Zamkati
- 1. Kuvomereza
- 2. Muzimva bwino
- 3. Muzisangalala nthawi ndi nthawi
- 4. Mvetsetsani kuti kugonana kudzasintha pakapita nthawi
- 5. Landirani zosiyana
- 6. Wokonzeka kuthana ndi vuto lililonse
- 7. Lemekezanani
- 8. Kumverera kotetezeka
- Nyimbo yachikondi yosatha
- Chikondi chosatha
Tonsefe timalota za chikondi chamuyaya. Nkhani yachikondi yomwe imapita mibadwo ikubwerayi. Kukhulupirirana ndi kumverera kokondana kumakhala kwatsopano kwa zaka ndi zaka zikubwerazi. Komabe, si ambiri omwe angathe kukwaniritsa izi; ena sadziwa ngakhale ngati akwanitsa.
Chifukwa chake, tiyeni tisangalatse chikondi ndikuyang'ana tanthauzo lachikondi chamuyaya, zina mwanyimbo zazikulu kwambiri komanso mawu ogwira mtima.
Chikondi ndikungokonda. Sizitanthauza chilichonse kuyembekezera kubwezeredwa chilichonse. Ndikupangitsa ena kukhala omasuka, osangalala komanso okhazikika zivute zitani. Chikondi sichinganene kuti pepani. Hollywood yatipatsa ena makanema achikondi kwambiri m'nthawi yathu monga The Notebook, PS Ndimakukondani pakati pa ena. M'mafilimu amalankhula za chikondi chenicheni kapena chosatha kwa wina ndi mnzake, koma mungadziwe bwanji ngati muli mu chikondi chenicheni? Tiyeni tiwone mwachangu tisanapite patsogolo.
Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati muli mchikondi chamuyaya?
1. Kuvomereza
Tanthauzo lachikondi chosatha limatanthauzira bwino ndikuwonetsa momwe mungadziwire mukakhala mchikondi. Mukakhala mchikondi, mchikondi chamuyaya, mumamulandila momwe alili.
Simukufuna kuwasintha pang'ono; mumanyalanyaza mbali zawo zoyipa, kupatula kuti mumakonda chilichonse. Izi zimachitika pokhapokha mukatha kuwona kudzera mumitima yawo ndikudziwa kuti ndiomwe ali nawo. Ndikofunikadi kukhala ndi chikondi chosatha. Pomwe palibe kuvomerezedwa kwa anthu omwe ali, pamakhala mikangano ina pakapita nthawi.
2. Muzimva bwino
Kodi ndi liti pamene munakhala ndi chimwemwe chosatha mukakhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wina? Sizimachitika konse.
Mukakhala ndi chilakolako, mumakhala osasangalala komanso osangalala panthawiyi ndipo pang'onopang'ono imatha. Komabe, ndiye kuti muli mchikondi chosatha, mutha kudzipeza nokha mutazunguliridwa ndi chisangalalo kwa masiku, masabata ngakhale miyezi.
Zinthu zokuzungulira zidzasintha ndipo mwadzidzidzi mudzasangalala tsiku lililonse, ndi munthu ameneyo kapena ndi malingaliro a munthu ameneyo.
3. Muzisangalala nthawi ndi nthawi
Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti ubale umadutsa nthawi ndi nthawi koma si ambiri omwe ali okonzeka kuyika izi ndikuzivomereza ngati gawo la moyo. Komabe, mukakhala mchikondi chamuyaya, mumayamikira gawo lililonse laubwenziwo, ngakhale oyipawo.
Chifukwa chake, mwadzidzidzi mumapezeka kuti zomwe zakukwera ndi zotsika sizimakhudza kukula kwa chikondi chanu kwa okondedwa wanu konse.
4. Mvetsetsani kuti kugonana kudzasintha pakapita nthawi
Kugonana ndi gawo lofunikira paubwenzi uliwonse.
Komabe, si ambiri omwe amamvetsetsa ngati chibwenzi chanu, ngakhale kugonana kumadutsa magawo osiyanasiyana. Ndiwokonda pachiyambi ndiyeno pambuyo pokhala kholo umatambasula ndipo pambuyo pake m'zaka sizimachitika kawirikawiri. Komabe, mukakhala mchikondi chosatha, mumakonda kunyalanyaza chilichonse ndikukonda gawo lililonse lachiwerewere. Kwa inu kukhala ndi mnzanu ndizofunika kuposa china chilichonse.
5. Landirani zosiyana
Palibe anthu awiri ofanana. Zachisoni, si ambiri omwe amatha kumvetsetsa izi akakhala pachibwenzi. Komabe, chinthucho chimakhala chosiyana pomwe wina ali mchikondi chamuyaya. Amamvetsetsa izi ndikulandila munthuyo ngakhale atakhala ndi zosiyana zina. Kusiyanaku sikuwoneka ngati kukuwadetsa nkhawa konse. Amakondana kwambiri.
6. Wokonzeka kuthana ndi vuto lililonse
Chibwenzi ndi njira yovuta.
Nthawi zina kumakhala dzuwa ndipo masiku ena kumakhala mitambo yakuda. Chikondi chimakumana ndimayesero nthawi zambiri ndipo amene ali mchikondi chamuyaya samatha kuthana ndi zovuta zilizonse pamoyo wawo. Amalimbana kapena kupeza yankho la mavuto awo limodzi. Chofunika kwa iwo ndi umodzi wawo kumapeto kwa tsiku.
7. Lemekezanani
Ulemu mu chibwenzi umangobwera zokha.
Palibe amene amafuna kapena kukakamizidwa kulowa mmenemo. Mu chikondi chosatha, zimangobwera zokha. Mukuwona zabwino za mnzanu ndipo mumasangalala kukhala nawo.
Nthawi zambiri mumapezeka kuti mumalankhula za zabwino za mnzanu kwa ena. Izi zimakulankhulirani kwambiri komanso momwe mumakondera mnzanu. Komabe, simumadzitama nthawi zonse, chifukwa pansi mumadziwa momwe mumakondera wokondedwa wanu.
8. Kumverera kotetezeka
Ichi chikhala chikondi chamuyaya chofunikira kwambiri. Kudzimva kukhala wotetezeka ndikofunikira. Kukayika pang'ono kungathe kuwononga ubale wanu kwathunthu. Chifukwa chake, mchikondi chamuyaya, mumamva kukhala otetezeka kuposa kale. Mukudziwa, zivute zitani, wokondedwa wanu azikhala pafupi nanu nthawi zonse.
Nyimbo yachikondi yosatha
- Sindikufuna kutaya chikondi chako - John O'Banion
- Nyanja Yachikondi - The Honeydippers
- Wopambana mwa Ine - Olivia Newton-John / David Foster
- Chifukwa mumandikonda - Celine Dion
- Chikondi Chosatha - Lionel Richie & Diana Ross
- Lawi La Muyaya - Bangles
Chikondi chosatha
- Nyenyezi, chilengedwechi chidapachika kumwamba ndikudzaza nyali zawo ndi mafuta osatha, zimaunikira oyenda osocheretsa komanso osungulumwa. - John Milton
- Moyo ndi wosatha, ndipo kuphunzira kwake kumakhala kwanthawi yayitali pambuyo pa moyo
- Ndikufuna kuti mudziwe chinthu chimodzi, ndidzakhala wowona kwa inu nthawi zonse, ndipo ndidzanena kwa inu nthawi zonse, ndimakukondani. - Auliq Ice
- Ndiwe chifukwa chilichonse, chiyembekezo chilichonse, komanso maloto onse omwe ndakhala nawo. - Nicholas Spark