Zamkati
- Kodi kufunikira kofunika motani muubwenzi?
- Momwe mungabwezeretsere chidwi muukwati wanu
- 1. Tcherani khutu
- 2. Musamachite cholakwacho
- 3. Osataya mtima
- 4. Chitirani mnzanu zinthu
Kulowa ndi kutha kwa ubale wa "Passionless Relationship. '
Pafupifupi theka, ngati zochepa, maukwati amathetsa banja. Izi zimakonda kunyalanyaza nkhani yonse "mpaka imfa itatilekanitse".
Komabe, si bungwe lomwe lili ndi vuto. M'malo mwake, ndi anthu omwe akuthamangiratu kumabungwe omwe atchulidwayo, mwina, molawirira kwambiri kapena kukokera anzawo omwe safuna nawo. Nthawi zambiri, banja limapezeka likunena kuti sangasangalale ndi chibwenzi.
Chifukwa cha izi kusowa chidwi, ndi nthawi, ndipo nthawi yaukwati imatha ndipo maudindo amayamba kutenga mavuto, zimabwera pomwe kulibe kukondana muukwati.
Kusowa kwa chilakolako sikuyenera kutanthauza kusowa kwa chikondi kapena chilakolako chogonana. Zitha kufotokozedwa bwino ngati kuti munthuyo wakhala pa bedi akuwonera kanema wopangidwira m'malo mwake kukhala gawo la chochitikacho.
Chimodzi amataya kufunitsitsa kukhala gawo la moyo wabanja lawo panonso. Chidwi, chidwi, ndi kuyendetsa - zonse zapita chifukwa mwazindikira kuti muli pachibwenzi chosakondana.
Kodi kufunikira kofunika motani muubwenzi?
A ubale wopanda chikondi ali ngati njovu m'chipinda. Ndi zovuta kubisala ndi zina zambiri zovuta kunyalanyaza. Khalani okondana, okwatirana, kapena okwatirana opanda chilakolako, zimakhudza mwachindunji anthu okuzungulirani.
Ngati mukufunabe momwe mungayambitsire chilakolako chokwatirana, musanawerenge ndi kufufuza, yesani kufufuza pang'ono za mnzanu.
Yesani kuwamvera.
Momwe mungabwezeretsere chidwi muukwati wanu
Kodi mumadabwa momwe mungabwezeretse chilakolako m'banja lanu?
1. Tcherani khutu
Pulogalamu ya chinthu chachikulu ku ubale uliwonse ndi Khalani tcheru kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Ganizirani wina ndi mnzake. Sinthani ndikusintha zinthu zochepa apa ndi apo.
Mfundo yakuti ngati mumakonda, gwiritsitsani, sikugwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Yesani zinthu zingapo kamodzi, dabwitsanani, konzani masiku ausiku, ndipo mphatso wina ndi mnzake tinthu tating'ono tokoma ndi ma knick-knacks kuti asinthe zinthu.
2. Musamachite cholakwacho
Chilichonse chomwe mungachite, musasewera mlandu masewera, kunena kuti zonsezi ndi chifukwa cha ubale wanu wopanda chikondi.
Chifukwa chake funso lalikulu loti, "Kodi banja lingakhale lopanda chilakolako? ' Ndipo ngati palibe chilakolako chotsalira muukwati, mungayambitsenso bwanji chidwi chanu?
Kusaka chilakolako chotayika mu ubale ndichofunikira.
3. Osataya mtima
Mmodzi sayenera kutaya mtima ndi anzawo, okwatirana, kapena momwe akumvera. Gwiritsani ntchito moyo wanu kuti mubwezeretse chidwi muukwati wanu, ndipo kuyamba kumanga chilakolako mu ubale wanu monga njira zina sizomwe munthu amafuna.
Njira ina nthawi zambiri imakhala msewu wautali komanso wosungulumwa.
Zowona, ndi nthawi, anthu ndi miyoyo yawo amasintha, zinthu zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wawo zimasintha, chimodzimodzinso zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda. Kungoti mulibe chilakolako muukwati wanu, kodi wina anganene kuti atha?
Ngati mukuganizabe kuti ubale ungakhalebe wopanda chilakolako? Mukadangoika phazi limodzi ndi linzake, ndikuyembekeza zabwino mwina, mwina, zitha kugwira ntchito mwina, chifukwa palibe amene angakhale wotsimikiza zamtsogolo.
Komabe, kuphunzira kukondana ndizosavuta komanso kukoma mtima kuposa kuyesa kupusitsa mnzanu, ndikukhala kwamuyaya muubwenzi wopanda chikondi. Koma, ndi zosinthazi, wina ayenera kugwira ntchito pamoyo wawo ndi banja lawo.
Kumanga chilakolako mu chibwenzi zitha kuwoneka ngati a ntchito yovuta koyambirira kapena koyambirira, koma zimatheka mosavuta mwa kumvera, kuyang'ana, komanso kukonda wina ndi mnzake. Kupatula apo, mudadzazidwa ndi chidwi komanso kukonda munthu ameneyo, ayi?
Maganizo sangatheretu kwathunthu. Amachepa kapena kufooka pakapita nthawi.
4. Chitirani mnzanu zinthu
Monga momwe kafukufuku adachitidwira, ubale wopanda chilakolako sungakhalebe ngati simukufuna kuchitira mnzanu zinthu. Ngati simukufuna kusiya zinthu zofunika kuzikwaniritsa, kodi mukuganiza kuti anu ubale ungatukuke? Chimakhala chosowa chomwe chimayamwa moyo kuchokera pachibwenzi.
A ukwati wopanda chikondi palibe kapu ya tiyi kapena china chomwe wachinyamata kapena wachinyamata amalota.
Koma, mwatsoka, maloto samakwaniritsidwa nthawi zonse, kapena maloto sapatsidwa kwa inu nthawi zonse mu mbale ya siliva. Nthawi zina, umayenera kugwira ntchito molimbika, nthawi zina umayenera kukhala wekha, sonyezani kuti ndinu oyenerera musanakwaniritse malotowo.
Chiyanjano chilichonse chimafunikira ntchito, nthawi, komanso kuyesetsa - kuyesetsa kuyatsa chidwi chomwe chatayika kwanthawi yayitali, yesetsani kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, wachimwemwe, komanso wathanzi. Kusakhala ndi chidwi muubwenzi kapena kusowa chidwi m'banja sizitanthauza kutha kwa dziko.
Munthu atha kuyigwirira ntchito kapena kuikwaniritsa, ndipo mutakhala ndi mwayi pang'ono, mutha kukwaniritsa moyo wanu mosangalala.
Dziwani nthawi yanu yachisanu chifukwa chake ndi chiyani. Yembekezani kukwera koyamba. Ndipo ngakhale mutadzipeza nokha mukudziwa mumtima mwanu kuti muyenera kukhala, kambiranani zaukali zenizeni za moyo musanatseke zitseko zaukwati.
Popeza sizovuta nthawi zonse, ndipo si aliyense amene angathe kuyambitsa chilakolako kapena kukondananso. Nthawi zina, imodzi ubwenzi wopanda chikondi ungathe kuwonongeka zoposa basi miyoyo iwiri.