Zamkati
Kupanda ndalama- Kupambana kwamaphunziro
- Kudziyang'anira pansi
- Makhalidwe
- Zotsatira zabwino
- Malangizo olera okha
Banja - ili ndi mawu omwe amachititsa kukumbukira nthawi zosangalatsa.
Kugawana zomwe zidachitika tsiku lonse pa chakudya chamadzulo, kutsegula mphatso pa Khrisimasi, komanso kukhala ndi machesi ofuula ndi mng'ono wanu; zonsezi zikuwonetsa kuti muli ndi mgwirizano wosagawanika ndi abale anu.
Koma si anthu onse amene ali ndi banja losangalala.
M'masiku ano amakono, tikuwona makolo ambiri olera okha ana akuyesetsa kuti apeze malo okhala a ana awo. Pali zifukwa zambiri zakuchulukirachulukira kwa ana omwe aleredwa ndi makolo okha.
Pulogalamu ya zomwe zimayambitsa kulera kholo limodzi ndi mimba zaunyamata, chisudzulo, komanso kusafuna kugawana nawo maudindo.
Zikatero, ndi ana a kholo limodzi amene amavutika kwambiri ngati okwatirana sali odzipereka kuti banja lawo liziyenda bwino.
Ana amene aleredwa m'mabanja a makolo awiri amasangalala ndi maphunziro komanso ndalama zambiri.
Zotsatira zoyipa zakulera m'modzi pa mwana zimatha kukhudza kukula kwamakhalidwe ndi malingaliro amwana.
Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza mavuto ena olera okha komanso zofunikira kwambiri pakukhudzidwa ndi mabanja omwe ali ndi kholo limodzi pakukula kwa ana.
Onaninso:
Kupanda ndalama
Chimodzi mwazinthu zodziwika kwambiri zaubereki wopanda kholo ndikusowa ndalama.
Makolo olera ana ali okha amakumana ndi vuto la kuchepa kwa ndalama chifukwa ndiwo okhawo opezera ndalama. Kholo lokha limayenera kugwira ntchito maola ochulukirapo kuti likwaniritse zofunikira pakuyendetsa banja limodzi.
Kuchepa kwa ndalama kungatanthauze kuti ana atha kukakamizidwa kusiya maphunziro ovina kapena masewera amasewera popeza kholo lokhalo limalephera kulipirira ndalama zowonjezerazo.
Ngati pali ana angapo mnyumba, ndiye Zingakhale zovuta kwambiri kukwaniritsa zosowa zonse za ana.
Kupsinjika kwachuma kwakukhala kukhomo ndi khosi kumapanikizira kholo lokhalo, lomwe limadziwika ndi ana.
Kupambana kwamaphunziro
Amayi nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mabanja a kholo limodzi. Kusakhala ndi bambo, komanso mavuto azachuma, kumatha kuwonjezera ngozi yakusachita bwino maphunziro ndi ana otere.
Momwemonso, zovuta zam'mutu zokula wopanda mayi zitha kuvulaza mwana.
Ngati kulibe thandizo lazachuma lochokera kwa abambo, amayi omwe akulera okha ana ayenera kugwira ntchito yambiri, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti sangathe kukhala ndi nthawi yambiri ndi ana awo.
Ayenera kuphonya zochitika zapadera kusukulu ndipo mwina sangakhale pakhomo kuti awathandize homuweki.
Izi kusayang'aniridwa ndi kuwongolera kumatha kubweretsa kusagwira bwino ntchito kusukulu poyerekeza ndi ana omwe amathandizidwa ndi abambo kuthupi ndi ndalama.
Kuphatikiza apo, izi zimawonjezeranso mavuto omwe azimayi opanda amuna amakumana nawo pagulu pomwe anthu amawakonda ngati kholo losakwanira.
Kudziyang'anira pansi
Mwana amakhala wotetezeka kunyumba, zomwe zimakhudza momwe amathandizira ndi akunja.
Ziyembekezero zochepa kuchokera kwa anthu owazungulira ndi vuto lina la kuleredwa ndi kholo limodzi. Atha kukhala opanda banja lokondwa komanso lathanzi chifukwa sanakhalepo ndi makolo onse awiri.
Choyambitsa chachikulu chodzidalira mwa ana otere chimachokera poti samalandira chisamaliro chokwanira ndi upangiri kuchokera kwa kholo lawo lokhalo, zomwe zingawalepheretse kukula kwamalingaliro ndi malingaliro.
Ndikofunikira kuti onetsani kuti mumanyadira zomwe mwana wanu akuchita bwino poika lipoti lake pafiriji kapena kuwapatsa mphoto chifukwa chochita ntchito zapakhomo.
Ana a kholo limodzi amathanso kukhala osungulumwa ngati amakhala nthawi yayitali ali okha, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala zovuta kuti azicheza ndi amsinkhu wawo.
Atha kukhala ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kusiyidwa ndipo atha kukhala ndi vuto kulumikizana ndi achikulire chifukwa chosowa chidaliro.
Ngati akuwona kuti makolo awo sawakonda, ndiye kuti amavutika kuti amvetsetse momwe wina adzawadziwire. Zinthu ngati izi zimakula mwana akakula ndi kholo limodzi.
Zotsatira zakulera m'modzi kwa ana zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri, popeza amakhala ndi m'modzi yekhayo amene akusamalira zofuna zawo.
Makhalidwe
Mabanja a kholo limodzi nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi kusowa kwa ndalama, komwe kumatha kukhudza ana, monga kukhumudwa kowonjezereka ndi mkwiyo komanso chiopsezo chowonjezeka cha nkhanza.
Amatha kukhala achisoni, kuda nkhawa, kusungulumwa, kusiya, ndipo amavutika kucheza.
Kuyanjana kwa makolo omwe akulera okha ana omwe ali ndi zibwenzi zosiyanasiyana kumathandizanso mwanayo. Ana a kholo limodzi otere amathanso kudzipereka.
Zotsatira zabwino
Pali zabwino zingapo zakulera m'modzi kwa ana, koma zimadalira kwambiri luso la kulera ndi mitundu ya anthu.
Kafukufuku waposachedwa akuwonetsa kuti ana omwe azaka zopitilira 12 samawonetsa zovuta zilizonse zakulera m'modzi m'maphunziro awo, malingaliro, komanso chitukuko.
Kuphatikiza apo, zotere ana amawonetsa luso pakusamalira udindo wawo ngati ntchito zapakhomo ndi ntchito zapakhomo zimawagwera. Ana otere amapanga ubale wamphamvu ndi makolo awo popeza amadalirana.
Ana oleredwa ndi kholo lokhalo amakhalanso ndi ubale wolimba ndi mabanja, anzawo, kapena abale apabanja omwe akhala gawo lovuta kwambiri m'miyoyo yawo.
Malangizo olera okha
Kulera mwana pansi pa chochitika chilichonse ndi ntchito yovuta; Kuphatikiza apo, kukhala kholo limodzi kumangobweretsa zowonjezera komanso kupsinjika.
Komabe, ngakhale mukuvutikira kuti mudzisamalire nokha, ana anu, ndi nyumba yanu, pali zotsimikizika zinthu zomwe mungachite kwa kholo limodzi lokha moyenera.
Nawa maupangiri oti musamalire kupitilira kwa kulera ndi kulera ana okha komanso kuthana ndi zovuta zakuleredwa ndi mayi kapena bambo m'modzi:
- Patulani nthawi tsiku lililonse kuti mulumikizane ndi ana anu, mudziwe zomwe akuchita, ndikuwonetsa chikondi chanu ndi chisamaliro chanu.
- Khalani ndi chizolowezi chokhazikika, makamaka cha ana anu. Ana amakula bwino akamatsatira chizolowezi chawo, ndipo zimawathandizanso kukulitsa zizolowezi zabwino.
- Dziyang'anireni nokha. Kuti muthe kulera ana anu pamalo abwino, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti muli ndi thanzi lokwanira. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungathe ndi kudya mopatsa thanzi. Izi zingalimbikitsenso ana anu.
- Osadziimba mlandu, ndikukhala otsimikiza. Ngakhale Roma sinamangidwe tsiku limodzi, chifukwa chake kupanga nyumba yabwino komanso banja lanu kuti mutengere ana anu nthawi yayitali komanso kuleza mtima zomwe zingafune kuti mukhalebe otsimikiza.
Mapeto
Ngakhale simungathe kuwongolera njira zomwe maubwenzi anu angatengere, mutha kuyesetsa kuthana ndi izi.
Kudziwa zovuta zomwe mwana angakule m'banja la kholo limodzi kungakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa malingaliro awo ndikukhala kholo labwino lokha.