Zamkati
Mnzanuyo akudandaula. Mukumva bwanji? Mumayankha bwanji?
Zowona, kungakhale kovuta kupatula zosowa zanu kapena malingaliro anu pakakhala kusagwirizana. Nthawi zambiri chitetezo chimatha, ndipo musanazindikire, mumapezeka kuti muli pampikisano wotsutsana nawo. Mwinamwake mwakwanitsa kumamverana wina ndi mnzake, kuti muthe kusanja chisankho chisanachitike. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, kodi sizingakhale bwino kufika pamenepo osayamba nawo nkhondoyo? Kufika kumeneko osachita manyazi, kunyalanyaza, kapena kutanthauzirana molakwika?
Nthawi ina mukadzabuka vuto, yesani kugwiritsa ntchito njirazi zomwe adalandira kuchokera ku chithandizo cha maanja a Imago.
Ndipo ikafika nthawi yanu yoti mudandaule, khalani ndi momwe zochita za ena - osati machitidwe awo - zakupangitsani kumva.
Kujambula
Mwachidule, mungobwereza zomwe mudamva mnzanuyo akunena, ndikufunsani ngati mwamva molondola. Yesetsani kuti musatanthauzire, kapena kuyika utoto ndikumasulira kwanu. Mnzanuyo atha kukonza kusamvana kulikonse. Bwerezani mpaka nonse mukhutire kuti uthengawu ndiwosavuta. Kupatula kusonkhanitsa zambiri kuti muthe kuyankha bwino lomwe lili pafupi, kufunsa kotereku ndipo komweko kumawonetsa kuti mukufuna. Nonse muyenera kukhala pamutu; musalole zina kubwera kukambirana. Sungani amenewo nthawi ina.
Kuvomerezeka
Simuyenera kuvomerezana ndi malingaliro amnzanu. Muyenera kuvomereza kuti ndizomveka, potengera momwe zinthu ziliri. Mutha kukhala ndimkhalidwe wosiyana kotheratu, komanso, womwe ungadikire. Pakadali pano, tangoganizirani momwe mungachitire ngati mulibe gawo pazomwe mukuwuzidwa. Bwezerani kumbuyo, ndipo yesetsani kuganizira momwe akumvera mnzanuyo, m'malo momangotchula mwatsatanetsatane.
Chisoni
Mukuganiza kuti mnzanu akumva bwanji? Lankhulani bwino. Kumbukirani, simuyenera kusiya chilichonse chomwe mukufuna, mphamvu, kapena udindo kuti mumvetse. Zitha kuwoneka ngati zosavuta, koma iyi ndi gawo lofunikira pakusintha ndikupewa kuvulala kwa chibwenzicho.
Mutha kusankha pasadakhale nthawi yomwe mudzagwiritse ntchito pankhaniyi. Kenako sinthani mbali ndi maudindo, koma pewani kukana ndikufunika kuti musankhe tsatanetsatane. Simusowa kuti mupeze chisankho - iyi ndi njira yoti aliyense amve popanda kuweruzidwa kapena kukula. Popita nthawi, mutha kukhala okondwa kudziwa momwe mumamvetsetsa za anzanu.