Zamkati
- Chikondi chaubwana chimakhala chowona
- Cholinga
- Kukonzekera ukwati
- Pomaliza, tsiku laukwati!
- Malangizo ochokera kwa a Jessica omwe angokwatirana kumene
Chikondi chimagonjetsa zovuta zonse, chimagonjetsa zopinga zonse, ndi zotsatira zomwe mphamvu ina iliyonse sizingatheke ~ William Godwin
Ubale pakati pa zovuta za COVID-19 mosakayikira umakumana ndi zovuta zina - makamaka zikaganiziranso za mapulani aukwati.
Kodi izi zikuyenera kukhudza ubale wanu? Ayi sichoncho!
Ngati mukuganiza momwe mungakwatirane munthawi yovutayi, werenganinso nkhani yosangalatsa yaukwati a Jessica Hocken ndi a Nathan Allen omwe adachitika pakati pazoletsa.
Saga yawo yaukwati ndiyolimbikitsa kwa onse omwe amalimbikitsidwa kuthana ndi izi.
Chikondi chaubwana chimakhala chowona
Marichi 21, 2020, linali tsiku lomwe okondedwa a pasukulu yasekondale, a Jessica Hocken ndi a Nathan Allen, ali ndi chikondi chochuluka m'maso mwawo, adalankhula mawu awiri amatsenga awa 'Ndimachita' m'zipululu zowuma za Arizona.
Malo omwe adasungitsa koyambirira kunalibe ndipo mwambo waukwati sunachitike momwe iwo amaganizira.
Ndipo komabe, zochitika zonse zidakhala zosaneneka, pomwe onse omwe angokwatirana kumene akuti sizingakhale zachikondi kwambiri
Cholinga
Munali mu Meyi 2019, pamene mbalame zachikondi zinali zitakwera phiri m'mphepete mwa nyanja ku Seattle, ndipo Nathan adagwada kuti apemphe Jessica.
Polankhula ndi Marriage.com, Jessica adatchula zochitikazo 'malingaliro abwino kwambiri a zaka zikwizikwi.' Ngakhale adadziwa kuti ziyenera kuchitika tsiku lina, sanayembekezere nthawi imeneyo.
Ndipo mwachidziwikire zinali "Inde" kuchokera kwa iye!
Jessica pokhala 'wotenga,' adayamba kukonzekera ukwati atangobwerera ku Arizona.
Malowa adasankhidwa, ndipo tsiku laukwati lidatheredwa pa Marichi 21, 2020, ku kalabu yaku Scottsdale, Arizona.
Kukonzekera ukwati
Ndi mndandanda wa alendo wokonzedwa ndi a Jessica ndi a Nathan, adagawana nawo mayitanidwe awo kwa abale ndi abwenzi apamtima pafupifupi Seputembara 2019.
Vuto la COVID-19 linali lisanayambike tsoka ladziko lonse lapansi masiku ano, ndipo banjali linali litatanganidwa kwambiri ndi kukonzekera ukwati.
Jessica adayitanitsa apongozi asanu ndi mmodzi, m'modzi mwa iwo amakhala ku Hong Kong. Munali mu Januware pomwe mkwatibwi ku Hong Kong adagawana nkhani zake zotsekera ndikumuwuza pasadakhale kuti sangakwanitse kupita ku ukwatiwo.
Januware adadutsa, ndipamene milandu yoyamba ya Coronavirus idayamba kupezeka ku U.S.
Ngakhale banjali limadziwa kuti chiwopsezo cha Coronavirus chikubwera, iwo sankaganiza kuti kukula kwake kungakhudze bwanji dziko lapansi.
Tsiku laukwati likuyandikira, kutatsala pafupifupi sabata, Arizona idayamba kutseka.
Maukwati amatha kuchitika koma kusonkhana kumayenera kukhala kwa anthu 50 okha.
Jessica ndi Nathan anali atakonzekera ukwati wapamtima, choncho anaganiza zopitiliza ndi malingaliro awo oyambirira.
Masiku asanu ukwati wawo usanachitike, malo omwe adasungitsidwira kale adawaletsa. Kutangotsala masiku awiri kuti ukwati uchitike, a Jessica ndi a Nathan adasinthiratu anzawo ndi abale awo pazomwe sizinachitike.
Jessica adati, "Ngakhale timaganiza zoyembekezera, ndi kusatsimikizika, tinaganiza kuti ndibwino kukwatiwa. Kungoti sitinadziwe kuti zitheka bwanji, liti, ndipo kuti! ”
Anasunga maitanidwe osatsegulidwa. Koma, poletsa maulendo komanso zikondwerero, banjali limadziwa kuti ambiri sangakwanitse.
Ndipamene banjali lidaganiza zopanga ukwati pa intaneti. Ukwati weniweniwo udakonzedweratu kuti abwenzi ndi abale awo akhale gawo laukwati wawo panthawi yokhotakhota.
Komabe, onse omwe adayitanidwa anali omvetsetsa komanso othandizana ndi lingaliro laukwati.
Pomaliza, tsiku laukwati!
Ngakhale ukwatiwo sunachitike momwe banjali limaganizira, adakhazikika.
Malo atsopanowo achikwati anali mchipululu cha Arizona, pafupifupi mphindi kuchokera kunyumba kwa makolo a Jessica. Sanazindikire kuti malo omwe anakulira anali okongola komanso abwino kuchitira ukwati wawo!
Ndipo, pamapeto pake, tsiku lidafika pomwe zonse zidakwaniritsidwa. Ndi ogulitsa onse omwe amathandizira, malo achikwati adakongoletsedwa ndi zokongoletsa zokongola.
Jessica ankawoneka wokongola mu diresi lake lokongola laukwati lochokera ku Essense waku Australia loyamikiridwa ndi tsitsi lokongoletsa bwino ndi zodzoladzola za Monique Flores. Nathan, atavala suti yokongola yabuluu, adakwaniritsa mkwatibwi wokongola.
"Ndi atsikana awiri operekeza akwati ndi okwatirana asanu ndi mmodzi, Nathan adawoneka ngati diva," adaseka Jessica polankhula za zomwe adakumana nazo.
Ndipo, ndi malo okongola owuma a Arizona kumbuyo, banjali pamapeto pake lidalumbira malumbiro awo aukwati. Wogwira ntchitoyo, a Dee Norton, omwe amadziwa bwino kusala kudya pamanja, adathandizira banjali pamwambo waukwati.
Jessica ndi Nathan anali ndi abale awo apamtima komanso abwenzi kuti adzakhale nawo paukwatiwo, omwe anali makolo awo komanso agogo ake a Jessica.
Anali ndi phwando laukwati lofuna kuyimirira kuti azitha kuyanjana komanso kuteteza aliyense ku matenda a Coronavirus.
Ndipo, kunali kudzera pakuyimba kanema wa Zoom pomwe mchimwene wake wa Jessica ku Chicago, mchimwene wa Nathan ku Dallas, ndi omwe adayitanitsa pafupifupi pafupifupi madera onse a U.S.
Atasindikiza mgwirizano wawo wosatha ndi kupsompsonana, Jessica ndi Nathan adalimbikitsidwa ndi zokhumba ndi madalitso ochokera pansi pa gawo la Zoom.
Kenako banjali lidalandiridwa mosangalala kumbuyo kwa nyumba ya makolo a a Jessica, ndipo abambo a Nathan ndiwo adayang'ana koyamba kwa awiriwo.
Pomwe dongosolo laukwati lidachitika pasadakhale, banjali lidalibe chifukwa chodandaulira ndipo adakwatirana popanda chilolezo.
Chifukwa chake, ngakhale panali zovuta zambiri, mwachikondi komanso kuthandizidwa ndi anzawo ndi abale awo, Jessica ndi Nathan anali ndi phwando laukwati loposa lomwe angaganizirepo.
Malangizo ochokera kwa a Jessica omwe angokwatirana kumene
Jessica ndi mwamuna wake adatsata malangizo onse omwe aboma adakhazikitsa ndipo amatsata miyambo yakusokonekera komanso amakhala ndi ukwati wotetezeka.
Kwa iwo omwe akudzifunsabe- ndizotheka kukwatiwa pa intaneti pakakhala kusatsimikizika kwa mliri wa Coronavirus, Jesica ali ndi upangiri wochepa kwa maanja omwe amadzimva kuti ali mgulu la kusatsimikizika.
“Khalani omasuka. Pulogalamu ya tsiku laukwati mwina sizingachitike ndendende momwe mumaganizira koma, nthawi zina zimangokhala zabwino kuposa zomwe mukadakonzekera kungoti ndichisangalalo chokwanira chokwatiranadings. Ndizovuta koma ndizoyenera,“akuti Jessica.
"Tidasowa mamembala apabanja paukwati wanga wapaintaneti ngati mchimwene wanga yemwe amakhala ku Chicago (komwe kunali malo otchuka) ndi mchimwene wa Nathan yemwe amakhala ku Dallas koma adatha kulowa nawo kudzera pa Zoom.
Anthu ambiri sanathe kukwanitsa komanso, kusefukira kwammawa m'mawa, mwachitsanzo atsikana anga operekeza akwati amanditumizira makanema awo atavala madiresi awo, kuwonera, kapena kungokonzekera ndi ine ngakhale anali dziko lina kapena dziko, zinali zogwira mtima kwenikweni. Anthu amamvetsetsa izi ndipo chifukwa chake tikufuna kupitabe patsogolo. Ndimamva ngati zimathandizadi, ”adatero a Jessica.
Nthawi yodzipatula ikupitilizabe kufalikira, nkhani ya Jessica ndi ena mwa anthu angapo omwe akusankha maukwati apaintaneti kapena pafupifupi ngati njira yolola kuti chikondi chigonjetse munthawi yamavutoyi. Marriage.com imapereka zabwino zonse kwa onse oterewa ndipo tikukhulupirira kuti kudzera mu nkhanizi, ena atha kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chofunikira chaukwati wawo.
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