Zamkati
- Maubwenzi osagwira ntchito amachititsa kuti munthu asamadziderere
- Maubwenzi olakwika amabweretsa mavuto azaumoyo komanso amisala
- Phunziro la maanja omwe ntchito imasokoneza ubale wawo:
- Phunziro la mabanja omwe ndalama zawo zimabweretsa malingaliro olakwika pakati pawo:
- Maubwenzi olakwika amakhudza thanzi lanu komanso thanzi lanu
Kodi mumadziwa kuti mayanjano olakwika amatulutsa aura yolakwika yomwe imakhudza aliyense amene ali pafupi? Maganizo olakwika amafalikira. Kodi mudayamba mwalowapo mchipinda chodzaza ndi anthu ndikumva kukomoka mlengalenga? Mphamvu zoyipa zimakometsa mphamvu zonse zokuzungulirani ndikukutopetsani. Chifukwa chake, maubale olakwika amachitanso chimodzimodzi. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuteteza malingaliro anu ndi uzimu wanu ku mphamvu zamagetsi chifukwa cha anthu olakwika.
Maubwenzi osagwira ntchito amachititsa kuti munthu asamadziderere
Chofunikira chachikulu cha munthu aliyense ndichovomerezedwa. Kusokonekera kwa umunthu kumayamba chifukwa chodzimva kuti simukuvomerezedwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi anthu omwe mwadzipereka kwambiri.
- Kodi mukuganiza kuti kudzudzula kopindulitsa kwa mnzanu ndikotsika mtengo komanso kukuwonetsa kuti amadana nanu?
- Kodi kusakhulupirika kwa mnzanu kwakupweteketsani mtima kwambiri, kukuchititsani manyazi, ndikukhumudwitsani?
- Kodi mumakhala osangalala ndi anzanu, banja lanu, ndi ana anu chifukwa mwataya nthawi kuti mupeze izi ndi mnzanu?
- Maanja amapanga zokumbukira zomwe zimawathandiza nthawi yovuta. Kodi zokumbukira zanu zabwino ndizokwanira kuchita izi?
Maubwenzi olakwika amabweretsa mavuto azaumoyo komanso amisala
Kusweka kwamtima kumayambitsa mkwiyo, kupsinjika, matenda amtima, kuthamanga kwa magazi, komanso kusokonezeka kwa chitetezo chamthupi. Anthu ambiri amatembenukira ku chikhulupiriro chauzimu, abwenzi, ndi abale awo kuti athandizire kuthana ndi zovuta komanso zoyipa zake.
Komabe, anthu ena akhala pachibwenzi cholakwika kwa nthawi yayitali, avomereza kuti asayembekezere chikondi, kuthandizidwa, ndi ulemu. Amakhulupirira kuti kulibe kwa iwo. Amakhulupilira kuti sayenera kuwakonda ndikukhalabe muubwenzi kuti atsimikizire kuti ndiwofunika.
Phunziro la maanja omwe ntchito imasokoneza ubale wawo:
Judy 33, wothandizira kuyenda, wakwatiwa ndi wokondedwa wake wachinyamata, Thomas, wogwira ntchito zachitukuko kwa zaka 12. Zaka zisanu zapitazi zakhala zovuta. Kampani ya a Thomas ikuchepetsa. A Thomas akudandaula kuti mpweya pantchito ndiwampikisano kwambiri kotero kuti sangathe kupirira. Sanaganize kuti angapeze ntchito ina yabwino ngati yomwe ali nayoyo chifukwa amangokhala komweko. Tsiku lililonse limakhala loipa kuposa dzulo. Thomas amabwera kunyumba ali ndi malingaliro oyipa tsiku lililonse. Makhalidwe ake asintha kuchoka pakukongola kukhala Mr. Nasty. Judy akuganiza kuti amamutenga chifukwa woyang'anira wake amamuchitira tsiku lonse.
Nthawi zambiri a Thomas amakhala otopa kwambiri kuti azitha kuyankhulana komanso kusangalala naye. Kuyambitsa banja kwathandizidwanso. Madzulo aliwonse atadya chakudya chamadzulo, a Thomas amakhala patsogolo pa TV ndikumwa chakumwa m'manja mpaka atagona. Judy akuganiza kuti kampani ya Thomas imagwiritsa ntchito machenjerero ampikisano kuti ipeze ntchito yambiri kuchokera kwa ogwira ntchito. Ntchito samalipira. Patha zaka zisanu. Judy wataya chiyembekezo chokhala ndi banja labwino. Amakhala chifukwa amakonda Thomas. Amadzipeza akuyembekeza kuti achotsedwa ntchito. Judy wayamba kugwira ntchito mochedwa ndikumwa mowa.
Komabe, pali thandizo lomwe lilipo. Anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mowa, kutchova juga, omwe amayamba kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso amafunafuna magawo 12 a magulu omwe amaphunzira kuti pali malire omwe aliyense ayenera kukhazikitsa pachibwenzi. Pali mitundu yambiri yamagulu othandizira mderalo yomwe imalimbikitsa kudzidalira ndikupatsidwa ulemu komanso mtendere wam'malingaliro.
Maguluwa amapereka njira zochitira izi. Mapulaniwa amapereka zida zolumikizirana kuti athane ndi anthu omwe amabweretsa mavuto ndi maubale m'moyo wanu. Ngati anthu omwe akuthandizani ayamba kunena kwa inu, "Chifukwa chiyani mulipobe ngati simukusangalala ndi munthuyu?" Pakadali pano upangiri wa akatswiri kapena gulu lothandizira m'deralo silingapweteke.
Phunziro la mabanja omwe ndalama zawo zimabweretsa malingaliro olakwika pakati pawo:
James 25, wokonza magalimoto, amakonda Sherry, mkazi wake wazaka ziwiri. Ali ndi mwana wazaka chimodzi, John.
James atakumana ndi Sherry, adakonda kuti amasamala za mawonekedwe ake. Komabe, sanadziwe mtengo wokwanira kusunga mawonekedwe mpaka atakwatirana. Sherry ali ndi ntchito ndipo amaganiza kuti ali ndi ufulu wopeza ndalama zokongola chifukwa anali nazo asanakwatirane. Zomwe mumachita kuti muwapeze ndizomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muzisunga, sichoncho?
James akufuna kupulumutsa ndalama zolipirira kulera ana ndi kusamalira ana masana. Amafuna Sherry kuti azitsatira bajeti moyenera komanso kuti asamakonzekere kwambiri. Chuma ndi chinthu chokha chomwe amalimbana nacho ndipo chakhala chikuzungulira pambuyo pake. Tsopano, Sherry wayamba kubisa zomwe amagula koma amaiwala kubisa ma risiti. James wakhumudwa chifukwa ndewu izi zimakhudza moyo wawo wogonana. Akumvanso zifuwa komanso mutu. Sizithandiza pomwe azinzake amamuuza kuti, "Ndakuwuzani".
A Thomas alangizidwa ndi membala wa tchalitchi kuti akafufuze upangiri waukwati kutchalitchi, ndi zaulere. Komanso mlongo wa mnzake wapamtima ndi woyang'anira ndalama. Akuganiza izi. Nthawi zina aliyense amafunikira thandizo pang'ono. Iye ndi Sherry sangathe kuthetsa vutoli mwaokha chifukwa samamverana ndipo safuna kunyengerera. Maukwati ambiri amatha chifukwa cha ndalama komanso zisankho pamoyo wawo. Umenewu ndi mutu woti mukambirane musanalowe m'banja.
Maubwenzi olakwika amakhudza thanzi lanu komanso thanzi lanu
Zovuta zambiri zimathetsa maubale ndi maukwati chifukwa zimawononga ulemu, ulemu, ndi kuthandizira omwe akukhudzidwa. Kufunafuna upangiri wachikhulupiriro, magulu othandizira anthu ammudzi, alangizi azachuma, ndi alangizi akatswiri ndi mayankho omwe sayenera kuthetsedwa ngati kusakhulupirika muubwenzi kukuwononga aliyense. Chibwenzicho chimatha kupulumutsidwa ndi akatswiri ophunzitsidwa bwino.