"Ndiye umboni wokha wa Mulungu womwe ndidawona kupatula mphamvu yodabwitsa yomwe imachotsa sokisi imodzi pouma nthawi zonse ndikachapa." —St. Moto wa Elmo
Mutu womwe mumawonetsedwa m'mafilimu okhala ndi mtundu wina wachikondi ndi mtundu wa chikondi chomwe mwamuna amakhala nacho kwa mkazi. Mufilimuyi, mwamunayo amagwiritsa ntchito nthabwala poyerekeza zozizwitsa zomwe mkazi yemwe amamukonda amawoneka. Momwemonso, chikondi chomwe muli nacho kwa mnzanu chiyenera kumva chodabwitsa komanso chozizwitsa monga tsiku lomwe mudakondana. Mabanja ambiri amatha kuganiza za amuna kapena akazi awo omwe amaposa onse omwe anali pachibwenzi nawo. Musaiwale zomwe zimapangitsa mnzanu kukhala "woposa ena onse."
“Chiyambireni kupsompsonana, pakhala pali kupsompsona kasanu kokha komwe kumati ndiko kokonda kwambiri, kopanda choyera kwambiri. Ameneyo adawasiya onsewo. ” —Mkwatibwi Wamkuru
Monga momwe Wesley ankakondera Buttercup, chikondi chomwe chimakhala chophatikizana nthawi zonse ndikukondana ndichabwino ndipo chimakhala chodzaza ndi moyo. Osasiya kupsompsonana mwachikondi - ndikuyamba kuchita izi tsopano ngati simunakhalepo nazo. Kupsompsona kumakupatsani mwayi wokhala pafupi kwambiri ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, ndipo sikuti nthawi zonse zimayenera kuchitikira kunyumba kwanu. M'malo mwake, kusankha nthawi ndi malo oyenera pagulu kupsompsonana mwachikondi kungapangitse kuti nonse mukhale ogwirizana.
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“Taonani, m'malingaliro mwanga, chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndikupeza munthu amene amakukondani monga momwe mulili. Kusangalala, kusasangalala, kuyipa, wokongola, wokongola, uli ndi chiyani. Munthu woyenera akadali kuganiza kuti dzuwa limawala bulu wanu. Ndiye munthu amene muyenera kumamatira. ” —Juno
Osamupempha mnzanu kuti akhale chilichonse chomwe sali. Munasankha munthuyo chifukwa cha omwe anali panthawiyo, podziwa kuti apitiliza kukula ndikusintha ngakhale pachibwenzi. Munthu woyenera nthawi zonse adzakhala munthu woyenera ngati mumuloleza kutero. Kumamatira munthu wina pamavuto komanso munthawi yopyapyala, kupyola pakuchita zabwino kapena zoyipa, zabwino kapena zoyipa, ndizofunikira pamene ali munthu m'modzi amene amakukondani ndikukumvetsani monga muliri.
“Inde, ndamwa. Ndipo ndiwe wokongola. Ndipo mawa m'mawa, ndidzakhala wosatekeseka koma ukhalabe wokongola. ” —Olota Maloto
Nthawi zonse mawu anu azikhala owona mukamayankhula ndi mnzanu. Kaya ndinu oledzera kapena osakwiya kapena okwiya kapena odzaza ndi chikondi ndi kuyamikira, lolani mawu anu kuti akhale owona nthawi zonse komanso aulemu komanso owona mtima. Nthawi zina muyenera kusankha mawu anu mwanzeru, koma osanama kapena kusunga chilichonse kwa mnzanu. Ndipo pafupipafupi, yamikirani wokondedwa wanu munjira iliyonse yomwe mungaganizire.
“Tikufuna umboni ku miyoyo yathu. Pali anthu biliyoni padziko lapansi ... Ndikutanthauza, kodi moyo umodzi ukutanthauza chiyani? Koma, muukwati, mukulonjeza kuti mudzasamalira chilichonse. Zinthu zabwino, zoyipa, zoyipa, zinthu wamba ... zonsezi, nthawi zonse, tsiku lililonse. ” —Tikuvina
Moyo watsiku ndi tsiku umatha kukhala chizolowezi m'banja, ndipo kumakhala kovuta kupanga tsiku lililonse kukhala lapadera. Chodabwitsa paukwati ndikuti muli ndi wina woti mugawane naye ngakhale ntchito zazing'ono kwambiri. Monga momwe mawuwo akunenera, zabwino zonse, zoyipa, zoyipa, komanso zopanda pake zomwe mumakumana nazo m'moyo wanu zidzagawidwa ndi mnzanu tsiku lililonse. Sipadzakhalanso tsiku lomwe simungadalire kuti munthu ameneyo akhale nanu.
“Kodi mumayikapo manja anu ndikungopita ndi kupota ndi kupota? Eya, ndimomwe chikondi chilili. Chilichonse mkati mwako chimakuwuza kuti uyime usanagwe, koma uzingopitabe. ” —Matsenga Achilengedwe
Lolani chikondi chikhale zamatsenga. Lolani kuti kukondana ndi chibwenzi chomwe mumakumana nacho ndi mnzanu chikhale ngati kuzunguliza bwalo. Mutha kukhala ozunguzika, kumva kupsinjika, ndipo mwina kuchenjezedwa ndi ena kuti muime musanagwe. Koma lolani chikondi chikunyamulireni ndikukhala kwamuyaya kumamverera kuti ndinu oponderezana tsiku lililonse. Sizingakhale zangwiro nthawi zonse, koma lolani chikondi chikhale nkhani yake.