Zamkati
- Tiyeni tikambirane zogonana
- Kusalankhulana bwino
- Zosayembekezereka
- Ziyembekezero zosatheka zimasokoneza ubale.
- Mnzanu wosathandiza
- Zachuma
- Kuonera ndi zina zosakhulupirika
- Sikokwanira nthawi yocheza nokha
- Kutopa
Kumbukirani pamene vuto lalikulu kwambiri m'moyo wanu wachikondi linali komwe mumapita kukadya chakudya Lachisanu usiku? Ah, chikondi chachinyamata. Pamene maanja akula ndikuphunzira za wina ndi mnzake, maubale awo amakhala opindulitsa kwambiri ... ndipo zimakhalanso zovuta. Banja lirilonse ndilopadera pachikondi chawo, koma sizitanthauza kuti onse samagawana mavuto amanjirayo panjira.
Palibe ubale wabwino! Nawa mavuto pamaubwenzi apabanja omwe banja lililonse limakumana nawo nthawi imodzi m'miyoyo yawo.
Tiyeni tikambirane zogonana
Kugonana komanso kukondana kumachita mbali zazikulu m'mabanja, chifukwa chake ndizachilengedwe kuti nawonso akhale amodzi mwamabanja akuluakulu. Kukhala ogwirizana kwambiri ndipo mumamva bwino, ndichifukwa chake zimakhala zosavuta kukhala omvera pakakhala nkhani.
Mavuto amgwirizano wamaubwenzi nthawi zambiri amakhudzana ndi kugonana m'njira zosiyanasiyana, monga:
- Osakwanira kugonana: Vuto limodzi lomwe mabanja ena amakumana nalo ndi kusowa kogonana mbanja lawo. Maanja atha kupewa nkhaniyi pokambirana momasuka ndi moona mtima za zosowa zawo ndi ziyembekezo zawo zokhudzana ndi banja lawo.
- Kugonana ndikotopetsa: Mabanja ena atha kukhala ndi zilakolako zakugonana zomwe nthawi zambiri sizimachitika ndi okwatirana. Izi, ndikukhala ndi mnzanu yemweyo kwazaka zambiri, zitha kupangitsa ena kuti aziona kuti moyo wawo wogonana ndi wotopetsa. Pezani njira zokometsera zinthu ndi masewera apachipinda, mabokosi ogonana pamwezi, kuchita zoseweretsa, zoseweretsa ndi zina zambiri.
- Kugonana ndicho chinthu chokhacho chabwino muchibwenzi: Mosiyana ndi zomwe zili pamwambazi, moyo wanu wogonana ungakhale chinthu chokhacho chabwino chokhudza ubale wanu. Khulupirirani kapena ayi, maanja ena amakhalira limodzi chifukwa cha zipinda zawo zogona, m'malo mokwaniritsa zosowa zawo. Ngati mukusangalala ndi chibwenzi chanu koma simukhoza kukhala ndi tsiku limodzi limodzi, ndibwino kuti musiye ubalewu kuti mufufuze wina yemwe angakwaniritse zosowa zanu zonse.
Kusalankhulana bwino
Kulankhulana ndikofunikira kuti ubale wabwino, wokhalitsa. Komabe, mavuto amgwirizano pakati pawo amakakamiza kuti si mabanja onse omwe amadziwa kulankhulana. Izi zitha kubweretsa kukhumudwa, mkwiyo, komanso kusamvana bwino pamadzi. Sakani njira zothetsera mavuto ndi kulumikizana wina ndi mnzake popanda kukangana.
Fotokozerani mnzanuyo momwe mumalankhulira. Mwachitsanzo, munganene kuti: “Ndikaona kuti sindingathe kutero kapena ndikakhumudwa ndimangokhala chete.” Kudziwa izi kumalimbikitsa wokondedwa wanu kukhala woleza mtima komanso kumvetsetsa bwino momwe angakulimbikitsireni kutuluka.
Zosayembekezereka
Kusamukira limodzi kapena kukwatirana ndi mnzanu sizitanthauza kuti asintha mwadzidzidzi umunthu wawo. Akadakhala kuti akusokoneza okha, atha kukhala wogona naye wachisokonezo. Ngati samafuna ana mutangoyamba kumene, musayembekezere kuti izi zisintha panjira.
Ziyembekezero zosatheka zimasokoneza ubale.
Pewani zoyembekeza zosatheka mwa kukhala omasukirana wina ndi mnzake musanakhazikitse zenizeni zomwe mukufuna kuchokera pachibwenzi. Phunzirani kumulandila mnzanu momwe alili kapena pitilizani ndikupeza wina yemwe umunthu wake umagwirizana bwino ndi zomwe mukufuna pamoyo wanu.
Mnzanu wosathandiza
Vuto lina lachiyanjano lomwe limakhalapo limachitika ngati mnzanu sakugwirizana ndi zolinga ndi zokonda zake. Mukakhala pachibwenzi mumafuna kuchitira mnzanu momwe angakhalire chilichonse chomwe angakhale. Mukufuna kuti atsatire maloto awo ndipo achita chilichonse chomwe mungathe kuti muwathandize panjira - ndipo mukuyembekezeranso zomwezo!
Zachuma
Limodzi mwamavuto omwe maubwenzi amafala kwambiri omwe maanja angavomereze kuti ali pamavuto azachuma. Kusakhala ndi ndalama zokwanira kapena kusadziwa momwe mungagawanitsire mavuto anu azachuma komanso kuchotsedwa ntchito, kusowa ndalama, kusamala ndalama, ngongole, komanso kuwononga ndalama ndi zinthu zomwe zimabweretsa mavuto.
Kambiranani za zachuma chanu pamene chibwenzi chanu chikufika pachimake ndikukhala achilungamo pangongole yomwe mungakhale nayo. Dalirani wina ndi mnzake ngati ndalama zayamba kuvutikira ndipo osasiya kulankhulana.
Kuonera ndi zina zosakhulupirika
Kuonera ndi nkhani yayikulu mu maubale masiku ano. Intaneti yapangitsa mitundu yonse ya kubera kosavuta monga kutsitsa pulogalamu. Kutumizirana mameseji, zolaula, zolaula, kuzembera mozungulira, komanso maubale ndi munthu wina yemwe simunakondane naye ndi mavuto akulu omwe amawononga maubale, nthawi zina osasinthika.
Kusakhulupirika ndi nkhani yovuta kukambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu, koma ndichabwino kwambiri paubwenzi wanu kuti mumudziwitse wokondedwa wanu mukamayenda. Mukuyenera kuti mupatsenso ubale wanu mwayi wina. Fotokozerani nkhani zanu poyera mwina ndi usiku wamasana kapena kulumikizana moona mtima nthawi zonse kapena funsani upangiri wa maanja kuti akonze ubale wanu.
Sikokwanira nthawi yocheza nokha
Mavuto ena wamba pachibwenzi samakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yocheza limodzi. Izi ndizowona makamaka kwa maanja omwe ali ndi ana. Pakati pa ntchito ndi banja, nthawi zina mumakhala ngati okhala nanu kuposa anzanu omwe mumakonda. Izi ndichifukwa choti mwasiya 'chibwenzi' wina ndi mnzake. Zoterezi zimatha kupangitsa kuti wokondedwayo akhale wosayamikiridwa, wosasangalatsa, komanso wokhumudwa.
Itanani woyang'anira yemwe mumakonda kwambiri kuti akhazikitse tsiku lopanda ana kamodzi pa sabata ndi mnzanu. Izi zimakuthandizani kuti mugwirizanenso ngati banja, m'malo mokhala makolo. Pitani pa masiku ndikuchitirana wina ndi mnzake monga momwe mukuyeserana kuti muzinyengerera.
Kutopa
Kunyong'onyeka ndimavuto ofala pakubwera kwakanthawi. Kukhala ndi munthu yemweyo kwa zaka zambiri zitha kuwoneka ngati kukutulutsani 'kanthete' mu mgwirizano wanu. Muthanso kumva kuti mwatalikirana. Osataya mtima kapena kutaya mtima. Mutha kusintha izi ndikufunafuna njira zatsopano zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu. Fufuzani zinthu zatsopano zoti muchite limodzi monga kuyenda kapena kuchita zosangalatsa. Izi zidzakuthandizani kulumikizana ndi china chosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa.
Pali mavuto ambiri amgwirizano omwe amavutitsa maanja ambiri masiku ano, koma zopumira panjira izi ndizopinga zosatheka! Lankhulani momasuka ndikukumbukira kuti nthawi imachiritsa mabala onse. Malangizo awiriwa adzakufikitsani kutali ndi chibwenzi chanu.