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Nayi fomu yovutikira yanu (mutha kundithokoza pambuyo pake ...)
Popita nthawi ndikutentha kwambiri komanso kupanikizika pang'ono, chinthu chophweka ngati kaboni chimatha kukula ndikusandulika diamondi yosasweka. Mwalandilidwa. Ndine Bill Nye wokhazikika, mukudziwa?
Daimondi, ndiye, imapangidwa kuchokera pakukakamizidwa kwakukulu ndi mphamvu, yokwanira kupanga mgwirizano wosawonongeka.
Kodi mungandikhulupirire ndikanena kuti ukwati wanga wankhondo wakhala choncho?
ZOTHANDIZA ZOTHANDIZA.
Zimatenga nthawi, kupanikizika, komanso mphamvu kuti zilimbikitse maukwati. Zimatengera mayesero, mayesero, ndi zolemetsa za mphamvu zazikulu zomwe zimatithandiza kukula. Ndipo ndikutanthauza masiku, milungu, miyezi, ndi zaka zomwe zingakhale zovuta kwambiri pamisala yathu.
Iwo omwe adakwatirana ndi membala wantchito ngati ine, si alendo mitu yovuta. Nthawi zambiri, takhala tikupanikizika kwambiri chifukwa cha okwatirana omwe palibe kapena kuvulala. Ndipo, nthawi zina, ndi kudziyimira pawokha komwe tapeza kuchokera nthawi yochulukirapo yomwe timakhala tokha, kukwatiwa ndi wogwira ntchito sikumakhala ngati ukwati koma, mgwirizano, ndi mnzake wokhala naye.
Ine ndi mnzanga tonse tamva kupsinjika ndi kutentha kukuwonjezeka chifukwa ntchito zankhondo zatisiya tikumva zolemetsa, zolemetsa, ndikuchepa.Ukwati wathu wankhondo wachitika ndi maukonde opindika a kukhumudwa ndi mantha, kusakhazikika komanso mkwiyo. Kuimba mlandu ndi kutayika.
Komabe, zokumana nazozi sizoyenera zinyalala, zomwe zimayikidwa panjira yoti angonyamula mwachangu. Iwo sali opanda pake. Ndizofunika kwambiri.
Monga ma diamondi okongola opanda ungwiro, okwatirana ankhondo samaponderezedwa ndi kulemera kwa zovuta izi. Sinthani kuti tisasunthike. Timayesedwa ndikukankhidwa kuti tithe kukula ndikuphunzira, kuti tikhale anthu abwinoko. Tikungopatsidwa zolemetsa zolemera, zomwe zingathandize kuwonjezera mphamvu zathu ndi mphamvu zathu zokhalabe.
Nazi njira zinayi zomwe moyo wanga wankhondo ndi ukwati wanga zandithandizira ine ndi banja langa kukhala anthu abwinoko:
Timadziwa za chifundo
Banja langa likusowa thandizo, zenizeni.
Nthawi zambiri, banja langa laling'ono limadalira chithandizo cha ena. Ukwati ndi banja lathu limakumana tsiku lililonse ndi chipwirikiti ndipo timafunikira chisomo ndi chikondi cha ena. Mwayi wovuta kwambiri wokwatirana ndi gulu lankhondo ndikotheka kusamukira padziko lonse lapansi kumalo opangira ntchito, nthawi zambiri osafunikira kapena kuvomerezedwa, ndi miyezi kapena milungu ingapo kuti mukonzekere, kukonzekera, ndi kuyitanitsa adieu. Ndikusunthika (kochuluka, kochuluka) komwe kumafikira kufunika kwakukulu kwa abwenzi - ndipo, kunena zowona, sindikutanthauza anzanu omwe amakhala ngati abwenzi abwino. Ndikutanthauza anthu anu. Fuko lanu. Anzanu omwe adasandulika banja omwe amakuwonani ndikudziwani ndikumva zomwe mumamva.
Timayamikira kwambiri anzathu. Kwa okwatirana ankhondo ngati ine, ndizo zonse zomwe tili nazo. Oyandikana nawo komanso anthu ammudzi omwe amatchera khutu momwe angathere kuti amvetsetse mavuto athu, omwe amabwera ndi chakudya chamadzulo ndi chakudya (olandilidwa nthawi zonse, olandiridwa nthawi zonse), omwe amatilimbikitsa mwakuthupi ndi mwamaganizidwe pamene tikuyesa kuyenda m'njira zathu. Tikufuna anzathu, chikondi ndi chithandizo.
Ndipo tikusowa ankhondo ena, nawonso.
Pali malingaliro okhalamo ankhondo. Kulumikizana ndi okwatirana ena, maubwenzi olimbikitsidwa pakumvetsetsa komanso kufunikira kwa maubale apabanja, opanikizika palimodzi mwamphamvu komanso pamavuto. Kuphatikizika kumeneku kumatisandutsa ife, monga momwe ma diamondi osasunthika amapangidwira kuchokera kuzama kwambiri komanso mwamphamvu kwambiri pazinthu zapadziko lapansi, ndipo timasamalidwa m'malo mokhala osamala, kukhala ndi chiyembekezo m'malo mopweteka, kukondedwa m'malo mokhala osungulumwa.
Timawonana. Ndife wina ndi mnzake. Okwatirana omwe ali ndi asirikali otumizidwa omwe amalira limodzi kutsazikana. Omwe amalira limodzi kunyumba. Ndani amalira, nthawi. Ana ankhondo omwe amalumikizana limodzi ndi zomangira zosawoneka bwino, kukhulupirika, ndi kuthandizidwa. Tili ndi makanda (otchedwa "ana ankhondo") omwe amakulira limodzi, nthawi yakumenya nkhondo yawo monga makolo omwe adatumizidwa amawayang'ana akukula kuchokera pakompyuta.
Timagawana zokumana nazo komanso tchuthi, chisangalalo ndi chisoni chosweka. Timagawana chakudya, momveka bwino, komanso zakumwa zambiri, zamitundu yonse. Timagawana malangizo ochulukirapo, ndipo nthawi zambiri, timakhala ndi zambiri. Timaponyera ana mvula ndi zikondwerero zonse. Pamodzi timakhala usiku komanso masewera usiku, masiku a paki, masiku a Oreo, ndi masiku a ER.
Awa ndi anthu omwe amadziwa zakusowa komwe kumachitika ndikubwezeretsanso kopambana. Ndani amadziwa za kupsinjika kwa akazi okwatirana kunkhondo, zazovuta komanso zopweteka zaukwati wankhondo.
Ndani basi mukudziwa.
Ndipo muthane ndi mvula yamkuntho yamkuntho ndi zovuta zamkuntho.
Tidafunikira chifundo ndipo tawonetsedwa otere, makamaka pamene wokondedwa wanga sanapezeke chifukwa chothandizidwa ndikuphunzitsidwa. Ma bwalo athu asamalidwa, mayendedwe athu amayendetsedwa ndi fosholo. Anthu oyandikana nafe atipulumutsa ndi ma plumb thandizo (chifukwa nthawi zonse pakhala pali kutayikira kwinakwake), mizinda yathu yatithandizira kutipulumutsa, zolemba zoyamikira, makalata ndi maphukusi, kunyumba ndi pomwe amatumizidwa. Anthu ambiri odyera adya patebulo langa, mwaulemu ndi anthu ammudzi omwe amawona zosowa ndikuzikwaniritsa. Ndalimbikitsidwa ndi zolemba zoganizira, machitidwe, ndi nkhope zaubwenzi zikundilowetsa.
Sitinamvepo tokha.
Nayi chinthu chake: Tidziwa ndipo tawona momwe chifundo chimamangitsira madera. Tikudziwa ntchito yomwe imayamba kupepuka katundu kwa ena. Imapulumutsa iwo omwe ali pamavuto. Amakweza otopa ndi olemedwa. Amaswa zopinga ndikutsegula zitseko ndikudzaza mitima. Tikudziwa chifukwa tazilandila tokha, ntchito zopatsa ndi chikondi chenicheni ndi chisamaliro.
Tikudziwa. Tamva chikondi. Ndipo mosakayikira ndife othokoza.
Ndipo kotero timatumikira. Banja lathu laling'ono lalandira zambiri, ndipo tikuyembekeza kuchita zambiri. Kusonyeza chikondi chenicheni ndi kukoma mtima kwenikweni ndi ubwenzi. Tili ndi ntchito yambiri yoti tichite, koma ndikhulupilira kuti tiana tanga tating'ono tiwona momwe chifundo chidakhudzira banja lathu, zomwe zidatsalira pamoyo wathu. Ndikukhulupirira kuti akumva zabwino zomwe zikuchitika pantchito iliyonse, kuti azindikira chisangalalo chilichonse chowonetserako kukoma mtima kwenikweni.
Zimasintha anthu kukhala abwino.
Ndiwo zotsatira za chikondi mdera lanu. Imafalikira ngati lawi lamoto, kuwotcha ena ndi chikhumbo chofalitsa zabwino, kuti asinthe. Padziko lonse lapansi, dziko lapansi likufuna zochuluka kwa inu: inu amene mumawotcha ndi chidwi chofuna kukhazikitsa kusintha kwenikweni. Koma madera anu amakufunaninso, okwatirana ankhondo komanso anthu wamba. Akufunika kuti mufikire mkati ndikuwunika zomwe mudakumana nazo kale, zabwino komanso zoyipa. Tengani, sinthani, ndikuwatsatira.
Tonsefe timafunikira chikondi ndi chifundo chochuluka m'miyoyo yathu.
Takonzeka kukhumudwitsidwa
Ndizosangalatsa, eh?
Tsoka ilo, ndizokwanira kwathunthu komanso zowoneka bwino (ndi zina) mitundu yonse ya chowonadi. Sindikanakhulupilira mpaka nditadzakwatirana ndi asitikali ndipo (melodrama tcheru!) Ndikuphwanyidwa ndi chowonadi chake.
Okwatirana ankhondo amakhala ndi (osachepera kwenikweni) mawu ena apamanja awiri: "Ndikukhulupirira ndikadzawona" ndi "Ndikuyembekeza zabwino, yembekezerani zovuta." Chodabwitsa, awa ndi ena mwa chiyembekezo chambiri mgululi.
Tili zaka khumi tili muukwati wanga wankhondo ndipo mawuwa adalembedweratu pa ahem yanga, ndipo ine, ndikung'ung'udza ndi mawu otukwana (mwina ana anga angamve ndikubwereza kwa aphunzitsi awo), ndikukakamizidwa kutsatira mawu ena ophatikizira kukwezedwa kulikonse, kutumizidwa , tsiku la sukulu, malipiro, mapulani a tchuthi, ndi nthawi yopuma. O, ndi zolemba zonse. Ngakhale usiku ndi kumapeto kwa sabata tili pa chifundo cha, osati ife. Mwachidule, kukhalapo kwathu konse kumatha kusintha pini yoperekedwa ndi gulu lankhondo.
Koma apa pali chowonadi chovuta, mapiritsi okhala ndi kuchuluka kwa tsiku ndi tsiku komwe tili (chabwino, ndili) kumeza nthawi zonse.
Tikudziwa chifukwa tidakhalako ...
Tikudziwa za kutumizidwa ndi chidziwitso cha masiku asanu ndi atatu. Tikudziwa za kukhala ndi ana okha, kudalira manesi achifundo achifundo. Tikudziwa zakumapeto kwa sabata komanso ntchito yosakonzekera usiku komanso mapulani. Tikudziwa zamavuto amalipilo, za magawo omwe chuma chathu chidatha chifukwa chakuchepa kwa bajeti. Tikudziwa za zikumbutso ndi masiku okumbukira omwe tidaphonya ndipo tidathetsa tikiti za ndege kupita kutchuthi ku Hawaii.
Tikudziwa za malonjezo osweka ndi mitima yosweka ndi mawu osweka. Ponena za kutsanzikana, kutsanzikana kopweteketsa mtima. Takhala chete, anthu okhalapo m'mabedi opanda kanthu, mipando yopanda kanthu patebulo la chakudya chamadzulo. Zilipo potizungulira, zotupa komanso zopumira komanso zopweteka kukhudza ...
Komabe, ngakhale tili okonzeka, nthawi zina sitikhala okonzeka. Sitili opanda nzeru; tikudziwa kuthekera, ziwerengero. Tikudziwa kuti sitidzakhala okonzeka kudzipereka. Zowawa za otayika ndi osweka. Pachisoni chosaganizirika chomwe chimalemetsa anthu omwe aferedwa.
Sitidzakhala okonzeka kutayika kumeneku.
Koma tikudziwa za kutayika kwina, ndipo zokumana nazozo zimatikonzekeretsa. Amatikonzekeretsa kupitilira kukhumudwitsidwa ndi chisoni kuti tipeze malo apamwamba. Sitikhala chete. Sitingathe. Sitingathe kukhalapo pa ndege zotsikirazo.
Chifukwa ngakhale tikakhumudwitsidwa, timadziwanso chisangalalo chenicheni, chosatheka.
Timamvetsetsa chisangalalo
Kutsutsa: Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa molondola. Kungakhale kovuta kuyenda, kuti muwone chifukwa chake kuli kofunikira kwambiri.
Timadziwa chisangalalo chifukwa tazindikira chisoni.
Chifukwa tadziwa chisoni, titha kudziwa kuti chisangalalo chimadza mosiyanasiyana, kukula kwake. Monga tambala tomwe timapezeka m'matumba, chimwemwe chimatha kubwera kuchokera munthawi zing'onozing'ono, zomwe zimawoneka zopanda pake.
Inde, ndikutanthauza kwenikweni kuti tadziwa ndipo titha kudziwa chisangalalo, choyera komanso chosasakanikirana. Mtundu womwe umabwera pambuyo pamavuto ovuta komanso kunjenjemera, zitachitika zivomezi zamphamvu komanso zivomezi zachisoni. Chisangalalo chomwe ndikutuluka kwa dzuwa pamwamba pa phiri, chimawoneka mutangoyenda m'mphepete mwa mapiri ndikuwongolera malo olakwika, mutasochera ndikupezanso njira yanu.
Chimwemwe chimene chimadza ndi mayesero. Chimwemwe chimatha kukhala ndichisoni, chisangalalo ndikutaya mtima.
Ndipo kotero ife tikuzipeza izo mu kuphweka.
Chimwemwe ndi asirikali omwe amafika kunyumba kutatsala maola ochepa kuti mwana abadwe. Kuti mumalize maphunziro anu. Za masiku akubadwa. Ndizodabwitsa kuti ana ali m'makalasi, mochitira izi, zipinda zogona mdziko lonselo.
Joy ndiye kubwerera kwawo pabwalo la ndege. Nkhope zazing'ono zosaka mosaleza mtima, zikudikirira kuwona amayi ndi abambo, kudikirira kulandira makalata, mafoni apa kanema.
Joy akuwona abambo omwe adasinthidwanso atanyamula makanda atsopano kwa nthawi yoyamba, othokoza kupumira muubwana usanathere.
Chimwemwe ndiye funde lokonda dziko lako lomwe lindisesa m'mene ndimawonera mamuna wanga akupuma mbendera. Pogwiritsa ntchito maola, ngakhale mphindi limodzi.
Timazindikira kuti chisangalalo chimapezeka munthawi zochepa.
Chisangalalo ichi, chotulukapo cha zovuta ndi mayesero ovuta, ndiye mphotho ya zovuta. Kukongola kwa banja. Za maubwenzi. Za maukwati. Titha kukweza maukwati athu kuchokera kufumbi, ndikuwona kuti ndi chiyani: chamtengo wapatali komanso chosasweka. Ndikofunika.
Kiera Durfee
Kiera Durfee ndi msirikali wakale wazaka khumi ndi chimodzi ndipo ndi wolemba waluso, mphunzitsi, woyendetsa Netflix, wodya zopereka, komanso wozengereza. Anayimira a Utah National Guard okwatirana ngati 2014 Utah National Guard Wokwatirana Naye Chaka ndipo akumvera kwambiri za okwatirana ankhondo omwe amapeza thandizo limodzi ndi okwatirana omwe amafunikira kuthana ndi mikuntho yovutitsa yamoyo wankhondo. Kiera amakonda kudya, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi (mwanjira imeneyi), kuyimba, kunyalanyaza zovala, komanso kukhala ndi amuna awo ndi asungwana atatu omwe ali pachimake pa moyo wawo ndipo nthawi yomweyo amamupsetsa mtima. Kuphatikiza pa kukhala wodziwa zamatsenga komanso zamwano, amadziwa mitu yonse yaboma.