Zamkati
- "Ndikukutenga kuti ukhale mwamuna wanga wokwatirana naye movomerezeka"
- "Kukhala ndi kugwira"
- “Kuyambira lero”
- “Mpaka imfa itatilekanitse”
Tawamva nthawi zambiri, m'makanema, pawailesi yakanema, komanso pamaukwati, kotero kuti tikhoza kuwaloweza pamtima: malumbiro oyamba aukwati.
"Ine, ____, ndikutenga, ____, kuti ndikhale wokwatirana mwalamulo (mwamuna / mkazi), kuti ndikhale ndi kusunga, kuyambira lero mpaka m'tsogolo, zabwino, zoyipa, zolemera, zosauka, kudwala komanso thanzi, mpaka imfa idzatilekanitse. ”
Ambiri aife sitikudziwa kuti palibe chifukwa chololezera mawu ovomerezeka pamwambo waukwati. Koma akhala gawo la "magwiridwe antchito" aukwati ndipo ndiomwe akuyembekezeka pakadali pano. China chake chikukhudza za mibadwo ndi mibadwo ya anthu olumbira malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe.
Malumbiro awa okwatirana amakhala ndi mawu omwewo kwa wina ndi mnzake, mawu omwe amawalumikiza kwa maanja onse omwe, kuyambira nthawi zakale, adalankhula malonjezo omwewo ndi chiyembekezo chomwecho m'maso mwawo kuti adzakhala ndi okondedwa awo mpaka imfa idzawalekanitse.
Malumbiro oyambilira aukwatiwa, omwe amadziwika kuti "kuvomereza" pamwambo wachikhristu, amawoneka osavuta, sichoncho?
Koma, malumbiro aukwati osavutawa ali ndi tanthauzo. Kotero, malumbiro aukwati ndi chiyani? Ndipo, malonjezo aukwati amatanthauzanji?
Kuti timvetsetse tanthauzo la malonjezo muukwati, tiyeni tiwulule malonjezo aukwati ndikuwona mtundu wanji wa mauthenga omwe amapereka.
"Ndikukutenga kuti ukhale mwamuna wanga wokwatirana naye movomerezeka"
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazilumbiro zoyambirira zaukwati zomwe muyenera kuti mudamvapo mobwerezabwereza m'miyambo yosiyanasiyana yaukwati ngakhale m'makanema.
M'chilankhulo chamakono, "tengani" amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri potanthauza "sankhani," kuyambira mwasankha mwadala kudzipereka kwa munthu uyu yekha.
Lingaliro losankha limapatsa mphamvu komanso kumangogwiritsitsa mukakumana ndi zovuta zomwe sizingapeweke zomwe zingabwere muukwati uliwonse.
Dzikumbutseni kuti mwasankha bwenzi ili, pakati pa anthu onse omwe mwakhala nawo pachibwenzi, kuti mudzakhale nawo moyo wanu wonse. Sanasankhidwe chifukwa cha inu, kapena kukakamizidwa pa inu.
Zaka zingapo pamzerewu, pamene mukuyang'ana mnzanu akuchita zomwe mudamuwuza kangapo kuti asachite, kumbukirani zifukwa zonse zabwino zomwe mudamusankhira kuti mukhale mnzanu wapamtima. (Ikuthandizani kukhazikika!)
"Kukhala ndi kugwira"
Ndi malingaliro okongola bwanji! Kukongola kwa moyo wapabanja kwafotokozedwa mwachidule m'mawu anayiwa, omwe amapanga malonjezo oyambira aukwati.
Muyenera kukhala ndi "munthu" uyu amene mumamukonda monga anu, kugona ndi kudzuka pafupi ndi masiku anu onse pamodzi. Mumugwira munthuyu pafupi nanu nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukumva kufunikira chifukwa tsopano ndi wanu.
Kukumbatira kumatsimikizika, nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungafune! Ndizokongola bwanji?
“Kuyambira lero”
Pali chilengedwe chonse cha chiyembekezo pamzerawu, ndipo chimagwiritsidwa ntchito pafupifupi pamalumbiro onse azikwati.
Miyoyo yanu yolukanirana imayamba tsopano, kuyambira nthawi yokwatirana iyi, ndikufikira mtsogolo mwa tsogolo lanu.
Mawu oti kupita patsogolo limodzi ali ndi lonjezo kwambiri pazomwe anthu awiri angathe kukwaniritsa akalumikizana mchikondi, akuyang'ana mbali imodzi.
“Zochita zabwino, zoyipa, za olemera, osauka, matenda ndi thanzi "
Mzerewu ukufotokoza maziko olimba omwe ukwati waukulu umakhalapo. Ndi lonjezo lakupereka chithandizo cham'maganizo, ndalama, kuthupi, ndi malingaliro kwa wokondedwa wanu, zilizonse zomwe zingadzachitike mtsogolo.
Popanda kulimbikitsana kumeneku, banja silingathe kukhala m'malo otetezeka, ndipo okwatiranawo amafunika kulimbikitsidwa kuti apatsane ndi kulandira maubwenzi apamtima.
Zingakhale zovuta kukula a ubale ngati mulibe chidaliro choti wokondedwa wanu azikakhala nanu, ngakhale mutakumana ndi mavuto.
Awa ndi amodzi mwa mawu ofunikira omwe agawidwa pa malumbiro aukwati, popeza ndichikole kukhala komweko kuti tisamalire ena, osati m'masiku abwino okha, pomwe kuli kosavuta komanso koyipa, pomwe kuli kovuta.
“Mpaka imfa itatilekanitse”
Osati mzere wosangalatsa kwambiri, koma ndi mfundo yofunika kutchulapo. Mwa kuphatikiza izi, mukusindikiza mgwirizano wamoyo wonse.
Mukuwonetsa onse omwe abwera kudzachitira umboni za mgwirizano wanu kuti mwalowa muukwati ndi cholinga, ndipo cholinga chake ndikupanga moyo limodzi masiku anu onse pano padziko lapansi.
Kunena izi kukuwuza dziko lapansi kuti ngakhale tsogolo likhale lotani, ziribe kanthu yemwe kapena zomwe zingayese kukusokonezani, mwalonjeza kukhalabe ndi munthuyu, yemwe mudzamukondane mpaka mupume.
Onani vidiyo iyi:
Ndichizolowezi chofunikira pophwanya malumbiro aukwati ndikuyang'anitsitsa zomwe zili pansi pa chilankhulo chophwekachi cha malumbiro akwati. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti tanthauzo lolemerali litayika chifukwa tazolowera kumva mizere.
Ngati mwasankha kuti mugwiritse ntchito malumbirowa, kungakhale bwino kulingalira kuwonjezera kutanthauzira kwanu, kutengera mtundu womwe wafutukulidwa pano, wazomwe mzere uliwonse ukutanthauza kwa inu.
Mwanjira imeneyi, sikuti mumangokhala ndi dongosolo lokhalo pamwambo wanu, koma mumaphatikizanso zolemba zanu zomwe inu ndi mnzanu mutha kugawana ndi omwe abwera kudzakondwerera mgwirizano wanu.
“Cholinga chenicheni cha moyo wathu ndichisangalalo, chomwe chimalimbikitsidwa ndi chiyembekezo. Tilibe chitsimikizo mtsogolo, koma tikukhala ndikuyembekeza china chabwino. Chiyembekezo chimatanthauza kupitiriza, ndikuganiza, 'Nditha kuchita izi.' Zimabweretsa nyonga yamumtima, kudzidalira, kutha kuchita zomwe uchita moona mtima, zowona komanso zowonekera. ” Mawu awa achokera ku Dalai Lama.
Sizokhudza banja makamaka koma titha kumvetsetsa ngati chiwonetsero cha malumbiro aukwati. Tsopano, mukaganiza, malumbiro aukwati ndi ati, pamapeto pake, malumbiro oyambilira aukwatiwa ndi omwe Dalai Lama amafotokoza.
Amawafotokozera ngati chisangalalo, chiyembekezo, chopita ku china chabwino, chitsimikizo kuti inu ndi mnzanu "mutha kuchita izi," komanso chidaliro chakuti ndi kuwona mtima, chowonadi, kuwonekera poyera, chikondi chanu chidzalimba kuyambira lero.