Zamkati
- Kodi kulera nawo limodzi ndi mnzake wa narcissist kumatanthauza chiyani?
- Kukhala ndi narcissist ngati mnzake
- Palibe zonena, palibe zovuta
- Momwe wankhanza monga kholo amakhudzira ana
Chaka chatha, ndinali kupita kuphwando. Sindimaziphonya chifukwa ali ndi makeke odabwitsa! Sindinkavala, makamaka pamwambowu, mosiyana ndi anthu ena onse. Sindikudandaula kuti mwina aliyense ali ndi ufulu wokhala zomwe ali.
Ndinali kusangalala ndi nthawi yozizira masana komanso nyimbo zabwino ndi amuna anga ndi ana anga pamene ndinawona banja laling'ono kwambiri komanso lowoneka bwino likulowa phwandolo.
Amawoneka bwino kwambiri limodzi, ndipo kunena zowona, chinali chowoneka chokongola. Anayamba kukumana ndikulonjera anzawo kuphwandoko, ndipo zachidziwikire, inali nthawi yabwino kutenga ma selfie.
Momwe ndimkawasilira mwachinsinsi chifukwa cha unyamata wawo ndi nyonga zawo, mwadzidzidzi, ndidazindikira mwana, wazaka zakubadwa za mwana wanga wamkazi wamng'ono, atavala mwamanyazi akuyenda pansi pamthunzi wa banjali.
Mwanayo amaoneka ngati wosaoneka kwa aliyense paphwandopo, ngakhale kwa makolo ake.
Iwo anali akuyenda mwachangu kuchokera kumalo kupita kwina, kuwonetsetsa kuti akusakanikirana ndi khamulo, ndipo zinali zovuta kuti mwanayo azitsatira mayendedwe awo, ndipo amapitilizabe kupita kutali ndi iwo.
Mwadzidzidzi ndinadabwa ndi zomwe ndinawona.
Mwina zinali ndi chochita ndi ine kukhala kholo komanso wophunzitsa kwakanthawi.
Kuwona kwa kamtsikana kosasamaliridwako kanakanirira m'mutu mwanga. Ndinayamba kudzifunsa za kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa boma lake ndi la makolo ake. Chabwino, onse anali osangalala ndipo anali limodzi mmenemo.
Kotero, kodi ndizo zomwe zimachitika wamisala atakhala kholo.
Kulera mwana ndi mnzake wothandizirana naye kapena kugawana zaumwini kumatha kukhala kovuta kwambiri, popeza kuti nthawi zina mumakhala mukuvutika kuti mnzanu wachinyamata azichita nawo moyo wa mwana wanu.
Onaninso:
Kodi kulera nawo limodzi ndi mnzake wa narcissist kumatanthauza chiyani?
Ndikudabwa, bwanji za nthawi yomwe kholo limodzi limadzikondana, ndipo winayo amayenera kulipirira.
Kupatula apo, kulera ana kumangokhudza kudzikonda, kudzipereka, ndikuphunzira kukonda munthu wina kuposa inu nokha.
Kulera ana kumafuna khama komanso kutopa. Zimakugwetsani pansi, kukuwonongani ndikukuwonongerani, koma kumapeto kwa tsiku, zonse ndizofunika.
Kwa ine, kukhala kholo kumatanthauza kufunitsitsa kwa anthu awiri kuti akhalebe odzipereka komanso kuti agwirizane kuti agawane chikondi.
Inde! Ndizogwirizana, kuyambira nthawi yobereka mpaka kupuma kwanu. Palibe kubwerera, palibe kutsimikiza, palibe zoyembekeza, kapena malire, kungokhala ndi chikondi chenicheni.
Komabe, chovuta kwambiri polera ana ndi mkazi wamwamuna wakale wamwamuna kapena wamwamuna ndikuti nthawi zonse muziyang'ana chitetezo chamwana wanu.
Anthu okonda zachiwerewere amafuna kuti azitsatira ndipo akhoza kuyesetsa kupusitsa ena, ndipo ngati mungayime nawo kapena kuyesanso kupeza mphamvu, gehena yonse imatha.
Chifukwa chake kulunjika mwachindunji sikungakhale yankho labwino kwambiri la 'momwe ungachitire ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wakale wankhanza.'
Kukhala ndi narcissist ngati mnzake
Kukhala mayi ndizosangalatsa kwambiri.
Mukumva kuwawa; ndiwe wofooka komanso wamatsenga. Chomaliza chomwe mungafune munthawi yotere ndikumverera kuti simukondedwa.
Ngakhale abambo, sizovuta kwenikweni. Mumataya chidwi chonse komanso chisangalalo chomwe munali nacho musanakhale bambo.
Muyenera kukhala odalirika komanso kukhala olimba.
Koma mwina, sindine wokhoza kunena izi. Zoonadi, izi sizili choncho.
Makamaka munthawi yapa media media pomwe titha kufera zomwe amakonda ndi "awwwsss!" ndi "aahhhhs!" ndipo "ukuwoneka wokongola!"
Bwanji ngati wina akukhala munthawi yomwe akuyenera kupirira zovuta zakulera limodzi ndi wanamisili? Sindingathe ngakhale kulingalira za mantha omwe ndimakumana nawo ndi kholo la narcissist.
Palibe zonena, palibe zovuta
Ndimakumbukira pamene ndinali kholo latsopano, amuna anga anali mphamvu yanga.
Chikondi chake chimandilimbikitsa. Kukhala naye pafupi kudapangitsa kuti zinthu zikhale zosavuta ndikukhala kholo, chisangalalo chotere. Izi sizinali zofanana kwa mabanja ena ambiri ozungulira ine.
Nthawi zina, amayi anali osamalira kwambiri ndipo sanali okonzeka kusiya moyo wawo wapamwamba. Nthawi zina, abambo anali odzaza ndi zochita zawo kuti athe kuthandiza anzawo. Chotsatira?
Maukwati pamiyala ndi ana osasamalidwa ndizochokera kwa kholo limodzi ndi kholo lachiwerewere.
Momwe wankhanza monga kholo amakhudzira ana
Ndinawona mbali yowopsa kwambiri ya chithunzicho nditakhala mphunzitsi. Ndisanakhale mphunzitsi, sindimatha kulingalira kuti izi zingatanthauze bwanji mwana.
Tsiku lililonse ndimamvetsera ophunzira anga akufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo komanso zokumana nazo zawo. Choopsa kwambiri ndichakuti apulo samagwa kutali ndi mtengo.
Kwa wankhanza, ndiwo malo apakati pa chilengedwe, ndipo akuchita dziko lapansi chisomo chachikulu mwa kudzikonda okha. Zowonadi zimakhudza, koma sizabwino kwenikweni.
Zili ngati zovuta
Zimatengera munthu m'modzi yekha, m'modzi yekha, kuti miyoyo ya anthu ambiri ikhale yosautsa.
Munthu mmodzi wodzikonda amatsogolera ku banja losasangalala; banja limodzi losasangalala limabweretsa gulu losasangalala, ndikupitilizabe. Chotsatira? Anthu ambiri osasangalala, osatetezeka pagulu.
Ngati mukufuna kukondedwa, muyenera kugawana nawo m'malo mongodzisonkhanitsa nokha. Ndikhulupirire; ndithudi ibwerera kwa inu.