Zamkati
- Sungani zoyembekezera
- Gwiritsani ntchito maubwenzi onse awiriwa
- Khazikitsani malamulo apanyumba
- Kulankhulana, kulankhulana, ndi kulankhulana
- Khalani bwino ndi akale
- Onani wothandizira
Kugwa mchikondi kachiwiri kungakhale kokoma kuposa koyambirira. Koma, zinthu zimakhala zovuta kwambiri zikafika paukwati wachiwiri ndi ana.
Ngati mukupita kudziko laukwati wachiwiri ndi ana, mukudziwa kuti padzakhala ma ex omwe muthane nawo, maubale ndi ana kuti mudziwe, ndi banja lonse kukhazikitsa kuyambira tsiku loyamba.
Ziwerengero zambiri ndizokwaniritsa kukwatiranso ndi ana, ndipo maukwati achiwiri amalephera kuposa maukwati oyamba. Koma, pakuyika khama komanso chikondi, kupanga banja lachiwiri sizovuta zonse.
Chofunikira ndikuti mukhale okonzekera chilichonse chomwe chingabwere kwa inu, komanso kusinthasintha nthawi yomweyo.
Choncho werengani kuti mumvetsetse mavuto am'banja lachiwiri komanso momwe mungathetsere mavutowa. Malangizo ofunikira omwe ali pansipa atha kukuthandizani pakuwunika banja lanu lachiwiri ndi ana.
Sungani zoyembekezera
Ngakhale mutakhala mayi wopeza kapena ana opeza, koma ana amakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana. Zingawatengere kanthawi kuti asangalale nanu, ngati zingatero. Poyamba, amayamba kukwiya kapena kusadziwa momwe angakuchitireni.
Kutengera ndi momwe banja loyambali latha, komanso ubale wawo ndi makolo awo olekanitsidwa, mutha kukhala ndiubwenzi wabwino kapena simungakhale nawo.
Onetsetsani kuti mukuyang'anira zomwe mukuyembekezera. Osalowa muukwati ukuganiza kuti ndiwe wopambana kapena kuti ndiwe mkazi wopambana ndipo ukonza zonse, kapena kudzaza zopanda pake, kapena kukhala bwino ndi ana.
Zitha kuchitika, mwina sizingachitike. Ingotsimikizirani kukhala komweko ndikuyesetsa momwe mungathere, ngakhale mutakhala paulendo.
Gwiritsani ntchito maubwenzi onse awiriwa
Mukakwatirana, kwa ana a mnzanu, banja lawo nthawi zonse limakhala gawo logwirizana - makolo awo, abale awo, ndi zina zambiri.
Izi ndizowona makamaka ngati uwu ndi banja lachiwiri ndipo ana akukhudzidwa. Chifukwa chake kuyambira tsiku loyamba, padzakhala anthu atsopano mnyumba yanu.
Chifukwa chake, pomwe mwina mwakhala mukufunitsitsa kukhala ndiubwenzi wolimba ndi mnzanu watsopano, dziwani kuti muyenera kulimbikitsanso ubale ndi ana.
Sanakudziweni bwino pano, chifukwa chake kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yabwino kwambiri ndikofunikira. Dziwani zomwe amakonda kuchita - monga kupalasa njinga, kupita ku makanema, masewera, ndi zina zambiri - ndipo gwirizanani nawo pazinthu izi. Kapenanso, khalani ndi nthawi yopuma ayisikilimu.
Nthawi yomweyo, onetsetsani kuti mumakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yokwanira ndi mnzanu watsopano. Tsiku lausiku silingakambirane. Yesetsani kucheza ndi mnzanu kamodzi pa sabata.
Komanso, yesetsani kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza monga banja kuti muthane ndi mavuto omwe angabwere m'banja lachiwiri! Chakudya chamadzulo, ntchito yapa bwalo, zochitika Loweruka, ndi zina zambiri ndi malingaliro abwino kulumikizana komanso banja ndikuthana ndi mavuto amukwati wachiwiri.
Khazikitsani malamulo apanyumba
Kukwatiranso ndi ana sikophweka. Mukakwatiranso, ana amatha kumva ngati akuponyedwa munjira ina yatsopano, ndipo zonse zasokonekera. Sadziwa zomwe akuyembekezera, ndipo izi zitha kukhala zowopsa.
Onetsetsani kuti mwapanga dongosolo ndikuyembekeza zoyembekezereka kuchokera pakupita. Khalani pansi monga banja ndikuyesetsa kuwalimbikitsa ndi malamulo apanyumba atsopanowo.
Komanso, onetsetsani kuti ana akupereka zomwe akuyembekezera komanso zotsatirapo zake kuti asadzimve kuti akusintha. Mukakwatiranso ndi ana, ndikofunikira kuti ana aziganiza kuti iwonso ndi gawo lofunikira popanga chisankho.
Lembani malamulo onse apanyumba ndikuzilemba, ndikuzitchula ngati zikufunikira mukalowa m'banja lachiwiri ndi ana omwe akukhudzidwa.
Komanso, zindikirani kuti atha kusintha ngati pakufunika kutero. Khazikitsani msonkhano wabanja m'mwezi umodzi kapena kupitilira apo, kuti mubwererenso malamulo apanyumba ndikukambirana momwe zinthu zikuyendera.
Kulankhulana, kulankhulana, ndi kulankhulana
Kotero, momwe mungapangire kuti banja lachiwiri liziyenda bwino?
Komabe, kumveka kumveka, kulumikizana ndichinsinsi!
Inu ndi mnzanu watsopano muyenera kulumikizana momwe zingathere kuti banja lachiwiri ligwire ntchito, komanso kuti banja liziyenda bwino.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kulumikizana mosadukiza komanso moyenera. Mukasunga malingaliro anu, sizigwira ntchito, makamaka ngati mukwatiranso ndi mwana wachiwiri.
Chifukwa chake, kambiranani za momwe mungalerere bwino ana, kambiranani za momwe zimakhalira, ndikukhala patsamba limodzi. Nthawi zonse muzilankhulana momasuka mukamayang'anira banja lanu lachiwiri ndi ana.
Khalani bwino ndi akale
Tsoka ilo, m'mabanja achiwiri, padzakhala osachepera mmodzi, ngati si awiri, wothana nawo.
Ndipo, makamaka muukwati wachiwiri wokhala ndi ana omwe akukhudzidwa, wakale amakhala gawo lofunikira m'miyoyo yawo, chifukwa chake, inu ndi moyo wa mnzanu.
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti banja lanu lachiwiri ndi ana azikhala ogwirizana momwe zingathere. Simuyenera kuchita kukonda wokondedwa wanu wakale kapena wokondedwa wanu, koma muyenera kuyanjana ngati mungathe.
Khalani osangalatsa, tsatirani malamulo ndi makonzedwe, ndikukhala otsimikiza kwa ana anu za iwo. Zachidziwikire, musalole kuti akupezereni mwayi, koma malingaliro anu apita kutali.
Onani wothandizira
Ngakhale palibe "cholakwika" muukwati wanu wachiwiri ndi ana paokha, ndibwino kukhala pansi ndi othandizira monga banja, monga banja, komanso ngati aliyense payekha.
Mutha kupempha thandizo kwa mlangizi kapena wothandizira kupeza mayankho anzeru amomwe mungauzire mwana wanu kuti mukwatiranso kapena momwe mungamuthandizire mwana wanu kulandira banja lina.
Unikani komwe aliyense ali, lankhulani momasuka, ndipo kambiranani zovuta zilizonse zomwe ziyenera kuthetsedwa, ndikupanga zolinga.
Aliyense ayenera kukhala patsamba limodzi, ndipo njira yabwino yochitira izi ndikuwona mlangizi wabanja waluso.
Awa ndi ena mwa malangizo ofunikira paukwati wachiwiri ndi ana oti muwaganizire mukamaganiza zodzilowanso mu banja lina. Komanso, ngati muli kale muukwati pomwe m'modzi mwa inu adakwatiranso, malangizo awa paukwati wachiwiri ndi ana akhoza kukuthandizani ndikuthandizani kuyambiranso mavutowo ngati alipo.
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