Zamkati
- 1. Ulendo wachikondi
- 2. Bwererani ndi masewera amasewera
- 3. Kumuphikira
- 4. Khalani chirombo pakama
- 5. Tsiku la masikono
- 6. Usiku wa jacuzzi
- 7. Lipirani chakudya chamadzulo
- 8. Zokopa zamakina
- 9. Gawo lazithunzi
- 10. Mutengeni makanema
- 11. Gawanani nyimbo
- 12. Kugonana pa intaneti
- 13. Kutumizirana zolaula
- 14. Kuchokera pazopeka mpaka zenizeni
- 15. Pitani kukalawa vinyo
- 16. Tsiku la Paintball
- 17. Mímalo Zambiri
- 18. Limbikitsani
- 19. Konzani usiku wa amuna
Pankhani yamaubale, chilichonse chimabwezeretsedwanso tsiku lililonse. Kunena kuti ndimakukondani sikokwanira pokhapokha mutaziwonetsa ndi zochita zoyenera komanso zosangalatsa kwa munthu wapadera ameneyu. Muyenera kudziwa njira zokopa munthu kupatula kungomuwuza kuti mumamukonda.
Manjawa ndi ofunika mawu chikwi chimodzi, chifukwa chake musaphonye mwayi wopangitsa mwana wanu kukhala wosangalala ndi zochita zomveka koma zowongoka kwa iye.
Pachigawo chino, tikufuna kukuthandizani kupanga njira zingapo zopindulitsa, zomwe zingadabwe wokondedwa wanu ndipo mosakayikira zikuthandizani kulimbitsa ubale ndi ulalo womwe mumagawana. Mwina mungaganize kuti kumudabwitsa ndi ntchito yovuta, komanso amamverera ndipo amayembekeza kuchita zapadera popanda chifukwa chomveka.
Chifukwa chake konzekerani kudziwa njira izi kuti mukope mwamuna yemwe angawapangitse kuti azikukondani.
1. Ulendo wachikondi
Ngati mukufuna kuti akhale wokamwa, konzekerani ulendo wachikondi. Kuthawa nthawi zonse kumapeto kwa sabata sikungokhala kwachikondi komanso kupsinjika.
Zilola zonse kulumikizana, kulankhulana, kukhala otseguka komanso osachita zokha. Zachidziwikire, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti musinthanso zomwe mwadzipereka ndi zanu kuti musangalale ndi ulendowu.
Ngati mumadziwa kukoma kwake, kudzakhala kosavuta kusankha komwe akupita, kumbukirani kuti ziyenera kumudabwitsa, chifukwa chake yang'anani malo omwe pali zochitika zomwe nthawi zambiri sizingachitike mosavuta, koma mosakayikira zingakhale zosangalatsa. Iyi ndi njira yabwino yokopa munthu.
2. Bwererani ndi masewera amasewera
Si akazi onse omwe amasangalala kapena kusangalala ndi lingaliro lopita ndi zibwenzi zawo ku baseball kapena bwaloli. Koma kwa mwamuna, ndi mayeso a chikondi chachikulu kwambiri omwe angaperekedwe kwa iwo. Ngati mukufuna njira zokopa mwamuna ndi amene muyenera kuyesa.
Zilola kuti mumuwonetse kuti mutha kudzimana zina chifukwa cha iye.
Ngakhale simukukonda masewera, tikukutsimikizirani kuti mupeza zambiri kuchokera kwa iye, mutakhala mukukuwa ndikukhala dzuwa m'bwalo lamasewera.
Chibwenzi chanu chidzadziwa kukuthokozani, chifukwa chisangalalo chomwe anyamata ena amasewera, ndichofanana ndi momwe zimakhalira ndi akazi kuchotsera nsapato.
3. Kumuphikira
Mwinanso khitchini si malo anu okwezeka, koma pali mwambi woti amuna amakopeka ndi mawonekedwe koma amagonjetsedwa ndi m'mimba. Ngati mukufuna kufika pamtima, ndiye kuti mum'kondwere ndi chakudya chamadzulo chodabwitsa.
Sikoyenera kuti muziyesa mbale zodula kapena china chake chovuta kutambasula, koma onetsetsani kuti mumadya chakudya chamadzulo mwachikondi ndikusamalira zambiri pakupereka chakudyacho.
Njira yokopa munthu kuti akonzekere chakudya chabwino. Yesetsani pasadakhale kuti mutsimikizire kuti mudzapeza zotsatira zomwe mukuyembekezera komanso kuti amasangalala ndi kukoma kwa chakudya.
Mitundu, kuwonetsera, ndi zonunkhira ndizofunikira. Gulani nsalu yapatebulo yokongola, makandulo, ndi maluwa kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi.
Ndipo musaiwale mchere, womwe ungakhale keke, keke, kapena zina zotsekera kutseka usiku. Lingaliro ndilakuti mchere ndi inu, chifukwa chake khalani okonzeka kusangalala ndi chakudya chamadzulo chanu.
4. Khalani chirombo pakama
Ngati mukufuna yankho loti, 'Ndingakope bwanji mwamuna wanga kuti agone naye?', Ndizosavuta.
Tiyeni tikhale owona mtima; munthu aliyense akuyembekeza kukhala ndi nyama pabedi. Ngati mukufuna njira zokopa abambo, ndiye kuti musinthe mawonekedwe anu ngati msungwana wabwino ndikukonzekera kuti mumupatse zomwe wakhala akuyembekezera: "Chiwonetsero chachinsinsi."
Sizingakhale kalembedwe kanu, koma sizokhudza inu, ndikumudabwitsa iye.
Pitani ku sitolo yayikulu. Kumeneku mudzapeza njira zambiri zotentha zomwe zingamusangalatse m'maso ndi kumusangalatsa kawiri.
Zodabwitsazi zimangogwira ntchito ngati mungopumula ndikulowa nawo gawo monga dominatrix yemwe amadziwa zomwe mukufuna. Kupanda kutero, mudzangotopetsa. Muyenera kukhala okopa kwathunthu, olimba mtima, komanso otsimikiza nokha. Mwana wanu amasangalala nazo ndipo sadzaiwala izi.
5. Tsiku la masikono
Kusaka njira zokopa munthu? Osaganizira kwambiri, amuna ena ndiosavuta, osiririka, komanso achifundo. Ngati bwenzi lanu likugwirizana ndi mbiriyi, tikukulimbikitsani kuti mupite naye ku paki ndikudya nawo limodzi pakati pa chilengedwe.
Pezani malo abata, omasuka, okhala ndi mtengo wawukulu womwe umapereka mthunzi wabwino ndipo, osayiwala kubweretsa nsalu ya tebulo ndi mankhwala ophera tizilombo.
Pakiyi iyenera kukhala chete kuti mutha kuyankhula momasuka popanda mwana kubwera kuchokera koyambirira kufunafuna mpira wake wotayika, kapena galu wofunitsitsa chakudya chanu.
6. Usiku wa jacuzzi
Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chosangalatsa kwambiri komanso chosangalatsa kwa bambo amene watha tsiku lonse akugwira ntchito molimbika, akubwera kunyumba ndikukhala ndi Jacuzzi ndimadzi ofunda, ananyamuka masamba, thovu, ndi makandulo onunkhira akumuyembekezera?
Pemphani kuti mupeze maupangiri ena okopa munthu kuti mumufunire.
Perekezani naye, ndikumupaka msana kumbuyo, ndi mphindi yanu kuti mumuchotsere zida pamaso panu, koma muli ndi ulamuliro.
Ndani adati ma spas ndi azimayi okha? Amuna amayeneranso kutikita minofu, kutulutsa poizoni mu sauna, ndikuwaseweretsa. Njira imodzi yokopera mwamuna ndikumupatsa kutikita kumasuka.
Ngati mumudabwitse motere, simungapitilize kumufunsa pambuyo pake za momwe masseuse angakhalire abwino kapena ngati atadzutsidwa ndi kutikita.
Mukamupatsa tsiku la spa, ndikuti abwerera kunyumba mopepuka ngati cholembera ndipo ali wofunitsitsa kukhala nanu ndikudziwa kufunitsitsa kwanu kumusangalatsa.
7. Lipirani chakudya chamadzulo
Amuna ena ndi am'kamwa mokongola, ndipo amasangalala kwambiri akudziwa malo odyera atsopano ndi kulawa zakudya zapadera komanso zosiyana.
Inde, njira iyi yokopa munthu nthawi zambiri imakhala yokwera mtengo, koma ndiyabwino. Muitanireni kuti alawe mbale yotsiriza yamalo odyera omwe mungakonde, ndipo mudzawona nkhope yake yachisangalalo.
8. Zokopa zamakina
Mapaki achisangalalo amasangalatsa ana ndi akulu, ndipo munthu aliyense amasungabe china cha mwana mkati mwake. Mutha kusangalala kwambiri pambali pake ngati mumamuitanira kumalo osangalatsa.
Kuyeserera kuwombera kuti mupambane mphatso, kulowa m'nyumba zowopsa, kudya maswiti, ndi kukwera mosazungulira kungakusokonezeni.
Nonsenu mudzaseka komanso mutha kusiya zipsinjo zakuntchito ndi ntchito za tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndi njira yapadera yokopa munthu.
9. Gawo lazithunzi
Osangokupangitsani nonse kuseka, koma magawo azithunzi akhoza kukhala osangalatsa komanso okondana kwambiri, kutengera mutu womwe onse asankhidwa. Iyi ndi njira ina yachilendo yokopa munthu.
10. Mutengeni makanema
Nthawi zambiri, ma cinema amatuluka nthawi zonse ndi amuna, koma nthawi ino mumayendetsa! Msamalireni, gulani matikiti a kanema yemwe amawakonda ndikulipira zokhwasula-khwasula. Mupangitseni kukhala womasuka panthawi yochezera kanema. Sikuti izi ndizosangalatsa kokha, koma ndi njira yosangalatsa yokopa munthu.
11. Gawanani nyimbo
Tsitsani nyimbo zomwe mumakonda, kapena mutu womwe nonse mumazindikira. Adzatha kumvera nyimbo zanu munthawi yake yopuma, ndipo akukumbukirani.
Kugawana nyimbo zomwe mumakonda ndi njira yabwino yokopa iye.
12. Kugonana pa intaneti
Ngati bwenzi lanu lili kunja kwa mzinda, izi siziyenera kumulepheretsa kumukumbutsa kuti ndiwe mtsikana wake.
Kugonana pa intaneti kumapangitsa amuna kukhala openga, komanso kukupatsani mwayi woti musaletseke, chifukwa chake yesani ndikusangalala. Adzakhala wokondwa kukuwonani mukumunyengerera mukamacheza pavidiyo. Iyi ndi njira yonyengerera yokopa munthu.
13. Kutumizirana zolaula
Ngati mukuganiza, 'ndingamunyengerere bwanji ndi mawu?', Yankho lake ndikutumiza zolaula.
Njira ina yamtundu wokopa amuna ndiyo kutumizirana zolaula. Ndizofanana ndi kugonana pa intaneti, koma kulibe nthawi, ndiye kuti, mumatumiza makanema olaula kwa mnzanu kapena zithunzi zomwe mwina mudatenga maola angapo kale kapena masiku apitawo.
Adzachikonda, ndipo adzatha kuwawona nthawi zambiri momwe angafunire.
14. Kuchokera pazopeka mpaka zenizeni
Anthu onse ali ndi zozizwitsa kapena zambiri, chifukwa cha makanema, magazini ndi makanema pa intaneti. Amuna amaganiza kwambiri zakugonana kuposa akazi, ndipo malingaliro awo ndiwanzeru kwambiri pankhaniyi.
Komabe, zokonda zambiri sizimachitikachitika chifukwa zimaopa kuti atsikanawo amakwiya kapena samakhala bwino.
Khalani ndi chidaliro chokwanira kufunsa bwenzi lanu zomwe ali nazo zogonana komanso ngati mungathe kuzilandira, musazengereze kumudabwitsa.
Ngati mukufuna njira zokopa munthu ndikumukhutitsa, kondwerani komanso kondwerani yesetsani kusewera.
15. Pitani kukalawa vinyo
Vinyo ndi aphrodisiac, kupita ku kulawa kwa vinyo sikumangokhala kotsogola koma kuli ndi ntchito ina: tengani kukagona. Vinyo ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yokopa munthu.
16. Tsiku la Paintball
Ngati mukufuna kudziwa njira zokopa munthu ndikumupatsa tsiku lina, komwe adrenaline yake imakwera chikwi, ndipo akumva kukhala wosangalala ndikuthokoza chifukwa chamachitidwe anu, musazengereze kupita naye kukhothi la paintball.
Pamalo awa, amatha kumasula chibadwa chake ngati munthu, kumenyana ndi mdani, kukonzekera njira yopambana, ndipo nthawi yomweyo kukutetezani kapena kukumenyani ngati mungafune kuwonjezera zonunkhira ndikutenga nawo gawo pagulu lotsutsa.
Amuna onse amasangalala ndi mavuto omwe amawapatsa kuti amenyane ndi ena popanda zovuta.
Ndiye chifukwa chake masewera apakanema alinso opambana, amuna amapikisana kwambiri.
Paintball imakupatsani mwayi kuti musangalale ndikumbukira kuti msungwana wanu ndiwosangalatsa, wowopsa, komanso wowuma pomwe mukufuna.
17. Mímalo Zambiri
Ngakhale mwamuna akhale wokonda zachiwerewere, wamwano, kapena wosachedwa kupsa mtima, aliyense amakonda kupusitsidwa, kusisitidwa, kupsompsona, komanso kumvetsetsa bwino za mnzake. Chinsinsi cha ubale wokhalitsa komanso wosangalatsa ndikulekerera ubalewo ndikuphunzira kusamalira winayo.
Ngati ngati mkazi, utaya zambiri za chibwenzi chako, palibe kukumbatirana, kupsompsonana, ndi kupapatirana kokwanira, ayang'ana wina woti amusamalire.
Muthokozeni ndikumuthokoza pazabwino zonse, ndikumukumbutsa chifukwa chomwe mumamukondera. Imeneyi si njira yabwino yokopa munthu komanso kumuyandikitsa pafupi nanu.
18. Limbikitsani
Mukuyang'ana njira zokopa munthu? Aféitalo, sambani naye, mugule zonona zonunkhira ndikumupatsa uthenga womwe wakhala akufuna. Nthawi zambiri amakhala osasamala zazambiri izi, koma mutha kumuthandiza ndikumukumbutsa za kukongola kwake komanso zomwe zimakupangitsani kukondana naye. Iyi ndi njira yabwino yokopa munthu.
Ngakhale simukukhulupirira, kwa mwamuna kuti mkazi wake amameta ndikumusamalira kumatanthauza zambiri.
Kuphatikiza apo, zimatha kumusangalatsa mokwanira, chifukwa chake kuchokera mphindi imodzi kupita kwina, ndizotheka kuti mumameta ubweya wosavutikira ndikupita kokagona.
19. Konzani usiku wa amuna
Konzani usiku wa abwenzi achimuna ndikuwayitanira. Mwanjira imeneyi, bwenzi lanu limakhala ndi ufulu wokhala nawo osaganizira zomwe mungakhumudwe nazo. Konzani chakudya chamadzulo, ndikuwongolera TV, tebulo lamadzi, komanso mowa womwe angafune kumwa.
Amafuna kucheza ndi amuna ena kuti azikambirana zodandaula zawo, ntchito, masewera, ndi mitu yambiri yomwe amai nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati yaing'ono.
Ndalama siziyenera kukhala cholepheretsa njira zokopa munthu, kukuwonetsani kuti mumamukonda komanso kuti mumamukonda. Siiye yekhayo amene ayenera kukumbukira madeti ndikukudabwitsani.