Zamkati
- Landirani kuti mwalakwitsa
- Keke amaphika
- Muyenera kukhala likulu la chilengedwe cha mnzanu
- Kupambana kwanga kuyeneranso kukondweretsedwa
- Mapulani ambiri adaletsa
- Kodi mnzanu sakumvera?
- Kodi izi ndi zabwino kwa ine
Anthu amafunika kudzilingalira okha pamaso pa ena. Munthu sangakhale wodzipereka wopanda 100%, kotero kuti imayamba kukhudza thanzi lawo komanso thanzi lawo. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti kuti mukhale omasuka ndi ena muyenera kuphunzira kukhala omasuka pakhungu lanu, muyenera kudzikonda nokha poyamba, kudziyikira nokha patsogolo. Kudzikonda, kudziyamikira, ndi kudzisamalira ndizofunikira kuti mukhale ndi moyo wathanzi.
Komabe, monga china chilichonse, izi zimafunikanso kuwongolera. Mmodzi ayenera kudziika patsogolo koma osafunikira kuti mungokokera wokondedwa wanu kuti mutero.
Palibe ubale womwe ungapulumuke pomwe a 'ife' ndi 'ife' atembenukira kwa 'ine' ndi 'ine'
Kaya akhale maubwenzi kapena chibwenzi chilichonse, atha kukhala oti mumagwira nawo ntchito kapena achibale anu, ubale uliwonse umafunikira pang'ono chabe. Mumalimbikitsidwa ndi anzanu, ndipo mumawathandiza kukuliranso chimodzimodzi. Ngati mnzanu akungokuchotsani osakubwezerani, ndiye kuti simuli pachibwenzi cholimba.
Ngati wina apita pa intaneti, wina angapeze kafukufuku wambiri womwe udachitidwa pamutu womwewo. Zonsezi zimatsatira kutsatira mfundo izi:
Landirani kuti mwalakwitsa
Mukazindikira kuti mnzanuyo siomwe mumaganizira kuti anali, anthu amakonda kukana. Amakana kukhulupirira chowonadi ndikupanga mtundu wawo weniweni, amapereka zifukwa zakukwiyitsa kapena zochita za wokondedwa wawo, ndikungopitilira ubalewo. Zambiri, kotero kuti nthawi zina amakhala oyipa. Chifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika? Chifukwa anthu amafera? Kapena ndiabwino kwambiri kotero kuti sangathe kuwona anzawo owoneka ngati abodza?
Ayi, aliyense ndi wodzikonda pamlingo winawake. Aliyense amakumana ndi zovuta kuvomereza kuti anali kulakwitsa.
Anthu omwe ali pamaubwenzi odzikonda sali osiyana ndi anzawo omwe amadzikonda okha.
Amangokana kukhulupirira kuti sanawone zomwe anzawo ena anali kale. Manyaziwa ndikuzindikira kuti ndiopusa zimawapangitsa kuti azitha kuthawira kudziko lomwe zonse zili bwino.
Keke amaphika
Osataya nthawi ndi mphamvu muubwenzi womwe udayenera kulephera.
Anthu sangasinthe malingaliro awo achibadwa komanso zikhalidwe zawo mochedwa kwambiri m'moyo wawo.
Mwana akakhala mwana, amawumbabe, kudutsa gawo la kuphunzira ndipo amatha kusintha. Pomwe akuluakulu, mfundo zawo zazikulu zimayikidwa, keke imaphikidwa, palibe kubwerera mmbuyo.
Muyenera kukhala likulu la chilengedwe cha mnzanu
Zosangalatsa monga zimamvekera koma, munthu ayenera kukhala pakati pa chilengedwe kwa okondedwa awo. Sipangakhale wina woposa kapena wofunikira monga wokondedwa wanu. Koma, onetsetsani kuti kuyamikiraku kumachitika mbali zonse ziwiri. Ngati ndinu anyamata pachibwenzi, ndiye kuti siinu ntchito yokhayo yoyamika. Nthawi ndi nthawi mnyamata amafunikiranso kuwunika.
Kupambana kwanga kuyeneranso kukondweretsedwa
Tcherani khutu ndikuwona ngati mnzanu akukondwerera zomwe mwakwanitsa kapena ayi.
Ngati sakuthandizani pazomwe mwakwanitsa kapena sizikulimbikitsani kudzidalira ndipo sizikulimbikitsani kuti mukwaniritse maloto anu, ndiye kuti ubale wayamba kale.
Mapulani ambiri adaletsa
Ngati pali mapulani ambiri omwe achotsedwa kapena mnzanu sakugwira ntchito ngati kale, ndiye kuti ndi mbendera yayikulu yofiira kuti asiya chidwi ndi inu komanso ubale wanu. Nthawi zina anthu amathamangira zinthu.
Amathamangira ku ubale wawo ndipo pakapita nthawi chisangalalo chimatha amapeza kuti alibe chilichonse chofanana.
Kuti monga fumbi lathetsa ubale wawo ulibe chilichonse. Akapanda kutaya mphamvu ndi chilimbikitso.
Kodi mnzanu sakumvera?
Aliyense amakonda kuseka. Koma, kodi kuseka uku kumakuchitikirani? Kodi nthabwala zikuwonjezeka kwambiri ndikukhala zachipongwe? Kodi mnzanu akugwiritsa ntchito ubale wanu pamaso pa ena?
Ngati mayankho a mafunso ali pamwambawa ndi inde, ndi nthawi yoti mugwade.
Kodi izi ndi zabwino kwa ine
Kamodzi, khalani odzikonda pachibwenzi, onani mbendera zofiira, mvetsetsani kuti munthuyo sangapange 180 ndikusintha, kuvomerezaninso zolakwitsa zanu, ndikupitilira. Ndiosavuta kuzinena kuposa kuzichita, koma ngati chisankho chovuta ichi ndiye kuti muyenera kulingaliranso za ukhondo wanu. Palibe amene angapulumuke mu ubale woopsa komanso wopanda thanzi. Monga momwe mnzanu ali ndi zosowa zomwe mumazipeza mwachipembedzo, inunso.