Zamkati
Kodi ndizodabwitsa masiku ano kuti anthu amakhala ndi ziyembekezo zosatheka zokhudzana ndi maubale? Sikuti anthu amangofunafuna wina yemwe “sali mgulu lawo” - akufuna china chake chomwe kulibe. Monga ana, timakulira m'minda yopatsa chidwi komanso zokonda zopeka - ndipo anawo amakula akufuna china kuchokera m'nthano kapena kanema. Chowona kuti anthu ambiri amawona maubale mwanjira imeneyi sichimangochitika mwangozi; atolankhani amakhudza kwambiri momwe chikondi chikuwonedwera masiku ano. Kuyang'ana mwachidule pa Chiphunzitso cha Kulima kumathandizira kufotokoza momwe chikhalidwe ndi media zasintha momwe anthu amawonera maubwenzi achikondi.
Chiphunzitso cholima
Chiphunzitso chakulima ndi chiphunzitso kuyambira kumapeto kwa zaka za 1960 chomwe chimafotokoza kuti njira zolankhulirana zochulukirapo monga wailesi yakanema kapena intaneti ndi zida zomwe anthu ammudzi angafalitsire malingaliro ake pazabwino zake. Ichi ndiye chiphunzitso chomwe chimafotokozera chifukwa chomwe munthu amene amawonerera umbanda tsiku lonse atha kukhulupirira kuti kuchuluka kwa umbanda pagulu ndikokwera kuposa momwe kuliri.
Izi siziyenera kukhala zowona kuti zifalitsidwe; ayenera kungotengedwa ndimachitidwe omwewo omwe amakhala ndi malingaliro ena onse. Wina atha kuyang'ana pa Chiphunzitso cha Kulima kuti amvetsetse momwe makanema ndi makanema apawailesi yakanema asokonezera malingaliro athu padziko lapansi. Sitiyenera kudabwa kuti malingaliro ofala achikondi ochokera kuma media amafalitsidwa pagulu lonse.
Kufalitsa zabodza
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe anthu amakhala ndi malingaliro oyipa okhudzana ndi maubwenzi ndichakuti malingalirowa amafalikira mosavuta. Zachikondi ndimutu wosangalatsa wamtundu uliwonse wazofalitsa - umatisangalatsa ndipo umakankhira mabatani onse oyenera kuti apange media. Kukondana ndi gawo lalikulu kwambiri pazochitika za anthu zomwe zimakhudza china chilichonse. Makanema athu akamalimbikitsa malingaliro ena okhudzana ndi zachikondi, malingaliro amenewo amafalikira mosavuta kuposa zomwe zimachitikira ubale weniweni. Zowonadi, anthu ambiri amakhala ndi mtundu wazokonda zachikondi asanakumane ndi chilichonse.
Kupusa kwa The Notebook
Ngati mukufuna kuyang'ana wolakwira wamkulu momwe chikhalidwe cha pop chingasinthire mawonekedwe a maubwenzi, wina sayenera kuyang'anitsitsa kuposa The Notebook. Kanema wodziwika bwino wachikondi amapondereza chibwenzi chonse kwakanthawi kochepa, ndikupatsa mwayi gulu limodzi kuti lichite zinthu zazikulu ndi gulu linalo kuti lisalingalire kanthu kena koma zochita zosonyeza ngati amakondana. Chofunika ndikutuluka mwachangu, nthawi imodzi - osakhala ndi chilichonse chofanana, osapanga moyo, komanso osaphunzira kulemekeza ndikusamalira munthu wina kudzera mwa zabwino ndi zoyipa. Gulu lathu limakonda kupwetekedwa mtima kwachisangalalo - sitisamala konse za moyo wogawana womwe udzakhalepo pambuyo pake.
Vuto la rom-com
Ngakhale The Notebook ili yovuta, sichinthu chilichonse poyerekeza ndi mtundu wazoseweretsa zachikondi. M'makanema awa, maubale amaphika mpaka pamutu wopanda pake komanso wotsika. Zimatiphunzitsa kuti mwamuna ayenera kuthamangitsa mkazi komanso kuti mwamunayo asinthe kuti akhale woyenera wokondedwa wawo. Momwemonso, zimapereka lingaliro kuti kulimbikira ndi njira yokhayo yosonyezera chikondi - ngakhale atakumana ndi zoyipa. Ndizosavomerezeka, zowoneka bwino, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimaphatikizapo kuletsa malamulo.
Zofalitsa nkhani zakhazikitsa nthano yake yachikondi yosangalatsa ndikusunga owonera. Tsoka ilo, yakhazikitsa malingaliro okhudzana ndi maubale omwe sagwira ntchito zenizeni. Ngakhale maubale atolankhani atha kubweretsa ndalama zotsatsira ndikusunga nkhani kukhala zofunikira, sizikuyimira ubale wabwino womwe ungapangitse kuti mukhale osangalala.
Ryan Bridges
Ryan Bridges ndi wolemba komanso wothandizira pa Verdant Oak Behaeveal Health. Nthawi zonse amapanga zokhutira ndi maubwenzi osiyanasiyana komanso ma blog.