Zamkati
- 1. Kusangalala kumatenga nthawi ndikukonzekera
- 2. Mabwenzi amapanga kusiyana konse
- 3. Zimangokhudza kulankhula ndi kumvetsera
- 4. Kuthandiza anthu ammudzi
- 5. Yendetsani banja lanu mukamaliza kudya
- 6. Kuphika pamodzi monga banja
- 7. Phunzirani masewera atsopano limodzi
- 8. Aliyense amasangalala ndi mwambi
Kulera banja ndi bizinesi yayikulu, koma sizitanthauza kuti iyenera kukhala yopanda chisangalalo kapena kuseka.
Osatengera izi, ndiye kuti, mbali yopepuka ya moyo yomwe imapangitsa maphunziro ovuta kukhala osavuta kuphunzira.
Monga a Mary Poppins odziwika adanenapo kale, "supuni ya shuga imathandizira mankhwala kutsikira ..." Mwina mukudabwa momwe mungapitire patsogolo ndikusangalala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi banja, makamaka ngati mukuwona kuti mulibe chitsanzo chofunikira kutsatira kuleredwa kwanu.
Kenako khalani olimba mtima ndikulimbikitsidwa chifukwa moyo wonse ndikuphunzira zinthu zatsopano, ndipo bwanji osasangalala pang'ono mukamaphunzira za izi?
Tsopano popeza mukudziwa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yabwino pabanja ndikofunikira, yesani kulumikizana kwama banja izi kuti muwonetse kufunikira kwakanthawi yocheza.
Werengani kuti mupeze upangiri wabwino wabanja 101 wamomwe mungakhalire ndi nthawi yambiri ndi banja.
1. Kusangalala kumatenga nthawi ndikukonzekera
Ngakhale kuti zokumbukira zina zapadera zimangopangidwa mwadzidzidzi pakachitika chinthu chosayembekezereka, ndizowona kuti kusangalala nthawi zambiri kumaphatikizapo kukonzekera bwino ndikupatula nthawi yoti mukhale pamodzi monga banja.
Ndikosavuta kutanganidwa ndi ntchito, koma kumbukirani kuti palibe amene ali pa bedi lakufa yemwe adalakalaka atakhala nthawi yambiri kuntchito.
M'malo modandaula pambuyo pake, pomwe muli ndi nthawiyo, muzigwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru kuti mugwiritse ntchito ubale wanu wamtengo wapatali ndikuwona njira zosangalatsa zolimbikitsira maubale.
2. Mabwenzi amapanga kusiyana konse
Kaya ndi ulendo wopita kumsasa, tsiku lina kunyanja, kapena madzulo kusewera masewera, zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri anzako akabwera.
Limbikitsani ana anu kuitana anzawo kuti adzakhale nawo pa nthawi ya banja lanu.
Mwina anzanu alibe nyumba zokhazikika ndipo banja lanu lingakhale chitsanzo chokhacho chomwe angawone cha banja losangalala, logwira ntchito.
Mukuphunzitsanso ana anu kuti azitenga nawo mbali m'malo mokhala okha komanso kugawana nawo nthawi zawo zosangalatsa ndi kuseka. Ndilangizo labwino momwe mungasinthire kulumikizana kwama banja ndikusangalala ndi banja lanu.
Ndizowona kuti popeza muli mdalitso kwa ena, inunso mudzadalitsika.
3. Zimangokhudza kulankhula ndi kumvetsera
Inde, kulumikizana ndi komwe kumayambira komanso kumathera pomwe afika pamalingaliro am'banja pakulimbikitsa chisangalalo cha banja.
Mukamamvetsera mwatcheru pamene mnzanu ndi ana anu akulankhula, osadula mawu, ndikuwona momwe akumvera ndi mawu awo, mupeza kuti nawonso, azimvera mukamalankhula.
Maluso oyankhulana bwino ndi ofunikira ku moyo wabanja mdera lililonse, kaya ndikukhazikitsa malire, kupanga zisankho kapena kugwira ntchito zapakhomo.
Ndipo pamene mudziwana bwino wina ndi mnzake, mudzakhazikitsa banja laling'ono lapaderali 'mkati nthabwala' kapenanso maina aulemu omwe amapitilira kutali kutsimikizira kudzipereka kukhala m'banja lachimwemwe.
4. Kuthandiza anthu ammudzi
Pamndandanda wazinthu zolimbitsa ubale wapabanja, uyu akuwonekera kwambiri.
Patulani tsiku m'mwezi umodzi, kapena perekani sabata kumapeto kwa mwezi kuti muthandize anthu ammudzi.
Uwu ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri wotsogolera ndi kuphunzitsa ana anu za kubwezera kwa omwe ali ndi mwayi wochepa komanso osowa. Pali mipata yambiri yodzipereka kunja komwe mungasankhe.
Mutha kubwereketsa khutu la wodwalayo komanso kucheza ndi okalamba, kunyamula chakudya kuti mudyetse anjala ndi oponderezedwa, kuthandizira kusungitsa dera lanu ngati malo obiriwira, kuthandizira mabungwe oyandikana nawo kapena kucheza ndi nyama pogona.
5. Yendetsani banja lanu mukamaliza kudya
Nthawi yocheza pabanja sikuyenera kukhala nkhani yayikulu.Itha kukhala chinthu chophweka ngati kuyenda kanthawi kochepa mozungulira oyandikana nawo kapena paki yakomweko.
Khalani ndi nthawi yolankhula pazinthu zopepuka, kusangalala limodzi komanso mutha kukambirana ndikuvota pazosangalatsa zamabanja, zochitika kapena miyambo kuti mupite patsogolo.
Kuyenda pambuyo poti mudye ndibwino kuti musinthe chizolowezi, mukhale ndi thanzi labwino, kuthandizira kugaya chakudya ndipo zimakuthandizani kuti mukhale ogwirizana ngati banja.
6. Kuphika pamodzi monga banja
Kuthera nthawi yochulukirapo ndi banja, kukonzekera kupita kokayenda kumawoneka kovuta nthawi zina, wokhala ndi zochita zambiri.
Koma kuphika limodzi monga banja kumapindulitsa aliyense m'banjamo ndipo kumaposa kuyerekezera kwina pambuyo paulendo wapaulendo wophikira.
Ana atha kuphunzira maluso ambiri ndikukhala ndi mikhalidwe yabwino akamaphika.
Maluso ogwirira ntchito limodzi, maluso olumikizirana, kuleza mtima, njira zophika, kuchitapo kanthu, kugwiritsa ntchito luso komanso kugwiritsa ntchito ukadaulo kufunafuna zambiri zakukonzekera chakudya.
Kuphika limodzi chakudya kumakupatsani mwayi wabwino wogwirizana monga banja.
7. Phunzirani masewera atsopano limodzi
Ngati mukuyang'ana upangiri wabwino wabanja womwe ungakuthandizeni kuti mupindule ndi matani pakapita nthawi, sankhani masewera monga banja ndikukoka masokosi anu kuti mumalize.
Sungani madzi ambiri, zotchinga dzuwa, ndi mphamvu kuti muyambe kuphunzira masewera monga banja. Itha kukhala basketball, mpira, bowling, kapena tenisi.
Kuchita masewera limodzi monga banja ndi imodzi mwanjira zosangalatsa kwambiri komanso zowona bwino zakukhalitsa ndi thanzi lam'mutu monga banja, kupangitsa ana kuphunzira kusangalala ndi masewera, kuphunzitsa kulangiza komanso kugwira ntchito limodzi.
Malangizo apabanja awa athandiza ana anu kukulitsa kudzidalira kwawo ndikukhala ndi mzimu wothamanga wokhalitsa.
8. Aliyense amasangalala ndi mwambi
Anthu ambiri, makamaka ana, amasangalala ndi mwambi wabwino, kusekerera ubongo kapena nthabwala zagogoda.
Izi sizothandiza pakungosangalala pang'ono koma zitha kukhalanso njira yabwino yophunzitsira ana kulingalira za funso asanayankhe.
Mwachibadwa amadziwa kuti yankho loyambirira komanso lodziwikiratu lomwe amaganiza mwina silolondola, chifukwa chake amakumba mozama ndipo nthawi zina mayankho omwe amadza amakhala abwino kuposa omwe 'olondola'!
Ndipo pamene nonse mukuseka, chodabwitsa ndichakuti mankhwala athanzi ndikuchiritsa akumasulidwa muubongo wanu - nzosadabwitsa kuti kuseka ndiye mankhwala abwino kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake pali zododometsa zazikulu khumi za banja, olimba mtima, zopindika m'malilime ndi nthabwala zomwe mungazipeze zothandiza komanso zoseketsa mukamayesetsa kuphatikiza zosangalatsa ndi magwiridwe antchito pamoyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku monga banja.
Khalani omasuka kupanga zochepa zanu momwe mukuyendera, ndikuziwonjezera pazomwe mumakonda 'kucheza ndi banja' malangizo am'banja.
1. Funso: Phiri la Everest lisanatululidwe, ndi phiri liti lalitali kwambiri padziko lapansi?
Yankho: Phiri la Everest
2. Funso: Ndi uti womwe umalemera zochulukirapo, mapaundi nthenga kapena paundi wa golide?
Yankho: Ayi. Onsewa amalemera mapaundi.
3. Gogodani, gogodani
Ndani alipo?
Letisi
Letesi amene?
Letesi mkati, kukuzizira kunja kuno!
4. Funso: Nyumba ili ndi makoma anayi. Makoma onse akuyang'ana kumwera, ndipo chimbalangondo chikuzungulira nyumbayo. Kodi chimbalangondo ndi chotani?
Yankho: Nyumbayo ili pamtengo wakumpoto, chonchi chimbalangondo ndi choyera.
5. Funso: Ngati muli ndi machesi amodzi, patsiku lozizira kwambiri, ndipo mumalowa mchipinda chomwe muli nyali, chowotcha palafini, ndi chitofu choyaka nkhuni, muyenera kuyatsa chiyani kaye?
Yankho: Masewerawo, inde.
6. Chosokonekera chinali chimbalangondo,
Wopanda pake analibe tsitsi,
Chosokonekera sichinali chovuta ...
anali iye ???
7. Funso: Mungayika nyemba zingati m'thumba lopanda kanthu?
Yankho: Chimodzi. Pambuyo pake, chikwama sichikhala chopanda kanthu.
8. Gogodani, gogodani.
Ndani alipo?
Gulu.
Gulu ndani?
Ndinali ndi ziweto kunyumba, choncho ndinabwera!
9. Funso: Mukutcha kuti ng'ona ndi GPS?
Yankho: Navi-gator.
Kumapeto kwa nkhaniyi pamalangizo abanja abwino, nayi mwambi womaliza kwa inu
10. Funso: Pafupifupi aliyense amafunikira, amafunsa, amapereka, koma palibe amene amatenga. Ndi chiyani?
Yankho: Upangiri!
Mukuyembekezera chiyani? Ingolowani malo osangalatsa ndi ana kuti muwone ubale wanu ndi iwo ukukula ngakhale akamaphunzira panjira iliyonse akusangalala nanu!