Zamkati
- Khazikitsani malire omveka
- Funsani mnzanu kapena mnzanu kuti akhale ndi msana wanu
- Bweretsani zosokoneza
- Ikani malire a nthawi
- Khazikitsani miyambo yanu
- Muzicheza ndi anthu ena
- Vomerezani malingaliro anu
- Dziwani kuti simungasinthe kapena kuwongolera anthu
Inde, ndikuzindikira mutuwo umamveka ngati wopusa. Ena angayankhe akawerenga, ndikuganiza, "Zachidziwikire kuti simukhala kutchuthi ndi banja lozunza! Ndani angafune? ”
Tsoka ilo silimayankhidwa mosavuta, monga likuwonekera. Zotsatsa zikufuna kuti mukhulupirire kuti tchuthi sichinthu china koma chisangalalo, kuseka komanso kuwonetsa kudabwitsidwa ndikusangalala mukamatsegula mphatso yabwinoyi. Kumbali inayi, chowonadi chabanja kwa ena, sichithunzi chokonzedwa bwino m'malonda otsatsa ogula. Kuthera nthawi ndi achibale anu, kaya ndi anu kapena apongozi anu, zingakhale zovuta komanso zodzaza ndi mavuto. Komabe, pali zovuta zina zapadera zomwe mungayende pomwe inu kapena mnzanu mumavutika kuti muzicheza kapena kucheza ndi achibale omwe akhala akuzunza kwanthawi yayitali.
Pali maphunziro omwe amatsimikizira motsimikiza kuti tidapangidwa kuti tizilakalaka ndikupeza kulumikizana ndi mabanja. Ndipo palinso ziwerengero zambiri zomwe zikuwonetseratu kuti anthu ambiri samakula m'mabanja ovuta. Monga mwana, panalibenso kuchitira mwina koma kupilira malo ozunza komanso kulolera kupwetekedwa, koma tsopano, popeza ndinu wamkulu mumatha bwanji izi, mumatsutsana bwanji ndi waya wanu wamoyo?
Kuyanjana koyenera kwa mabanja
Kuyanjana kwapabanja, makamaka mozungulira tchuthi kumatha kufotokozedwa kwa ena monga, mokakamizidwa, pakhoza kukhala lingaliro lakulakwa komanso / kapena kukakamizidwa kuyanjana ndi banja. Pakhoza kukhala kufunikira kwakukulu kuyika mawonekedwe, mwina makumi kapena mibadwo pakupanga, kuti zonse zili bwino m'banja. Makamera akatuluka, kukakamizika kumayambiranso, kuyika ndikudya nawo, kutenga nawo gawo pachithunzi chachimwemwe cha banja. Koma ngati inu kapena mnzanu mukupita kutchuthi ndi banja komwe kuli mbiri yokhudza nkhanza, mumatani?
Khazikitsani malire omveka
Musanapite kuphwando la banja, khalani ndi malingaliro omveka bwino pazomwe mungalole komanso zomwe simungalole. Muyeneranso kulingalira zomwe mungachite ngati malire anu aphwanyidwa. Kodi mungalangize ndi mawu kuti mzere wadutsa? Kodi mungochokapo? Kodi mungavomereze kuphwanya chifukwa chake, kukhala chete, kusunga bata, ndikulankhula ndi wodalirika pambuyo pake?
Funsani mnzanu kapena mnzanu kuti akhale ndi msana wanu
Kambiranani izi ndi mnzanu pasadakhale ndikuwapempha kuti akuthandizireni. Kungakhalenso kothandiza kulankhula za "zoyembekezera zanu zothandizira" ndi mnzanu. Kodi mukufuna kuti azilankhula ndi abale anu ngati akuwoloka malire anu kapena mukufuna kuti mnzanu azikhala pambali panu, kukuthandizani mwakachetechete ndi kupezeka kwawo. Fufuzani ndi mnzanuyo ndipo onetsetsani kuti ali omasuka ndi ntchito yomwe mukufuna kuti achite. Ngati mnzanu sali womasuka, yesetsani kukambirana za zomwe zingagwire nonsenu.
Bweretsani zosokoneza
Zitha kukhala zithunzi kuchokera paulendo waposachedwa kapena masewera apabwalo, kubweretsa zinthu zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito ngati zosangalatsa. Ngati zokambirana / machitidwe anu ayamba kuyenda m'njira yomwe mumaona kuti ndi yonyansa kapena yovuta, ndipo simukukhala omasuka kuyankha izi, tulutsani "zosokoneza" zanu ngati njira yowongolera mutu wankhaniyo, ndikusunga mtendere.
Ikani malire a nthawi
Konzani pasadakhale kuti mukufuna kukhala nthawi yayitali bwanji paphwando limodzi labanja. Ngati mukudziwa kuti zinthu zimakonda kutsika mukatha kudya, tulukani mwachangu mutatha kuthandiza kukonza mbale. Pangani mapulani ena. Mwachitsanzo, konzekerani kukagwira ntchito kosinthana kukadya kumalo osowa pokhala. Izi zimapereka zolinga zingapo; muli ndi chifukwa chomveka chochoka ndipo mukuthandizira mdera lanu, zomwe zimathandizanso kuti muzidzidalira.
Kwa anthu ena, kuchuluka kwa kawopsedwe ndi kusagwira bwino ntchito m'mabanja awo kwakula mpaka kufika poti sangayanjanenso. Nthawi zambiri chisankhochi sichimangopangidwa mopepuka ndipo chimakhala chosankha chomaliza, pomwe zoyesayesa zina zonse zogwirira ntchito zakanika. Ngakhale ubale womwe udasokonezedwa umamulepheretsa kuti munthu asazunzidwenso, kusagwirizana kwamabanja kumabwera ndizokhazikitsa zake.
Anthu ambiri amadziimba mlandu chifukwa chosagwiritsa ntchito nthawi, makamaka maholide ndi achibale, ngakhale atakhala kuti adachitidwapo nkhanza. Anthu athu amatidzaza ndi mauthenga omwe amalengeza kuti, "banja limabwera patsogolo!" Mauthengawa amatha kusiya anthu omwe asweka mabanja, akumva ngati alephera kapena alibe nzeru mwanjira ina. Pakhoza kukhalanso ndi chisoni chachikulu komanso kutayika, osati kokha chifukwa chosowa achibale, koma kumva chisoni chomwe sichidzakhala - banja logwira ntchito, lokonda.
Ngati mwasankha kuti musakhale pafupi ndi achibale omwe amakuzunzani, choyambirira, phunzirani kukhala bwino ndi lingaliro lanu. Kodi ndizabwino? Ayi, koma zenizeni zomwe mwasankha zakhala za inu, kuti mukhale ndi mtendere wamumtima komanso moyo wabwino.
Momwe mungathandizire mnzanu / mnzanu ngati akuvutika ndi kusalumikizana kwa banja nthawi yatchuthi:
Khazikitsani miyambo yanu
Yambani kupanga zochitika zatchuthi zomwe mumafuna nthawi zonse, koma simunakhalepo nazo. Onetsetsani ndikudzipatsa chilolezo kuti musangalale ndi zinthu zazing'ono, monga kusowa kwa mavuto mu tchuthi chanu tchuthi. Dziwani izi, ndi mphotho yodzipereka kwanu.
Muzicheza ndi anthu ena
Awa akhoza kukhala abwenzi, ogwira nawo ntchito, ndi zina zotero. Onetsetsani kuti anthu omwe mwasankha kukhala nawo patchuthi ndiabwino komanso othandizira. Chomaliza chomwe inu kapena mnzanu mukusowa, ndikuweruzidwa ndi mnzanu chifukwa chosagwiritsa ntchito tchuthi ndi banja, kenako ndikumverera ngati mukuyenera kubwereranso kuzunzidwa komwe mudakumana nako, kuti muthe kusankha zomwe mwasankha.
Vomerezani malingaliro anu
Khalani ndi munthu wina yemwe mungalankhule naye za momwe mukumvera, komanso mwayi womwe mungakumane nawo. Sikoyenera kuyesa kubisa malingaliro awa ndi "zinthu". Khalani ndi moyo. Apanso, dzipatseni chilolezo chodzimva, kumva chisoni, kutayika ndi zina zambiri zikafika, kumva ndikofunikira pakuphunzira kuchiritsa. Kusunga malingaliro anu osachita nawo, kumadzetsa kutsekeka pakuchira. Komabe, sungani malingaliro awa moyenera. Dzikumbutseni chifukwa chomwe mudapangira chisankho kuti musalumikizane ndi banja lanu.
Dziwani kuti simungasinthe kapena kuwongolera anthu
Mutha kukhala ndiudindo pazomwe mukuchita, simungalamule momwe anthu ena amaganizira komanso momwe amakhalira.
Dziwani kuti chilichonse chomwe mungapange, ndinu olimba mtima. Sizovuta kuyesa kuyanjana ndi anthu omwe amasankha nkhanza ngati njira yolumikizirana. Ndipo mbali inayo, sikophweka kuchoka kwa achibale anu, ngakhale zitakhala kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino. Malingaliro abwino oti mutenge, ndi omwe amathandizira kupeza zotsatira zomwe zikukuyenderani bwino, ndikukwaniritsa zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva kuti mudzakhala bwino.