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Zamkati
- 1. Onetsani kuyamikira kwanu
- 2. Pangani manja ang'onoang'ono
- 3. Chitani chinthu chatsopano pamodzi
- 4. Kukhale malo
- 5. Mvetserani mwatcheru
- Kukulitsa ubale wabwino ndi luso
Pakatikati paubwenzi wabwino pamakhala mbewu zaubwenzi - malo omwe mungakhale nokha, ma quirks amavomerezedwa ndipo ngakhale okondedwa ndi zofooka samawoneka ngati owopsa pamaso povomerezedwa.
Mphamvu zaubwenzi zili ngati makina. Ngati simugwiritsa ntchito, chitireni bwino kapena konzani zinthu zikawonongeka pakapita nthawi, zimagona pakona ndikutola fumbi ndi dzimbiri, ndipo ndizovuta kuti zinthu ziyambenso kuyenda bwino. Monga pafupifupi chilichonse m'moyo chomwe mukufuna kusunga, chimafunikira kukonza.
Makina amafunikira kukonza, ndipo maubale amafunikira chisamaliro.
Nthawi zina izi zimakhala zosavuta kuzichita, komabe, chifukwa moyo ndi wovuta. Mwina simungakhale ndi nthawi yambiri m'manja, mwina simukudziwa momwe mungalumikizanenso patapita nthawi yayitali kapena mwina simudzakhala pamutu woyenera kuti muganizirepo za nkhaniyi.
Ngati ndi choncho ndi inu, pali njira zingapo zomwe zingatengere kuti mubwezeretse kuyanjana kwanu komanso ubale wanu -
1. Onetsani kuyamikira kwanu
Lembani kalata yothokoza nthawi yomweyo kwa mnzanu kapena wokondedwa wanu ndipo tumizani mndandanda wazifukwa zomwe mumakondera kucheza nawo.
Kachitidwe kakang'ono koyamikiraku kadzapanganso tsiku lawo ndi lanu. Mutha kupeza mahomoni abwinobwino omwe akuthamanga m'dongosolo lanu ndikukhala ndi mawu abwino.
2. Pangani manja ang'onoang'ono
Gawani chithunzi, nthabwala kapena meme zomwe zimakukumbutsani za wokondedwa wanu ndikuwonetsa kuti nthawi zonse amakhala m'maganizo mwanu. Muthanso kutumiza kanema kapena nkhani yomwe ikusangalatsani ndikuganiza kuti mnzanu angasangalale nayo.
Ndi njira yabwino yoyambira zokambirana zomwe sizachilendo kapena zopanda pake ndipo zingakhale zosangalatsa kukambirana.
3. Chitani chinthu chatsopano pamodzi
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti kuchitira zinthu limodzi (m'malo mongolankhula) kumabweretsa anthu ogwirizana. Pezani zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda, monga kukwera mapiri kapena kuphika kapena kuphunzira maluso ena, ndipo chitani limodzi.
Zomwe agawana zimalimbitsa maubwenzi ndikuwonjezera ubale watsopano.
4. Kukhale malo
Iyi ndi mfundo yofunikira mu maubale onse omwe malo ake amakhala athanzi. Mutha kukonda kucheza ndi mnzanu kapena wokondedwa wanu, koma kukhala limodzi nthawi zonse kumatha kukhala kovuta.
Khalani omasuka kutenga nthawi mukamaifuna popanda kudzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa ndikuwonjezera ulemu womwewo kwa wokondedwa wanu osawamvetsa.
5. Mvetserani mwatcheru
Chimodzi mwazinthu zothandiza kwambiri zomwe mungachite ngati bwenzi ndikumvetsera mwachidwi ndikutsimikizira momwe wokondedwa wanu akumvera. Simusowa kuthandizira chisankho chilichonse kuti muthandize wokondedwa wanu panthawi yakusowa. Mutha kungokhala nawo pafupi ndikuyesa kumvetsetsa komwe akuchokera.
Khalidwe lomvera chisoni mozama ndi lomwe limayambitsa ubale wabwino ndipo lidzakupangitsani kukhala bwenzi labwino.
Kukulitsa ubale wabwino ndi luso
Ndizovuta nthawi zonse ndipo ngakhale anthu samadziwiratu, koma ndiyofunika kuyitsata chifukwa mwanjira zina maubale samakhala ngati makina konse.
Ali ngati njira zotithandizira kupulumuka ndikuyenda mdziko lovuta lomwe lingagwiritse ntchito chisangalalo ndi kuseka.