Zamkati
- Zolingalira za abambo ndi amai
- Akazi ndi maudindo ogonjera pogonana
- Amayi amphamvu komanso chifukwa chake amakonda kuponderezedwa
- Kugonjera kugonana ndi ukazi
Pali chikhulupiriro chofala kuti akazi amasangalala ndi kugonjera. Ndipo, ngakhale tifufuza nkhaniyi m'nkhani yotsatirayi, tiyenera kuzindikira kuti amuna ndi akazi, komanso anthu onse, ali ndi kuthekera kwamitsempha yokonda kulamulira komanso kugonjera pogonana.
Izi zati, ndichowona kuti azimayi akuwoneka kuti akusangalalabe ndi kugonjera kogonana. Chifukwa chake, tiwone chifukwa chake zili choncho, kuchokera pamaganizidwe.
Zolingalira za abambo ndi amai
Amuna ndi akazi amaganiza kuti, chimenecho si chinsinsi. Onsewa ali ndi malingaliro pazomwe amakonda komanso zomwe samakonda. Amuna ndi akazi onse amakhala ndi malingaliro oti adzakwaniritsa nthawi ina ndipo ena omwe adzatsalira.
Zikafika pazomwe zili m'malingaliro azakugonana awa, zomwe abambo ndi amai amadzutsidwa zitha kukhala zofananira, monga kusangalala ndi vignette momwe muli zinthu zokhudzana ndi kugonana.
Ngakhale pali kufanana komwe tidalemba za amuna ndi akazi, palinso kusiyana kofunikira kwambiri. Zofunikira kwambiri zimadalira momwe anthu otsogola amagwirizirana ndi malingaliro okakamiza. Amuna odziwika pagulu amawonekeranso kuti amasangalala ndi malingaliro omwe amalamulira akazi.
Komabe, azimayi samasiyana pamalingaliro awo momwe amakondera amuna momwe amalamulira amuna kutengera momwe alili pagulu. Amayi amphamvu komanso azimayi amanyazi amayesetsanso kulamulira kwazimayi chimodzimodzi. Koma zikafika pongoganizira zakuti iwo akulamulidwa, azimayi amavumbulutsa kusiyana kwakukulu komwe kumakhudzana ndi kutengera kwawo pagulu.
Akazi ndi maudindo ogonjera pogonana
Amayi amphamvu kapena azimayi odziwika bwino amawoneka ngati akusangalala ndi kugonana mwamphamvu kuposa akazi ena.
Malingaliro awa atha kukhalabe m'mitu mwawo kapena kusewera pamoyo weniweni. Atha kuphatikizaponso kuwongolera modekha amuna kapena akazi awo koma atha kupita m'malingaliro akugwiriridwa.
Malingaliro azimayi otengedwa mwamphamvu ndikukopeka amaphatikizana ndi mfundo yakuti amuna kapena akazi oterewa atha kukhala okonzeka kubadwa nawo kuti akhale ndi ana athanzi komanso olimba.
Koma, malingaliro osinthikawa sakukhudzanso akazi amakono. Amakhala osayenera makamaka kwa azimayi omwe ndianthu otsogola kwambiri ndipo safunikira zoteteza kapena zopezera zofunika.
Chifukwa chake, tingafotokozere bwanji izi zomwe zatsimikiziridwa poyeserera, pomwe mafotokozedwe apakale samachita zambiri kutithandiza kumvetsetsa chodabwitsa ichi?
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, zoyeserera zitha kuwulula zomwe zimapangitsa chidwi cha azimayi odziwika. Ndipo zotsatira zake zimawonetsa zomveka, koma zosayembekezereka.
Amayi amphamvu komanso chifukwa chake amakonda kuponderezedwa
Pali mafotokozedwe osiyanasiyana pazifukwa zomwe, modzidalira komanso wowoneka wolimba, mayiyo amasangalala kulamuliridwa pabedi.
Akatswiri ena azamisala, makamaka omwe amakhala m'masukulu olingalira mwamphamvu, atha kukhala ndi chizolowezi chofotokozera izi pobweretsa zizolowezi zazidziwitso zakudziwononga, zinthu monga kusilira mbolo ndi zina zotero.
Komabe, zikuwoneka kuti kufotokoza kwa zomwe zimawoneka ngati zodabwitsa ndizosavuta kuposa izi. Sizodabwitsa konse. Mosiyana ndi momwe chiwerewere chotere chimawonekera kwa ena, kwa akazi amphamvu, pali malingaliro osiyana kotheratu. Kukumana koteroko kumatsimikizira kufunikira kwa kufunitsitsa kwa mkaziyo.
Mwanjira ina, mkazi yemwe amasangalala ndi mwamuna womugonjera pogonana amatanthauzira khalidweli ngati chiwonetsero cha momwe adamukondera.
Iye sakanakhoza kumutsutsa iye. Anali wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri yemwe samatha kudzithandiza yekha, amayenera kukhala naye, zikhale mwamphamvu.
Amachita bwino pantchito yake, amakhala ndi anthu ambiri, ndipo tsopano akukondweretsanso kugonana, monga chiwonetsero cha mphamvu zachikazi.
Kugonjera kugonana ndi ukazi
Zikafika pazokambirana zakugonana kwa akazi, gulu lazachikazi limatha kutsutsa. Lingaliro loti mkazi azilamuliridwa ndi mwamuna limatsutsana ndi maziko a nzeru zachikazi. Amayi amayenera kukhala odziyimira pawokha komanso amphamvu m'mbali zonse za kukhalapo kwawo, kuphatikizapo kugonana.
Komabe, monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, zokopa zogonana kwa akazi zitha kukhala zogwirizana ndi zomwe chikazi chimafalitsa; kapena, osatsutsana nawo. Inde, mwamunayo amakakamiza mkazi. Koma, pali zambiri ku mphamvu zachikazi kuposa mphamvu zathupi zokha.
Mwanjira ina, zomwe akazi amasangalala ndi kugonjera pogonana ndizopatsa mphamvu kuchokera kwina.
Lingaliro lakukhumba kwachikazi motero mphamvu ya akazi. Izi zikutsimikiziridwa ndikuti malingaliro azakugonana amasangalatsa amayi mwamphamvu kwambiri komanso otsogola kwambiri, ndikuti amatanthauzira kulamulidwa ndi amuna ngati umboni wosatsutsika.