Zamkati
- Chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo motsutsana ndi V. kukula ndi kufunika kwa mphete yachitetezo
- Kodi kukula ndikofunika?
- Kukula kwa mphete sikuyikira ukwati wabwino
- Zochita zazing'ono, zowonjezerapo zokoma mtima mchikondi
- Ngati chikondi ndichakuya chonchi, banja lingakhale lakuya chonchi
Pa nthawi yomwe mukuwerenga nkhaniyi, azimayi angapo akukhala pachibwenzi kuti mwachiyembekezo ndi bambo wamaloto awo. Ndipo akafunsira ndikutsegula bokosilo lomwe limanyamula mphete imodzi yamtengo wapatali kwambiri yomwe angalandire. Kodi adzakhala wokondwa kapena wokhumudwa?
Koma mzaka zapitazi, mphete za chinkhoswe zakhala kwa ambiri, chizindikiro chachikulu. Chizindikiro cha chikondi? Kapena kutchuka? PansipaDavid akukamba zavuto la mphete ya chinkhoswe, ndi momwe maanja ena akuvutikira poyesera kupeza chikondi kudzera muntchitoyi.
Chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo motsutsana ndi V. kukula ndi kufunika kwa mphete yachitetezo
"Akanena kuti," kodi udzandikwatira ", kwa azimayi mamiliyoni padziko lonse lapansi chaka chino, adzakhala mawu omwe amayembekeza kumva moyo wake wonse. Ngakhale atakhala banja lake lachiwiri, lachitatu kapena lachinayi, chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo komabe zitha kuwoneka ngati ndi nthawi yoyamba. Koma pakhala pali zochitika pazaka zomwe ndaziwona, zokhudzana ndi zovuta zakukula ndi kufunika kwa mphete yachitetezo, osati kuzama kwa chikondi chomwe mwamunayo angakhale nacho kwa bwenzi lake.
Zinkawoneka ngati zikuphulika pomwe zowonera zenizeni zapawailesi yakanema zidayamba kuchuluka m'miyoyo yathu.Ndikutsimikiza zidayamba kale izi, koma mchitidwe wanga wothandiza mabanja achichepere, komanso maanja azaka zapakati omwe atsala pang'ono kuchita chinkhoswe, zikuwoneka kuti pakukwera mtengo womwe azimayi ena amaika pa kukula kwa mpheteyo, zomwe zadzetsa kupsinjika ndi kusagwirizana mu ubalewo.
Kodi kukula ndikofunika?
Mzimayi adayamba ntchito yakukula, ndipo mgawo lake loyamba, anali kuda nkhawa kwambiri zakuchepa kwa daimondi mu mphete yake yachitetezo. Sanakayikire kuti amakonda bwenzi lake, koma anali ndi nkhawa kuti mphete yomwe adavala kumanja kwake siyikwaniritsa miyezo ya bwenzi lake.
"Ndawonapo mphete zokongola zambiri pazaka 10 zapitazi, ndipo ndimayembekeza kwambiri nditakwatirana kuti munthu yemwe akufuna kundikwatira andisonyeza kuya kwa chikondi chake, pondigulira chachikulu, chowonekera- dulani daimondi yomwe ndingakonde kuvala.
Sindikutsimikiza kuti ndinganene kuti ndine wonyadira kuvala mphete yomwe ndidapeza sabata yatha. Ndi yaying'ono kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimaganizira, ndipo ngati mungayang'ane mwatcheru ndi galasi lokulitsa daimondi, kumveka kwake kulibe. Ndikukhulupirira kuti bwenzi langa ligwirizane nane, ndikubwerera kwa miyala yamtengo wapatali yomwe adaipeza ndikuisintha ndi chinthu china chofunikira kwambiri. "Sindine mlangizi wokha kapena wothandizira moyo yemwe wakumanapo ndi zokambirana zamtunduwu m'mbuyomu. Ndipo bwenzi lake silinali lokondwa konse ndi yankho lake kwa iye loti apite ndikukapeza daimondi yayikulu, yabwinoko, yokwera mtengo.
Kukula kwa mphete sikuyikira ukwati wabwino
Ndikumvetsetsa kukakamizidwa kwa azimayi kuti adzaonekere mdziko la mphete za chinkhoswe, ndipo ndimamvetsetsanso kuti ndichopusa kuyerekezera chikondi chamwamuna ndi chikwama chake. Wachinyamata wake anali atakhala miyezi isanu ndi umodzi akusunga ndalama za mphete iyi, ndipo anali wonyada kwambiri kuti anali wokhoza kuchita popanda kufunsa aliyense kuti amuthandize, kuti amubwereke ndalama zambiri, kapena kumuuza momwe angatulutsire mpheteyo.
Adayang'ana m'masitolo angapo azodzikongoletsera ndipo amakhulupirira kuti adapeza zambiri komanso mphete yokongola. Tsopano anali kufunsa ngati bwenzi lake analidi mtsikana wake. Kodi mungamuimbe mlandu? Kapena, muli mbali ndi mtsikanayo? Mukufuna mphete yayikulu kuti muwonetsere azibwenzi ake?
Ndanena nkhani yofananayo kwa azimayi ambiri pazaka zambiri, kuti ngati mukukhudzidwa ndi kukula kwa ling'i, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kuyang'anitsitsa zomwe mumaika pachibwenzi. Ndipo palibe cholakwika ndi kukwatiwa ndi mwamuna yemwe angakwanitse kugula mphete ya diamondi kuti muzimva kukhala otetezeka ndi azibwenzi anu.
Koma kukula kwa ling'i sikudzapereka ukwati wathanzi kapena ukwati wokhutiritsa. Pa flipside, ndiroleni ndikuuzeni nkhani ya mtsikana wodabwitsa komanso chikondi chake kwa bwenzi lake. Potsutsana ndi zofuna za makolo ake ndi zofuna za abwenzi ake, adapeza chikondi ndi bambo yemwe anali ndi ndalama zochepa. Osati chifukwa anali wopusa, kapena waulesi, koma sanangoika patsogolo kupanga ndalama.
Zochita zazing'ono, zowonjezerapo zokoma mtima mchikondi
M'malo mopita naye kukadyera kokongola, amamudabwitsa kangapo pamwezi ndi chakudya chamasana, chokonzekera bwino chomwe amakawonekera kuofesi yake osadziwitsidwa, ndikupereka pamaso pake ndi siliva weniweni ndi zopukutira nsalu. Anapitanso kukatola maluwa akuthengo ndikuyika mu vase yake, ndikuperekanso kuntchito kwake.
Chifukwa udindo wolipirira ukwatiwo unali pamapewa pake ndi iye, makolo awo analibe ndalama zolipirira ukwati wawo kapena phwando lawo. Anamuuza kutsogolo kuti kukula kwa mphete ya chinkhoswe kudzakhala kocheperako ndipo ayenera kuyika ndalamazo paukwati wawo, tchuthi chawo chaukwati, ndi china chilichonse chomwe asunga kuti apeze malo atsopano oti azikhalamo.
Anamwetulira, nakweza dzanja lake lamanzere, ndikundiwonetsa band yosavuta yasiliva yomwe inali mphete yake yachitomero. "Sindingakhale wosangalala kuposa David, ndiye chikondi cha moyo wanga."
Pamene mukuwerenga izi, ndipo ngati mukuwona kuti bwenzi lanu likakupatsani gulu losavuta lasiliva ngati mphete yachitetezo mungakhumudwe, kuchita manyazi, komanso manyazi kuwonetsa abwenzi anu. Mwina simukumvetsetsa tanthauzo la chikondi. Mwina, muyenera kudikirira mpaka mukakumana ndi munthu wina wolemera mokwanira kuti akupezereni mphete yayikulu yoonekera ya diamondi ndikungoyembekeza kuti gawo lachikondi liliponso. Ndipo ndilibe chotsutsana ndi ndalama.
Ngati chikondi ndichakuya chonchi, banja lingakhale lakuya chonchi
M'malo mwake, kuchuluka kwanga kwachuma kumachitika chifukwa ndimagwira ntchito molimbika, ndikugwira ntchito yomwe ndimaikonda, ndipo ndakhala ndikuchita izi kwazaka zambiri. Ndipo ndikukhulupirira, kuti ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe angathe kulipira mphete yayikulu ndikufuna kukupatsirani, komwe kulibe vuto ku akaunti yake yaku banki kutero, ndipo mumakondana kwambiri. O Ambuye wanga, pitani nazo ndipo musangalale nazo.
Koma ngati mumakondadi wina ndi mnzake, kuchokera pansi pamtima mwanu, ndipo sangakwanitse kuchita chilichonse kupatula kansalu kasiliva kosavuta kumanja kwanu ngati mphete yachitetezo, monga lonjezo lokwatirana, gwirani. Tsopano. Onetsani kwa anzanu. Muzinyadira. Ndipo zindikirani kuti tsogolo lanu ndi munthuyu ndiotetezeka ngati kuti mumavala daimondi ya karat kumanzere kwanu.
Ndipo ngati chikondi chili chozama chonchi, banja likhoza kukhala lakuya chimodzimodzi.