Zamkati
- Momwe mungakhalire chibwenzi mutatha kusudzulana?
- Kukhala pachibwenzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo sikofanana ndi kukhala pachibwenzi kale
- Mverani matumbo anu
- Tsegulani katundu wanu musanakwatirane banja litatha
- Muyenera kudikirira nthawi yayitali bwanji mutatha banja musanayambiranenso chibwenzi
Chisudzulo chatha, inu (mwachiyembekezo) mukuchiritsidwa, mwayamba moyo watsopano tsopano? Sitimayenera kukhala tokha choncho, kufuna kuchita zibwenzi ndikupeza mnzathu wina ndi zachilengedwe. Kodi chibwenzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo chikuwoneka bwanji nthawi ino?
Zolemba za siliva zokhudzana ndi chibwenzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndikupeza mnzake watsopano ndichisangalalo cholemba mndandanda ndikutha kuyika chilichonse chomwe mukufuna pamndandandawo. Muli ndi chinsalu chopanda kanthu ndipo mumatha kupanga moyo wanu watsopano.
Momwe mungakhalire chibwenzi mutatha kusudzulana?
Zitha kuwoneka zovutirapo kubwereranso ku dziwe la zibwenzi, makamaka ngati mudakhala pachibwenzi kale kwa nthawi yayitali. Mutha kuyiwala momwe zimakhalira kuti mupezenso chibwenzi. Zimatenga nthawi kuti musangalale ndi mwayi wokhala wosakwatiwa komanso mwayi wosankha bwenzi latsopano. Chinthu choyamba chomwe chimasautsa malingaliro anu ndi mtima wanu ndi kusungulumwa. Chifukwa cha kusungulumwa komanso kusowa malingaliro, mutha kulakwitsa pokhalanso ndi banja mutasudzulana. Komabe, ngati mungalembe zina ndi zina mosamala mdziko la chibwenzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo, mutha kupezanso chikondi.
Kukhala pachibwenzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo sikofanana ndi kukhala pachibwenzi kale
Kumbukirani kuti ndinu okalamba tsopano ndipo momwe mumagwirira ntchito m'mbuyomu sizingakugwiritseni ntchito. Dziwonetseni nokha. Ganizirani za malire anu. Kodi ma break breakers ndi ati kwa inu, ndi chiyani chomwe munganyengerere ndi zomwe simukufuna kukhala popanda? Sindingathe kukufotokozerani momwe malire aliri ofunikira. Ndimakonda kunena kuti, "Malire siofunikira mpaka chochitika choopsa chichitike."
Mverani matumbo anu
Imodzi mwa malangizo ofunikira pachibwenzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndikuyamba kukhazikitsa kusinkhasinkha ngati simunatero kale. Mukadzilola kuti muyambe kulowa mthupi lanu ndi momwe zimamvera, zimapangitsa kukhala kosavuta kupanga zisankho. Mverani m'matumbo anu ndipo ngati mukumva mbendera zofiira zikulankhula nawo, musawanyalanyaze. Ngati ndingadziulule, m'moyo wanga sindinamvere mbendera zofiira ndipo sizikupita kulikonse. Tikafuna kukhala pachibwenzi chifukwa chosungulumwa titha kunyalanyaza zinthu kenako ndikudzanong'oneza nazo chisoni pamapeto pake.
Tsegulani katundu wanu musanakwatirane banja litatha
Chinthu chimodzi chofunikira kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi ubale watsopano, simungabweretse katundu wanu wakale muubwenzi watsopano. Ndicho chifukwa chake mankhwala ndi ovuta kwambiri. Muyenera kudziwa zomwe zakupangitsani m'mbuyomu ndipo mukakopeka muzindikire kuti uyu si mnzanu wakale uyu ndi mnzanu watsopano.
Mwachitsanzo, tinene kuti wakale wanu wakunyengani tsopano muli ndi nkhani zakukhulupirirani. Muubwenzi wanu watsopano, mukuchita mantha kukhulupirirana. Mnzanu watsopano akuchedwa kukuyimbirani madzulo, malingaliro anu amangopita kukabera. Bweretsani malingaliro anu ndikukumbukira kuti uyu ndi mnzanu watsopano ndipo sanachitepo chilichonse kuti musawakhulupirire.
Mobwerezabwereza anthu amabweretsa katundu wam'mbuyomu m'mayanjano atsopano ndikuwasokoneza pakupanga zomwezi monga ubale wawo wakale.
Kodi mudamvapo mawu akuti, "Ndiwe munthu yemweyo?" Muli pachibwenzi chatsopano ndipo nthawi ino simukuyenera kupanga zolakwitsa zomwe mudapanga m'mbuyomu.
Muyenera kudikirira nthawi yayitali bwanji mutatha banja musanayambiranenso chibwenzi
Palibe nthawi yovuta komanso yachangu yomwe imatsimikizira kuti muyenera kudikira nthawi yayitali bwanji musanakwatirane banja litatha. Muyenera kutenga nthawi yochuluka (kapena yocheperako) momwe mukufunira kumva chisoni ndi chibwenzi cham'mbuyomu ndikudzimanganso. Mukayamba kumva kuti mulidi pachibwenzi chanu choyambirira ndipo mukufuna kuyamba kufunafuna chatsopano ndiye lingalirani za chibwenzi.
Kumbukirani, chilakolako chofuna kukhala pachibwenzi sikuyenera kuchokera pamalo omwe mukufuna kudzaza kusowa komwe mudasiyira chibwenzi chanu chakale. Iyenera kubwera mukakhala okonzeka kutembenukira patsamba lotsatira m'moyo wanu.
Tengani nthawi yanu kuti mum'dziwe wina. Khalani osankha, musakhale osungulumwa, nthawi siyikutha, kapena chifukwa china chilichonse chomwe mungadziperekere.
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