Zamkati
- Momwe mungapezere mkazi
- 1. Kodi muli ndi chidwi ndi zikhulupiriro zomwezo?
- 2. Kodi anakula bwino?
- 3. Kodi akuchita bwino?
- 4. Kodi ndi wokongola?
- 5. Kodi ndiwoseketsa?
- 6. Kodi amakonda chuma?
Nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi njira ziwiri, mwina mumakwatirana ndikuyenda ndi mkazi wanu, kapena mumakhala amalume anu Bob, omwe amadana ndi maukwati ndipo samakhazikika. Ngati ndinu woyamba ndipo mukufuna kukwatira nthawi yomweyo koma simukupeza mkazi musadandaule, nkhaniyi ikuthandizani.
Kupeza kuti ndiwe mkazi woyenera kumafuna kulingalira kwambiri; muyenera kusamala ndi zomwe mukufuna mwa mkazi. Muyenera kupeza munthu yemwe amakumvetsetsani, akumvetsetsa malingaliro anu komanso ali ndi malingaliro ake. Ngati mukufunafuna mkazi koma osamupeza, pitirizani kuwerenga-
Momwe mungapezere mkazi
Ndikofunika kuti anyamata azikumbukira kuti banja ndikudzipereka kwanthawi yayitali. Simungokwatiwa ndi winawake chifukwa amaoneka bwino. Mukufuna kupeza mkazi wabwino yemwe amasamalira banja lanu, ndi mayi wabwino kwa ana anu ndipo koposa zonse, amakusamalirani.
Nayi mafunso ofunsira kuti mupeze mkazi woyenera:
1. Kodi muli ndi chidwi ndi zikhulupiriro zomwezo?
Ngati mukufunafuna mnzanu, onetsetsani kuti mukuyang'ana chidwi chomwe chimakhala pakati panu. Mkazi amene muyenera kumukwatira ayenera kukhala ndi zokonda ndi zikhulupiriro zofanana ndi zanu; izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangakhale ndi zikhulupiriro zake, zimangotanthauza kuti akugwirizana ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira ndipo inu mukugwirizana naye.
Ndikofunika kuti muvomereze pa zinthu zazikulu monga banja, ana, ndalama, kugonana, ndi zina zotero. Onetsetsani kuti mumakambirana musanakwatirane musanakwatirane.
2. Kodi anakula bwino?
Mkazi wamakhalidwe abwino komanso womvetsetsa bwino momwe banja liyenera kukhalira atha kusintha nyumba yanu kukhala nyumba.
Ngati mkazi amene mukumukwatira ali wamtima, amangokangana pa chilichonse ndipo ndi wamwano ndiye pewani kumukwatira. Adzapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wovuta ndipo sangathe kulera bwino ana anu.
3. Kodi akuchita bwino?
Mkazi wabwino adzapambana ndikuchita bwino musanalowe m'moyo wake. Mukasankha kukwatira wina, sankhani munthu amene ali ndi zolinga ndi zokhumba m'moyo zomwe sizingakwatirane. Kukwatirana ndi munthu wophunzira kwambiri, wina, yemwe amakonda kuwerenga m'malo mongokhala ndi nthawi pa Instagram ndi Snapchat.
4. Kodi ndi wokongola?
Dziwani kuti sitikukambirana za mawonekedwe ake koma tikulankhula ngati angakukopeni kapena ayi. Kodi mumakopeka naye? Kodi kuseka kwake, kumwetulira kwake kapena mawu ake zimapangitsa mtima wanu kusungunuka?
Mkazi wanu sayenera kukhala bomba, koma payenera kukhala china chake chokhudza iye chomwe chimakupangitsani kufuna kwanu.
5. Kodi ndiwoseketsa?
Moyo wokwatirana sikuti umangokhudza ana, ntchito, ntchito, ndi zina. Moyo pambuyo paukwati uyenera kukhala ndi kuseka, kuseka, komanso kusangalala. Osakwatira msungwana yemwe amakhala wamisala nthawi zonse, munthu wokwiya komanso nthawi zambiri, wosachita chidwi ndi chilichonse.
Pewani kukwatiwa ndi mtsikana yemwe sangasangalale ndi zinthu zopanda pake monga pikiniki paki, munthu yemwe samaseka mukamayika ayisikilimu pamphuno.
Kwatirana ndi munthu wosangalala komanso wamoyo. Mwanjira imeneyi sikuti mudzangosangalala komanso moyo wanu umakhala wathunthu.
6. Kodi amakonda chuma?
Ngati mkazi amene mukumukwatira ali wokonda chuma kwambiri ndipo amakonda kudya ndipo amakonda kwambiri ndalama, musamukwatire. Ngati akufuna kuwononga ndalama zanu zonse m'thumba latsopano la Birkin ndikukufunsani mukamagula nsapato $ 50, thawani mzanga ndipo musachite cholinga.
Ukwati mosakayikira ndichisankho chachikulu kwambiri. Simungathe kusankha wina pagulu chifukwa amawoneka bwino ndikuwapangira mwayi wotsatira mwezi wamawa. Ukwati ndichofanana ndi kunyengerera, kukhululukirana, kudzipereka, ndi chikondi chopanda malire; zimakupangitsani kufuna kuthandiza munthu wanu zinthu zikavuta. Chifukwa chake, pezani mnzake wokhala naye moyo yemwe angayime nanu, akumamvetsetsani, samakutengani mopepuka ndipo amakonda zonse zomwe mumachita. Mukapeza munthu wotero, musadandaule ndikukwatira nthawi yomweyo!