino ndikosowa kwambiri.
Nthawi zambiri anthu amakhala mumkhalidwe womangika muukwati wokhala ndi wokondedwayo kapena wokonda nkhanza, kapena amalowerera muukwati wokonzekera komwe kulibe mgwirizano pakati pawo, mwina pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa awiriwa kapena ochulukirapo zinthu zosokoneza zomwe zimasokoneza ubale.
Maukwati siabwino kwenikweni m'moyo weniweni, ndipo m'nkhaniyi, tidzawona ziwonetsero zofala za maukwati osavomerezeka zomwe ndizofala.
1. Mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sindiye woyamba wofunika
Anzanu, abale anu apafupi, ndi makolo anu alidi mbali yofunika ya moyo wanu; adatenga gawo lofunikira pakukula kwa inu monga munthu, ndipo amakukondani komanso amakusamalirani kaye mnzanu asanadziwe kuti muliko.
Mosakayikira muyenera kuwakonda komanso kukhala okhulupirika kwa inu, koma anthu omwewo akuyenera kumvetsetsa kuti akuyenera kukhala pampando wakumbuyo pankhani ya mnzanu.
M'madera mwathu timalingalira kuti tili ndi chonena m'moyo wa munthu wina makamaka kuwauza momwe angakhalire moyo wawo; Uku ndikungoganiza chabe, ndipo tiyenera kumvetsetsa malire athu.
Ngati muli otanganidwa kwambiri kumvera zomwe achibale anu amakunena za mkazi / mwamuna wanu kapena ngati mumaika patsogolo makolo anu, abale / alongo, kapena abwenzi kuposa mnzanu ndiye kuti simukhala ndi ubale wokwanira ndi mnzanu.
Ziribe kanthu zomwe zingachitike mkazi wanu / mwamuna wanu amadza kaye! Ngati satero, muyenera kuyamba kufunsa mafunso kuchokera kwa inu nokha ndi mnzanuyo komanso komwe ukwati wanu umakhala. Apa pali chizindikiro choopsa, ndipo mumachipeza pagulu lathu.
2. Wokondedwa wanu ndiwopusitsa / wozunza
Sinkhasinkhani za izi ndikukumbukira nthawi yomaliza yomwe mudalankhula ndi mnzanu mokoma mtima kuti angokupatsirani chidani.
Mudzazindikira kuti aka si koyamba kuti muzichita izi, izi zimachitika pafupipafupi.
Ganizirani nthawi zonse zomwe mudayang'ana thandizo kapena kugawana nawo zosangalatsa ndi mnzanuyo, koma zimakupangitsani kudzimva kuti ndinu olakwa chifukwa chakukhumudwa kapena kukugwetsani pansi chifukwa chokhazikitsa nkhani yanu yabwino kuti isakhale yopanda pake.
Pompano pali mnzanu wapabanja yemwe mkati mwake amakudanani kapena amadzida okha.
Kodi mnzanuyo amakumenyani kenako nkukuyimbani mlandu wanu?
Kodi amakudzudzulani chifukwa cha kusakwanitsa kwawo ndikupangitsani kuti muzimva ngati kuti sindinu odziwa? Kodi amakufufuza mwaukali kapena kukutsutsa mwamwano chifukwa chongoti ndiwe wekha?
Ngati ndi choncho, ndichodziwikiratu kuti simukusangalala ayi, mukuvutika ndi chisokonezo cham'maganizo chotchedwa ukwati. Khalani otopa kuti mutha kukhala nawonso banja ili. Dziwani kuti azimayi samangokhala amwano pomwe amuna amakonda kusankha nkhanza.
3. Kuyankhulana molakwika komanso kuganiza zabodza
Kodi banja lanu lakhazikika chifukwa cha nkhawa, kuyembekezera zoipa, ndi malingaliro olakwika?
Tiyerekeze kuti amuna anu alandila meseji, ndipo akucheza, akuyankha mwakachetechete ndikuyamba kuyankhulana. Mumamva ngati kuti akuyankhula ndi winawake wapadera pafoni yake, ndipo samakukondani; Tsopano dziwani kuti ndi lingaliro chabe, osati chowonadi chenicheni chomwe mwina adangolemba kuti "Ndimakukondani" kwa amayi ake.
Bwanji ngati muwona mkazi wanu akuyankhula ndi mnzake wamwamuna ndipo mukuganiza kuti sakukhulupirika nanu, pomwe amangofunsa za mafayilo am'mawa.
Nonse simulankhulana ndipo mwakachetechete mumakhala ndi chidani, kukhumudwitsana, ndi kukayikirana wina ndi mnzake, mumamva kuti mumanyengedwa komanso kupusitsidwa ndipo mumadzipatula nokha mwina mumangopatsana nkhanza, kapena mumakunyozani mwazunzo mnzanu chifukwa cha zomwe sanachite ' Chitani.
Izi zimangobisa kutalika pakati panu ndikukusiyani nonse osokonezeka komanso kukhumudwa, zomwe zitha kuthetsa banja lanu.
Chonde khulupirirani ndi kulemekeza anzanu ndikufotokozerani kukayika kulikonse kapena mavuto omwe mungakhale nawo; apatseni mwayi kuti agwire ntchito pa iwo.
4. Kusakhulupirika
Mbendera yayikuluyi yofiira imatha kupita mbali zonse ziwiri; Kubera sikungokhala kwakuthupi, komanso kumangokhalira kutengeka.
Tiyerekeze kuti muli ndi mnzanu wooneka bwino kuntchito kwanu, ndipo simungachitire mwina koma kukopeka naye; mumapita kukamwa khofi ndikukambirana bwino, ndipo ndiye zonse zomwe mungaganizire ngakhale mutakhala ndi amuna anu.
Pambuyo pakakhala nthawi yayitali chimakhala chinthu chomwe mumakonda kwambiri, ndipo simumacheza ndi amuna anu, izi zitha kuchitika chimodzimodzi.
Simukubera mnzanu mwakuthupi, koma pamalingaliro omwe muli, ndipo ndizopweteka kwa amuna / akazi anu.
Dzigwireni ndi kolala ndikudzifunsa nokha zomwe zikuchitika; ndichifukwa choti simukusangalala mu banja ili kapena ndi mkhalidwe winawake wa mnzanu womwe umakukankhirani kutali ndi iwo?
Kukulunga
Osasiya izi mwamwayi mukadziwa kuti pali mavuto m'paradaiso. Chitani chimodzimodzi pothetsa kusamvana mbanja, ngati muwona ming'alu iyi mu chiyanjano chanu.