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- Nchifukwa chiyani enafe tili ndi anzathu ochepa pambuyo paukwati?
- Bwenzi lililonse ndi lapadera
- Chifukwa chiyani timayembekezera mnzathu / mnzathu kukhala chilichonse chathu?
"Mnzathu aliyense akuyimira dziko lapansi mwa ife, dziko lomwe mwina silinabadwe kufikira atafika, ndipo ndipamsonkhano uno pomwe dziko latsopano limabadwa."
- Anaïs Nin, Zolemba za Anaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1931-1934
Pakhala pali owerengeka ochepa pamtengo wocheza ndi anzawo. Kafukufuku wambiri akuwonetsa zomwe zimayambitsa ubongo tikakhala ndi mnzathu mosiyana ndi mlendo. Izi zimachitika ngakhale mlendo atakhala ofanana ndi ife.
"Pazoyeserera zonse, kuyandikira koma osafanana kumawoneka kuyendetsa mayankho kumadera oyandikira komanso madera omwe amagwirizana nawo muubongo wonse," adatero Krienen. "Zotsatira zake zikuwonetsa kuti kuyandikirana ndikofunika kwambiri kuposa zikhulupiriro zomwe timagawana poyesa ena. Werengani Montague, PhD, ku Baylor College of Medicine, katswiri pakupanga zisankho komanso ma neuroscience aukadaulo, adati, "Olembawo amalankhula za chinthu chofunikira pakudziwitsa anthu - kufunikira kwa anthu omwe timayandikira," adatero Montague.
Nchifukwa chiyani enafe tili ndi anzathu ochepa pambuyo paukwati?
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Zomwe ndimawona pakuchita kwanga ndikuchepa kwaubwenzi pambuyo paukwati. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti azimayi amasunga ndi kusunga anzawo nthawi yayitali kuposa amuna. Koma timawona ubale wofunika bwanji ndikudabwa izi chifukwa tikugwira ntchito ndi maanja, nthawi zambiri ndimadabwa ndi zomwe mnzathu amayembekezera kwa wina ndi mnzake. Zomwe ndikutanthauza ndikuti, "ngati umandikonda, uzisamalira zosowa zanga zonse ndikukhala chilichonse changa." Tsopano sindinamvepo mawu enieni amenewo, koma ndamva kulankhulako.
Ukwati kapena mgwirizano ndi umodzi mwamgwirizano wapamtima womwe munthu angakhale nawo, koma si ubale wokhawo womwe munthu angakhale nawo.
Bwenzi lililonse ndi lapadera
Tikamayang'ana anzathu, titha kuwona mbali zosiyanasiyana zomwe anzathu ali nazo. Mnzathu aliyense amatitumikira mosiyana. Mnzanu ndi wabwino kufunsa mafunso a mafashoni kapena kapangidwe kake, pomwe mnzake ndi amene amapita naye kumamyuziyamu. Mnzathu wina akhoza kukhala wamkulu pakagwa mwadzidzidzi, pomwe wina amafunikira chidziwitso. Mnzathu aliyense amayatsa china chake mkati mwathu. China chake chomwe mwina sichikanawoneka mpaka mnzakeyo atafika. Zili ngati kutchulidwa koyambirira kwa chidutswa ichi.
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Chifukwa chiyani timayembekezera mnzathu / mnzathu kukhala chilichonse chathu?
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