Zamkati
- Kodi mukufuna mwana wanu ataye zofuna zawo kuti asangalatse ena?
- 1. Awalimbikitseni kukhala aulemu, aulemu koma olimba mtima m'mawu awo
- 2. Sayenera kupereka tsatanetsatane wa kukana kwawo
- 3. Musalole kuti aike zinthu zomwe amaika patsogolo pachiswe pachiopsezo
- 4. Aphunzitseni kukhazikitsa malire
- 5. Apangeni kukhala nzika yodalirika
- 1. Onetsani chithunzi chabwino cha dziko lathu.
- 2. Khalani omvera malamulo
- 3. Tsatirani chitsanzo
- 4. Pitani ku zochitika zilizonse zomwe mungachite ndi mwana wanu mdera lanu kapena mumzinda wanu
"Nthawi zina" Ayi "ndi mawu okoma mtima kwambiri." - Vironika Tugaleva
Nthawi ina m'mbuyomu, ndinapita kukadya kulesitilanti ndi mwana wanga wamkazi wazaka khumi. Malo odyera anali atadzaza ndipo akufuna kuti tipite kuchipinda chawo chapansi pomwe mawonekedwe awo sanali okhutiritsa.
Ndidali pafupi kunena kuti chabwino pamene mwana wanga wamkazi Sachika adati, "Ayi sitikhala pamenepo", manejala adavomereza lingaliro lake ndikukonza tebulo labwino kunja kwa malo awo odyera ndipo tinadya chakudya chabwino pansi pa nyenyezi ndi mwezi pamalo otseguka .
Ndidakonda mkhalidwe wa mwana wanga wamkazi kuyima molimba pazomwe amafuna ndikunena mwachindunji 'Ayi'.
Kodi mukufuna mwana wanu ataye zofuna zawo kuti asangalatse ena?
Ngati ayi, aphunzitseni kukhala owona kwa iwo eni, sankhani zomwe zili zolondola ndikuchirikiza zomwe amakhulupirira kuti ndi zolondola!
Kuphunzitsa mwana kuti 'ayi' nthawi zambiri amawapulumutsa ku kukakamiza abwenzi (ndi zofuna zawo zosafunikira), kukhala owolowa manja / okoma mtima nthawi zambiri amapezedwa mwayi / kapena kupatsidwa mwayi.
Zimathandizanso kukhazikitsa malire omwe iwo kapena ena ayenera kutsatira.
Nazi njira zina zopanda mlandu zowaphunzitsira kunena 'Ayi'
1. Awalimbikitseni kukhala aulemu, aulemu koma olimba mtima m'mawu awo
Sindisuta; Sindimapita kuphwando lililonse usiku, Zikomo; Ndikuopa kuti sindingathe kubera / kunama; Sindimayang'ana zolaula / kusewera makadi / masewera apafoni, ndi zina zambiri koma zikomo kwambiri chifukwa chofunsa.
Choyamba, atha kudzimva kuti ali ndi nkhawa, akudziimba mlandu chifukwa chokana wina koma kuwonetsa zabwino zakuti 'ayi'. Mwachitsanzo.
2. Sayenera kupereka tsatanetsatane wa kukana kwawo
Ingosungani malongosoledwe osavuta mpaka pamfundo.
Nthawi zina anzawo / ena savomereza 'Ayi' wawo koyamba, choncho auzeni kuti chonde nenani 'ayi' ngakhale kachiwiri kapena kachitatu koma molimba pang'ono.
3. Musalole kuti aike zinthu zomwe amaika patsogolo pachiswe pachiopsezo
Auzeni kuti anene mawu osavuta komanso osapita m'mbali.
M'malo 'Ndidzayesa nthawi ina' aphunzitseni kuti, 'Pepani sindisuta kapena kumwa, ndiyenera kukana mwayi wanuwu ".
4. Aphunzitseni kukhazikitsa malire
Malire adzawathandiza kusankha zomwe angathe kuchita ndi zomwe sangachite (ngakhale inu mulibe).
Pamavuto akulu, Kungoyenda ndikumwetulira kosangalatsa kungawachitire zodabwitsa.
Afotokozereni kuti kunena kuti 'ayi' sikuwapangitsa kukhala opanda ulemu, odzikonda komanso oyipa.
Sangokhala opanda chifundo kapena osathandiza amangopanga zisankho kutengera nzeru zawo ndi malingaliro awo omwe angawathandize kuti azimva kulamulidwa ndikupatsidwa mphamvu. Ndibwino kunena kuti 'ayi' lero kuposa mawa.
5. Apangeni kukhala nzika yodalirika
"Sititenga dziko lapansi kuchokera kwa makolo athu, timalitenga kwa ana athu" - Chief Seattle.
Poyamba panali mfumu yaumbombo, yadyera komanso yankhanza.
Aliyense mu ufumu anali amantha chifukwa cha nkhanza zake. Tsiku lina, kavalo wokondedwa wake Moti adamwalira ndipo ufumu wonse udabwera pamwambo wake wowotcha mtembo. Izi zidakondweretsa mfumuyi chifukwa imaganiza kuti nzika zake zimamukonda kwambiri.
Patatha zaka zingapo, mfumuyo idamwalira ndipo palibe amene adachita nawo miyambo yake yomaliza.
Makhalidwe a nkhaniyi - Pezani ulemu m'malo mongoufuna mwa kudzipanga nokha ndi mwana wanu kukhala munthu wodalirika komanso wachikondi.
Nazi njira zingapo zophunzitsira mwana wothandiza komanso wodalirika
1. Onetsani chithunzi chabwino cha dziko lathu.
Ndikudziwa kuti pali mabowo ambiri amtundu wathu, zovuta zingapo, ndi zovuta koma ndikufunseni funso losavuta? Ngati amayi athu ali ndi zolepheretsa zingapo timazitsutsa pagulu kapena kuwadzudzula? Ayi, sitichita, sichoncho? Chifukwa chiyani dziko lathu lathu?
2. Khalani omvera malamulo
Tsatirani miyambo yosavuta monga osadumpha zikwangwani zamumsewu, perekani misonkho pafupipafupi ndikuyimirira pamzere. Chenjerani- ana anu amakhala akukuwonani nthawi zonse.
Thandizani zaluso kwanuko, kwanuko, kwanuko. Tengani ana anu kumalo ochitira zisudzo akumaloko, yang'anani masewero limodzi muholo yapafupi, pitani ku malo osungiramo zinthu zakale ndi malo ojambula.
Dzipereka nthawi yanu ndi chuma chanu kuthandiza osowa. Phatikizaninso ana anu.
3. Tsatirani chitsanzo
Lemekezani mwana wanu, musachite mivi pokhapokha ngati mwaperekeza mwachangu, perekani magazi, malo anu azikhala oyera, osataya zinyalala (ngakhale kunyamula zinyalala zomwe simunataye), kuzimitsa mafoni anu kapena kuwachepetsa mukakhala m'malo ngati sukulu, chipatala, mabanki.
Aphunzitseni kuti akhale olimba komanso olimba motsutsana ndi kupanda chilungamo kapena chilichonse cholakwika. Ayenera kudziwa kuyimirira pazinthu kapena munthu amene amakhulupirira.
Perekani mabuku awo, zovala, zowonjezera, nsapato, ndi zoseweretsa kumalo osungira ana amasiye. Apite nawo.
4. Pitani ku zochitika zilizonse zomwe mungachite ndi mwana wanu mdera lanu kapena mumzinda wanu
Sinthani ana anu za zomwe zachitika posachedwa m'dera lanu, mzinda, dziko komanso padziko lapansi.
Ayenera kuphunzira kuchitira aliyense mofananamo, mosatengera kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi, chipembedzo, mtundu, chikhulupiriro; mbiri yazachuma, ntchito, ndi zina zambiri muwauzeni zamikhalidwe ndi zikhulupiriro zawo.
Pomaliza, aphunzitseni kusamalira chilengedwe popeza tili ndi mayi m'modzi yekha padziko lapansi.